Current members:
Vocals - Chad Ruhlig (Legend) (2006-2008) (rejoined since 2013)
Guitar - Jim Hocking (since 2003)
Bass - Brandon Stastny (Thick As Blood (since 2011)
Drums - Navid Naghdi (ex-ABACABB) (since 2013)
Former members:
Drums - Andrew Tkaczyk (The Ghost Inside) (2003-2011) (songwriter since 2013)
Bass - Chris Ash (2003)
Vocals - Chen BiFlakes (2003)
Vocals - Aaron Long (ex-X-Ray Of A Graveyard (2003-2004)
Bass - Pat Hahn (ex-And Hell Followed With (2004)
Bass - Josh Misch (2004)
Guitar - Chris Croll (2004-2005)
Vocals, Keyboards - Andrew Juhl (2004-2006)
Bass - Scott Sparks (ex-Legend (2005)
Guitar - Josh Dore (2005-2006)
Bass - Scott Green (2006)
Guitar - Marcus Morgan (2006-2007)
Bass/Vocals - Joe Ellis (ex-Too Pure To Die &Legend now in First Blood) (2007-2010)
Guitar - Jason Spencer (ex-From Under The Gallows now in Wilson) (2007-2008)
Vocals - Dylan Richter (ex-From Under The Gallows (2008-2013)
Guitar - Chris Cain (ex-Elysia now in Bury Your Dead) (2008-2009)
Guitar - Kalan Blehm (ex-We Were Gentlemen now in Attila) (2009-2012)
Bass - Richard Neupert (ex-We Were Gentlemen (2010) (fill-in 2011)
Bass - Jaime Cano (2010-2011)
Drums - Will Weatherly [[artist]Kill ´Em All & Horns Become Halos (2011)
Bass - Jordan McPherson (2011) (ex-Through Storms And Struggle)
Drums - Arvin Sarathy (ex-Circle The Sky) (now tech for Motionless In White (2011-2012)
Drums - Dylan Shippey (Legend (2012)
When Push Comes to Shove
For the Fallen Dreams Lyrics
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Your guilty conscience made you leave this town
I probably won't ever find out
Does your conscience eat at you?
I hope it eats at you
Memories forgotten inside my head
Never felt so good to kill off a thought before
All I wanted was to find the whole damn truth
Finally letting go
Finally moving on
I'd like to find the truth, that's why I wrote this song
Please don't tell me what's right from wrong
You've never been concerned with what you've done
I've never been concerned with what you've done until you did me wrong
I asked a question
I want an answer
I know you know where I stand here
I never thought I had to write this fucking song
To get the answers to the questions I've asked for so long
Your whole life has come unglued
When Push Comes to Shove by For the Fallen Dreams portrays a person struggling with the lies and deception of someone they trusted. The first lines, "You better hope I never find out what really went down. Your guilty conscience made you leave this town" indicate that the trust between the two individuals has been broken, and the singer is trying to find the truth. The following lines, "Does your conscience eat at you? I hope it eats at you" suggest that the person who lied might feel guilty but does not have the courage to confess.
The second part of the song, "Memories forgotten inside my head. Never felt so good to kill off a thought before. All I wanted was to finally confide in you. All I wanted was to find the whole damn truth," reveals the singer's struggle with letting go of their past and their desire to find closure. They had hoped to share their thoughts and emotions with the person they trusted, but now everything they thought they knew has been shattered.
In the last part of the song, the singer expresses their frustration with the lack of answers: "I never thought I had to write this fucking song. To get the answers to the questions I've asked for so long." They are tired of being left in the dark and want to know the truth. The line, "Your whole life has come unglued," implies that the singer believes the person who lied will eventually face the consequences of their actions.
Line by Line Meaning
You better hope I never find out what really went down
If I ever find out the truth, you better watch out
Your guilty conscience made you leave this town
Your guilt forced you to leave and avoid confrontation
I probably won't ever find out
I may never know the truth
Does your conscience eat at you?
Are you haunted by guilt?
I hope it eats at you
I hope your conscience makes you suffer
Memories forgotten inside my head
I'm trying to forget
Never felt so good to kill off a thought before
It's a relief to finally let go of these memories
All I wanted was to finally confide in you
I wanted to share my feelings with you
All I wanted was to find the whole damn truth
I just want to know the truth
Finally letting go
I'm moving on
Finally moving on
I'm ready to move forward
I'd like to find the truth, that's why I wrote this song
This song is my way of seeking the truth
Please don't tell me what's right from wrong
I don't want your opinion on morality
You've never been concerned with what you've done
You don't care about the consequences of your actions
I've never been concerned with what you've done until you did me wrong
I didn't care before, but now I do
I asked a question
I'm seeking answers
I want an answer
I need the truth
I know you know where I stand here
I know you understand my position
I never thought I had to write this fucking song
I didn't expect to have to make a song just to get answers
To get the answers to the questions I've asked for so long
I've been seeking answers for a while
Your whole life has come unglued
Your life is falling apart
Contributed by Parker V. Suggest a correction in the comments below.