Learn to Love the Lie
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I wish it was just another dayAnother ordinary, nothing extraordinary,Just a boring Sunday morningWhen doing nothing's the only something we've got plannedBut not todayWere falling apart and its showing that werebasically just trapped in captivityWishing our way outJust Let me cross my fingers behind my backand I'll swear on anything you want me to after thatI've heard that if I cross my heart then I'd have to dieIf you don't want to say goodbyethen I guess you'll have to learn to love the lieYou and me,. we're really nothing but enemies
pretending were not meant to beI don't want to be the one to stayI don't want to be the one that got awayAnd if I'm being honest, you couldn't get rid of me anywayI don't want to be the one to stayWhat the hell? For heavens sakeI don't want to be the one that got awayIf Massachusetts had a loyaltyI hope it wouldn't choose you over meAnd if you're wondering what keeps me up at nightIts thinking that you might be right
You and me, we're really nothing but enemies
pretending that's exactly how its supposed to be
You can say what you want about me
The old me would not apologize
You can do what you want without meIf only I could keep us from collidingOver analyzing every move we makeWe think were just surviving but slowly we were dyinguntil the rattle somehow brings us back to lifeSo lets learn to love the lie




Overall Meaning

In Four Year Strong's song Learn to Love the Lie, the lyrics speak to the complex dynamic of a toxic relationship. The first verse sets the scene of a mundane day, but the chorus reveals that things are not so simple. The relationship between the two individuals is falling apart and they are stuck in their own captivity. They're both wishing for a way out, but instead of facing the truth and acknowledging the issues, they choose to "learn to love the lie" which is ultimately keeping them together.


The second verse continues with the idea that the two individuals are enemies, although they pretend that everything is fine. The singer confesses that they don't want to be the one to stay or the one that got away. The chorus repeats again, this time with the added line "If only I could keep us from colliding," which further emphasizes the dangerous and unstable nature of their relationship.


The final lines of the song, "Over analyzing every move we make, we think we're just surviving but slowly we were dying until the rattle somehow brings us back to life, so let's learn to love the lie," highlight the exhausting nature of trying to hold onto something that is not meant to be. It's a sad realization that both individuals are aware of, but they continue to cling onto their toxic relationship rather than facing the truth and moving on.




Line by Line Meaning

I wish it was just another day
I wish that today was like any other ordinary day


Another ordinary, nothing extraordinary,
Just a regular day with nothing unique or special happening


Just a boring Sunday morning
A dull and uneventful day, like a typical Sunday morning


When doing nothing's the only something we've got planned
We have no specific plans for the day, just lounging around


But not today
Today is different from the desired ordinary day.


Were falling apart and its showing that were
Our problems are becoming apparent, indicating that we


Basically just trapped in captivity
Are trapped in a situation that we cannot completely escape from


Wishing our way out
Desiring to get out of the predicament through hope, rather than action


Just Let me cross my fingers behind my back
I will deceive myself by falsely hoping for a better outcome


And I'll swear on anything you want me to after that
I'll commit to whatever you want me to do, even if it's dishonest.


I've heard that if I cross my heart then I'd have to die
If I make a promise with full intent and then break it, it will cause me harm or death.


If you don't want to say goodbye
If you don't want to end things between us


Then I guess you'll have to learn to love the lie
You will have to accept the deceitful reality we are living in.


You and me,. we're really nothing but enemies
Our relationship is filled with tension, as we are not on good terms with each other.


Pretending were not meant to be
We must pretend that we are not meant to be together, despite secretly knowing it.


I don't want to be the one to stay
I don't want to be the one to carry on with the relationship


I don't want to be the one that got away
I don't want to be the one that breaks the relationship.


And if I'm being honest, you couldn't get rid of me anyway
Regardless of your decision, I will stay with you.


If Massachusetts had a loyalty
If Massachusetts had an allegiance


I hope it wouldn't choose you over me
I hope Massachusetts doesn't choose you over me.


And if you're wondering what keeps me up at night
If you're curious about what causes my sleeplessness


Its thinking that you might be right
It's the realization that you might be correct about the issues in our relationship.


