Different Finger
Elvis Costello & The Attractions Lyrics


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Please put your rings on a diff'rent finger if you meet me tonight
'cause I can't stand those suspicious glances
'cause I know the things they're saying are right

They're saying why don't you straighten up
And see what you've got to lose
Put it all down to fate but you still got the chance to choose
I don't want to hear your whole life story
Or about my strange resemblance to some old flame
All I want is one night of glory
I don't even know your second name

Please put your rings on a diff'rent finger 'cause we've got so much at stake
I can't stand those suspicious glances
'cause they seem to cover ev'ry move I make

But if I can be alone with you completely tonight




Put your rings on a diff'rent finger
Before I turn out the light

Overall Meaning

The song Different Finger by Elvis Costello & The Attractions is a cautionary tale about a man who is asking his lover to keep their affair discreet in order to avoid any suspicion from others. The lyrics capture the fear and anxiety that come with the possibility of being caught, as the singer pleads for the woman to remove her rings and keep their relationship a secret. He acknowledges the judgment of others, but is unwilling to give up his chance at passion and desire. The line "Put it all down to fate but you still got the chance to choose" speaks to the idea that fate may guide us, but ultimately we have control over our own decisions.


The song captures the complexity of relationships, particularly those that are kept under wraps. The singer is not interested in a long-term relationship or a commitment, but instead is focused on the moment and the thrill of being with someone new. He wants to avoid complications and any potential fallout, and is willing to do whatever it takes to maintain their secrecy.


Overall, Different Finger is a powerful song about lust, fear, and the desire to live life on one's own terms. It is a reminder that we all have choices to make, and that sometimes the most fulfilling ones are not the easiest.


Line by Line Meaning

Please put your rings on a diff'rent finger if you meet me tonight
I want you to take off your wedding ring when you're with me tonight.


'cause I can't stand those suspicious glances
Seeing you wear your wedding ring will make me feel uncomfortable and judged.


'cause I know the things they're saying are right
People are talking about how this is wrong, and I know they're making sense.


They're saying why don't you straighten up
People are telling you to get your life together.


And see what you've got to lose
You need to realize what you stand to lose in this situation.


Put it all down to fate but you still got the chance to choose
You can believe in fate all you want, but you still have a choice to make about what you do.


I don't want to hear your whole life story
I'm not interested in knowing everything about you and your life.


Or about my strange resemblance to some old flame
I don't want to hear about how I remind you of someone from your past.


All I want is one night of glory
All I want is a brief moment of excitement and pleasure with you.


I don't even know your second name
I know very little about you, not even your last name.


Please put your rings on a diff'rent finger 'cause we've got so much at stake
It's important that you take off your wedding ring because we have a lot to lose if we're caught.


'cause they seem to cover ev'ry move I make
Seeing you wear your wedding ring makes me feel like I'm being watched and judged with every little action.


But if I can be alone with you completely tonight
If we can find a private moment together tonight,


Put your rings on a diff'rent finger
You need to take off your wedding ring for me to feel comfortable and not judged.


Before I turn out the light
Before we go to sleep together.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO

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