The Wife The Kids and The White Picket Fence
Fair to Midland Lyrics


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Mail order brides, turtlenecks, and trophy wives,
Had the ways and means to breach,
The borders of easy street,

And to blend right in,
We all surrounded them in a white picket fence,
Now both ends meet,
Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends,

Two peas in a pod, a battle axe, and a bastard child,
Took one step more and went straight to the source,
And to blend right in,
They opened fire with their rain checks spent to make ends meet,

Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends,

Go on, paint the whole town red,
I'd rather follow who cleans up the mess,
And so I wait,

Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
So I wait,
For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,




While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
That burns at both our good ends.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Fair to Midland's song "The Wife The Kids and The White Picket Fence" explore the complexities of societal norms and expectations surrounding relationships and family life. The song begins by referencing traditional notions of success and happiness, with lines like "Mail order brides, turtlenecks, and trophy wives had the ways and means to breach the borders of easy street, and to blend right in." These lyrics seem to suggest that there is a prescribed path to contentment that involves material success and a certain level of conformity. The "white picket fence" symbolizes the ideal of a wholesome, happy family life.


However, the song's narrator is more contemplative about this notion, acknowledging that "both ends meet," but that there is a "fine line" that divides different perspectives. The lyrics allude to the tension that exists between individual desires and societal expectations, suggesting that conforming to the latter can often mean sacrificing the former. As the song progresses, the singer seems to recognize that there is no easy solution to these conflicts. They wait for the "tug-of-war" between different perspectives, acknowledging that there is a "time and a place" for each point of view.


The lyrics to Fair to Midland's "The Wife The Kids and The White Picket Fence" demonstrate a nuanced understanding of the complexities of relationships and family life. By exploring the tension between individual desires and societal expectations, the song highlights the importance of navigating these conflicts with empathy and understanding.


Line by Line Meaning

Mail order brides, turtlenecks, and trophy wives,
Women of different backgrounds and aspirations have found ways to infiltrate the upper-class society and be surrounded by luxuries.


Had the ways and means to breach,
They have the resources and cleverness to break through social boundaries.


The borders of easy street,
Refers to the privileged lifestyle of the wealthy and well-off.


And to blend right in,
They have mastered the art of fitting in with the affluent class.


We all surrounded them in a white picket fence,
Society has accepted them and created a idyllic image of their lives.


Now both ends meet,
The two different worlds are now synchronized and functioning together.


Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
There are specific instances suitable for actions to be taken.


So I wait,
The artist is patient and observant.


For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
The competition and opposing forces in the situation will determine who will emerge victorious.


While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
There is a delicate balance between success and failure.


That burns at both our good ends,
Both parties will experience the repercussions of the situation.


Two peas in a pod, a battle axe, and a bastard child,
People of different backgrounds have come together to confront the issue at hand.


Took one step more and went straight to the source,
They are determined to address the root of the problem.


They opened fire with their rain checks spent to make ends meet,
They launched an attack using their limited resources.


Go on, paint the whole town red,
You can cause commotion and excitement if you want, but I'll remain neutral.


I'd rather follow who cleans up the mess,
The artist prefers to support those who are assigned to restore order and fix the issues.


And so I wait,
The artist is still patiently and attentively waiting for the resolution.


Sufficed to say there's a time and a place,
Reiterates that there are situational protocols that must be followed.


For the tug-of-war and who you'll pull for,
The battle continues and the outcome is still uncertain.


While between you and me from point A to point be is a fine line,
The situation still hangs in the balance and can easily go one way or the other.


That burns at both our good ends.
The dire situation will impact both parties negatively regardless of the outcome.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ANDREW SUDDERTH, BRETT STOWERS, CLIFFORD CAMPBELL, JOHN MATTHEW LANGLEY, JON DICKEN

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Comments from YouTube:

Fuzia

Sadly this band has gone through some rough times. Major debts, no publicity (Even despite being labeled by Serj Tankian himself), bus tour crashes etcetc. It's really unfortunate, 'cause they're actually really fucking amazing.

J Freed

One of the best bands ever...lyrical genius, amazing voice and fantastic musicians. Please come back !

Tyler Menon

"For the tug of war, and who you'll pull for." That part gives me chills. He sings it incredibly.

Margaret Armstrong

This is my all time favorite song

Creed Bratton

The world is not fair. Fantastic voice, fantastic lyrics, really good song arrangements. What more do people want. Why isn't this band famous at all? This is bullshit.

Māl Akāi

Four years later and I just discovered them. I only found this band through Rishloo, another similar extremely underrated band that sadly also fizzled out. This world is not fair.

DevilzDance81

The masses can’t handle this type of genius and creativity in their music. Most listen for random noise in the background while they drive and not for musicianship or lyricism

progdog

this comment is 3 years old but man i feel this so hard. it depresses me so much that these guys didn't get the recognition they deserved. i can only hope one day soon we hear back from them but i won't hold my breath. this is easily one of my favorite songs of all time, regardless of band. im just so bummed about these guys.

Zenz0ha

I've been listening to Fair to Midland for ten years. I lived and breathed this album while working, and I still have not gotten sick of it. The fact that they hadn't been given the love they so very much deserved sickens me. It's just frightening to know that hardly anyone appreciates true talent anymore. I love Dubstep and Electronic, but I couldn't live without bands like Fair to Midland..

Ryan Forsyth

This has to be one of their all time best song for me Remember the first time back in 2007 when I first heard this band and loved it instantly

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