You and me, we're really nothing but enemies
Our relationship is based on hostility, with no genuine affection between us.


Pretending that's exactly how it's supposed to be
We have trained ourselves to believe that our enmity is expected or acceptable.


You can say what you want about me
You are free to say anything you want about me.


The old me would not apologize
In the past, I wouldn't have apologized for my actions


You can do what you want without me
You may choose to do whatever you want, even if it means leaving me out.


If only I could keep us from colliding
If only I could prevent our disagreements.


Over analyzing every move we make
We are constantly overthinking and analyzing every little thing we do


We think were just surviving but slowly we were dying
We believe our relationship is holding on, but in reality, it's failing


Until the rattle somehow brings us back to life
An abrupt reminder brings us back together and revives our relationship


So let's learn to love the lie
Let's accept the relationship as it is, even if it's based on falsehood.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Joseph Weiss, Jackson Massucco, Daniel O'Connor, Alan Day

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Lyrics:

I wish it was just another day
Another ordinary, not extraordinary
Just a boring Sunday morning
When doing nothing’s the only something we’ve got planned
But not today
We're falling apart and it's showing that we're
Basically just trapped in captivity
Wishing our way out

Just let me cross my fingers behind my back
And I’ll swear on anything you want me to after that
I’ve heard that if I cross my heart then I’d have to die
If you don’t want to say goodbye
Then I guess you’ll have to learn to love the lie

You and me, we’re really nothing but enemies
Pretending we're not meant to be

I don’t want to be the one to stay
I don’t want to be the one that got away
And if I’m being honest
You couldn’t get rid of me anyway
I don’t want to be the one to stay
What the hell, for heaven's sake
I don’t want to be the one that got away
If Massachusetts had a loyalty
I hope it wouldn’t choose you over me
And if you’re wondering what keeps me up at night
It's thinking that you might be right

Just let me cross my fingers behind my back
And I’ll swear on anything you want me to after that
I’ve heard that if I cross my heart then I’d have to die
If you don’t want to say goodbye
Then I guess you’ll have to learn to love the lie

You and me, we’re really nothing but enemies
Pretending that’s exactly how it's supposed to be

I don’t want to be the one to stay
I don’t want to be the one that got away
And if I’m being honest
You couldn’t get rid of me anyway
I don’t want to be the one to stay
What the hell, for heaven's sake
I don’t want to be the one that got away

You can say what you want about me
The old me would not apologize
You can do what you want without me
If only I could keep us from colliding
Overanalyzing
Every move we make we think we're just surviving
But slowly we were dying
Until the rattle somehow brings us back to life
So let's learn to love the lie

I don’t want to be the one to stay
I don’t want to be the one that got away
And if I’m being honest
You couldn’t get rid of me anyway
I don’t want to be the one to stay
What the hell, for heaven's sake
I don’t want to be the one that got away
(Just let me cross my fingers behind my back)
I don’t want to be the one that got away
(And I’ll swear on anything you want me to after that)
I don’t want to be the one that got away
(If I cross my heart then I’d have to die)
But I don't wanna say goodbye
But we have to laugh to learn to love the lie



All comments from YouTube:

Four Year Strong

“Learn To Love The Lie” was one of the first songs we wrote for Brain Pain. It's about being stuck in a mutually miserable relationship, but you’re both too much of a coward to leave. If you’re going to lie to yourself about being happy, you might as well learn to love it. Let's not kid ourselves...we’ve all been there. Hope you enjoy the video.

Cory Goben

This is wonderful, loving this album so far

William Grace

This is gold! Bet it hits 100k just as fast 🤘

Christopher Coan

Perfection.

Naive Daysダニエル

Dont know what you're talking about

WhoIsCorbin

I'm thankful that you guys are still making the dopest tunes, never stop being yourself guys!

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ethan {optimistic cavs fan}

i love how the two vocalists trade off lines so often it’s so cool

littleredguitars2

FYS are one of the few bands keeping this genre interesting these days IMO. these new songs are great

Fiery Furnace

nicee too see you here dude! love your vids

Matthias Hövelmanns

Hey Jon 👋🏼

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