Silence Is Golden
Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons Lyrics


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Oh don't it hurt deep inside
To see someone do something to her
Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
How especially if that someone is her

Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Talking is cheap people follow like sheep
Even though there is no where to go
How could she tell he deceived her so well
Pity she'll be the last one to know

How many times will she fall for his lines
Should I tell her or should I be cool
And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
Mind your business don't hurt her you fool





Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see

Overall Meaning

In "Silence Is Golden," Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons sing about the pain of watching someone they care about being hurt or deceived by another person. The lyrics are characterized by a sense of frustration and helplessness, as the singer is torn between wanting to intervene and being told to mind their own business. The title of the song, "Silence Is Golden," is a reference to the idea that sometimes it is better to keep quiet and not get involved, even if it means bearing witness to someone else's suffering.


The first verse captures the heartbreak of watching someone cry and suffer, particularly if that person is a loved one. The second verse takes a more philosophical approach, suggesting that talking is cheap and people often follow blindly, even when there is nowhere to go. The final verse reveals the singer's internal struggle as they debate whether to speak up and warn their friend or stay silent and avoid causing harm. Through it all, the refrain of "silence is golden" underscores the idea that sometimes the best course of action is simply to stay quiet.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh don't it hurt deep inside
Isn't it painful to feel so deeply emotionally


To see someone do something to her
To witness someone causing her harm or hurt


Oh don't it pain to see someone cry
Isn't it heart wrenching to see someone in tears


How especially if that someone is her
It is particularly hard if that person crying is her


Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
It's best to stay quiet, but I can't help noticing things


Talking is cheap people follow like sheep
People are easily led by words and actions


Even though there is no where to go
There is no clear way out of the situation


How could she tell he deceived her so well
It's difficult for her to recognize he has lied so convincingly


Pity she'll be the last one to know
Unfortunate that she will be the last to realize the truth


How many times will she fall for his lines
She has been in this situation before and been deceived


Should I tell her or should I be cool
Do I intervene or stay out of it


And if I tried I know she'd say I lied
She would dismiss me as a liar if I told her the truth


Mind your business don't hurt her you fool
Stay out of it and avoid causing her more pain


Silence is golden, but my eyes still see
It's best to stay quiet, but I can't help noticing things


Silence is golden, golden, but my eyes still see
Staying quiet is valuable, but I can't ignore what I'm witnessing




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, BMG Rights Management
Written by: BOB CREWE, BOB GAUDIO

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Comments from YouTube:

@perseusjoppa426

It's funny (and sad) how some people in the comments think this a Tremeloes' original when it's not. THIS is the original Silence Is Golden from 1964, written by Bob Gaudio (original Four Seasons member, genius songwriter) and Bob Crewe (longtime producer and songwriter of The Four Seasons). The cover version of The Tremeloes was released in 1967, three years after this sublime gem here. Like I commented about a couple of years ago, no one does it like The Four Seasons.

@Nestor123057

It's the same thing with "Bye Bye Baby (Baby Goodbye)" I would wager most people on YouTube would say it was a Bay City Rollers original, which it isn't, of course.

@sjmoss148

I bought the Rag Doll single when it was first released. I turned it over and played this......many times! It still sounds brilliant!

@marycallender5200

It should have been a hit as well. Still listening in 2023. Love the group.

@cindywhite6718

I'm 43 but I definitely born in the wrong era. Grew up to this beautiful music 🎢 ❀

@yippeeyokai5750

I'm 43 too and grew up on this music as well.

@colindobson4002

I am 70 and was very lucky to grow up with this music.

@barryscaping984

The original and best version,

@dustermaniac

Saw Frankie last night in Modesto Ca , He did this song and all the others and he was AWESOME!!!!! God bless him at 85 yrs old still rocking strong!!!

@bennettostrov3652

Saw him in Tel Aviv..he didn't lose a thing

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