The Distance
Funeral for a Friend Lyrics


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Days in motion
From the west coasts to the ocean
Mainline to the sunset
As we're sitting in the van
Heading out to mainland
Age is nothing but a number
The difference in experience that we relate
The distance from where the heart lies
Between the words and sometimes, it's
A meaning to interpret and relate
A moment in explosions, like looking out the window
As we're passing by the places out of state

A conversation
Ending in frustration
I never saw the faces
Before it was too late
Indecision is better than compliance
Questioning the motives
Before it turns to hate

A seconds chance to get things right
Transition between the dark and the light




Coming home to the same things
Leaves me wanting more

Overall Meaning

The Distance by Funeral for a Friend is a song about the experiences and struggles of touring as a band, the toll it takes on relationships, and the importance of communication to overcome conflict. The lyrics describe the physical distance they travel between shows and the emotional distance between band members who have different levels of experience.


The opening lines, "Days in motion, from the west coasts to the ocean, mainline to the sunset," paint a picture of the constant movement and travel involved in touring. The line "age is nothing but a number, the difference in experience that we relate" expresses the idea that despite differences in age and experience, they are all united by their love of music and passion for what they do.


The chorus speaks to the challenges of communication and interpreting meaning in situations that can be explosive and emotional. The line "a meaning to interpret and relate" suggests that there are moments where they struggle to truly understand each other, but ultimately it's about finding common ground.


The second verse touches on the conflicts that can arise when spending so much time together, as seen in "a conversation ending in frustration." However, the lyrics suggest that it's better to question motives and have indecision than to let things escalate into hate. The final lines express the desire for growth and change, but also the yearning for familiarity and connection.


Line by Line Meaning

Days in motion
We've been traveling for days without stopping


From the west coasts to the ocean
We've traveled from the coastline to the middle of the sea


Mainline to the sunset
We've been on the main road, following the sun as it sets


As we're sitting in the van
We're in a van, probably cramped, but still moving


Heading out to mainland
We're headed to the bigger, more populated area


Age is nothing but a number
Our age doesn't really matter as long as we have the same experiences


The difference in experience that we relate
Our shared experiences bring us closer together despite our age difference


The distance from where the heart lies
The emotional distance between us is growing


Between the words and sometimes, it's
Sometimes the words we say don't really convey how we truly feel


A meaning to interpret and relate
We have to figure out what each other really means to understand each other


A moment in explosions, like looking out the window
Sometimes we have moments of realization and it's like seeing things through a different lens


As we're passing by the places out of state
We're moving so quickly that we can't really appreciate everything around us


A conversation
We're talking to each other


Ending in frustration
But we're not really getting anywhere and it's frustrating


I never saw the faces
We haven't really had the chance to understand each other's true personalities


Before it was too late
And now it feels like it might be too late to salvage the situation


Indecision is better than compliance
We'd rather not make a decision than agree to something we don't really understand


Questioning the motives
We need to really understand what's driving each other


Before it turns to hate
So we don't end up hating each other


A second's chance to get things right
We need another opportunity to do things better


Transition between the dark and the light
We need to move from a negative mindset to a positive one


Coming home to the same things
Returning to our usual routine


Leaves me wanting more
But it's not enough and we need something more fulfilling




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Christopher Dominic Urbanowicz, Edward Owen Lay, Russell Leetch, Thomas Michael Smith

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Comments from YouTube:

@alooddark7734

Conduit has got to be one of the best FFAF albums... Spine, Nails, Best Friends, The Distance, Sun-Less - so many TUNES!!

@Sophiawhite3

I have listened to this song already 50 times today! Amazing song :) Matt's songwriting improved a lot! <3

@TheSorrowingMan

Listen 1: Meh, this isn't so great. Listen 2: Actually you know, this is growing on me. Listen 3: THE DISTANCE FROM WHERE THE HEART LIES

@4LIVEMUSICVIBES

Awesome! Can't wait to hear the full album! 2 great singles so far \m/

@HarryJennings14

This album is going to be literally incredible

@alooddark7734

Funeral just keep getting better and better! I need to see this live \m/

@NitoriKun

I like that this sounds so much like something off of Memory and Humanity. Not a lot of FFAF fans favorite album, but I really liked it. I'm glad that even with some newer members they still manage to incorporate stuff from their past albums. Nothing is forgotten.

@galmargalit

Beautiful lyrics & powerful rhythm and riffs - Great!

@andykester

Used to love these guys back when they first released 7 ways and casually dressed. I decided to look them up this morning, totally forgot they were still a band. I'm happy they're still making good jams.

@alooddark7734

Conduit...such a masterpiece of an album \m/

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