Coulda Been My Love
Foxygen Lyrics


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(If I do what you want) Could I make it with you?
(If I do what you want)
(You can do what you want) You can do it all the time
(You can do what you want)
But I won't ask you why about the time before

You coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)

(You can do what you want) I can take it from you
(If I do what I want) Will my feelings show through?
(We can do what we want) If you don't got a clue
(We can do what we want) Well, that's just what we do
(We can do what we want) Me and you
But I won't ask you why, I know why you're not low anymore

And it's not my love (Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love

How am I gonna make it with you, baby?
When all we do is get high
How am I gonna make it with you?
Cry

(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my love




(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my

Overall Meaning

love


The lyrics to Foxygen's song "Coulda Been My Love" touch on themes of missed opportunity and regret, with a sense of longing and uncertainty throughout. The opening lines, "If I do what you want, could I make it with you?" express a desire for connection and closeness. This is followed by the repeated notion that "you can do what you want" and "we can do what we want," suggesting a sense of freedom and independence in the relationship. However, there is also a sense of resignation with lines like "But I won't ask you why about the time before" and "I know why you're not low anymore," hinting at past mistakes and missteps.


The chorus, "Coulda been my love," embodies the entire sentiment of the song. It's a lamentation about what could have been, a yearning for something that never came to fruition. The repetition of this line underscores its importance and conveys the feeling of the missed opportunity lingering on.


The bridge of the song adds another layer of complexity with the questioning of how the relationship can move forward. "How am I gonna make it with you, baby?" is a plea to figure out a way to make the relationship work, but it's followed by the realization that "all we do is get high" and the despairing "cry." This all underscores the central theme of the song: the sadness of missed opportunity and the lingering ache of what could have been.


Line by Line Meaning

(If I do what you want) Could I make it with you?
Asking if doing what the other person wants would result in a successful relationship


(If I do what you want)
Reinforcing the importance of doing what the other person wants


(You can do what you want) You can do it all the time
Encouraging the other person to continue doing what they want


(You can do what you want)
Giving permission to the other person to do whatever they want


But I won't ask you why about the time before
Choosing to not dwell on past mistakes or events


You coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Expressing regret that the other person could have potentially been their romantic partner


Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Reiterating the missed opportunity for a romantic relationship


Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Continuing to express regret over not pursuing a romantic relationship


(You can do what you want) I can take it from you
Offering to tolerate the other person doing whatever they want, no matter the consequences


(If I do what I want) Will my feelings show through?
Wondering if expressing personal desires will lead to the other person understanding their feelings


(We can do what we want) If you don't got a clue
Suggesting that both parties can make their own decisions without involving the other's input


(We can do what we want) Well, that's just what we do
Explaining that both parties are comfortable making decisions without consulting each other


(We can do what we want) Me and you
Emphasizing that both parties have the freedom to do whatever they want without constraints


But I won't ask you why, I know why you're not low anymore
Choosing not to question the reasons behind the other person's behavior because they already understand them


And it's not my love (Coulda been my love)
Realizing that love was not the reason for the missed opportunity at a romantic relationship


Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Repeating the longing for a missed opportunity at a romantic relationship


Coulda been my love (Coulda been my love)
Continuing to express regret over not pursuing a romantic relationship


How am I gonna make it with you, baby?
Questioning the feasibility of having a successful relationship with the other person


When all we do is get high
Acknowledging the role that drug use plays in their relationship


How am I gonna make it with you?
Reiterating the doubts of a successful relationship between the two


Cry
Expressing the emotional pain caused by the missed opportunity for a romantic relationship


(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my love
Continuing to lament the missed opportunity for a romantic relationship


(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my love
Repeating the regret over not pursuing a romantic relationship


(Coulda been my love) Coulda been my love
Continuing to express sorrow over the missed opportunity for a romantic relationship




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Written by: Jonathan Rado, Sam France

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@rararararasputin

(If I do what you want)
Could I make it with you?
(If I do what you want)
(You can do what you want)
You can do it all the time
(You can do what you want)
But I won’t ask you why
About the time before

You coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)

(You can do what you want)
I can take it from you
(If I do what I want)
Will my feelings show through?
(We can do what we want)
If you don’t got a clue
(We can do what we want)
Well, that’s just what we do
(We can do what we want)
Me and you
But I won’t ask you why, I know
Why you’re not low anymore
And it’s not my love


(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love

How am I gonna make it with you, baby?
When all we do is get high
(How am I gonna make it with you?)
Cry
[?]

(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my love
(Coulda been my love)
Coulda been my

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All comments from YouTube:

@lilscrappyfella

Foxygen deserves more credit for their music. This is an awesome song

@maryhyland

These guys never cease to amaze. Just when they've got psychedelia down to a science they pull off some early R&B grooves that can vie with any of the best. I saw them in Philly last week and they were crazy good. Their new Star Power is great.

@domestrada4678

I was there ! And yes amazing show!

@hippiecheezburger5457

I was there I thought it was a disaster and a waste of money

@Jasondurgen

@@hippiecheezburger5457 thanks for sharing

@harryjones84

this and you and I best on this album and some of the best songs of the millenia!

@EgyptParis

The singer of this band is so dope, he serving serious Bowie vibes

@frognapsss

+Codi Maddox my thoughts exactly!

@MsWaldkind

+Codi Maddox I luv this type XXD very get into this XD

@yahstino

Wow, a rare positive comment regarding Sams style. Yeah i agree i fuckin love it.

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