Allan was born and raised in La Mirada, California, to Harley and Mary Herzberg. To ensure that the family would focus on music, Allan's mother insisted that the family's guitars would always remain visible in the home. At age thirteen, Allan began playing in honky tonks with his father. Two years later, he was offered his first recording contract, from A&M Records, but rejected the deal. His parents wanted him to finish his education and his father felt that Allan had yet to develop his own distinctive style. Despite his commitment to finishing school, Allan reflects that he was rarely alert in class. "I played the bars at night, I was half asleep when I got to school. I thought sleep was what you did when you got to school." After finishing school, he continued to play in the bars with his band, the Honky Tonk Wranglers. Many of the venues they played were packed, and promoters often tried to move them to larger clubs. The moves would have required him to stop playing some of the older country music, such as covers of George Jones songs, so Allan refused.
Allan was introduced to songwriter/producer Byron Hill on August 28, 1993 by a mutual friend and talent-scout Jim Seal at a bar called the Lion D'or in Downey, California, where Allan was already regularly performing. Seal and Hill had asked Allan if they could showcase an unsigned act that they were developing there. Hill had arranged to bring the head of A&R from a major label to the show to see this other act perform. Allan kindly let them use his stage for the event, giving the new act the opening performance slot that night. Hill promised Gary that they would make sure the A&R person remained there to see his portion of the show. Everyone was knocked out with Allan's performance, and very impressed with his voice. From that point on, Hill began sending Allan songs. Without any serious funding at the time, Hill arranged for Allan to go into Seal's small studio in California to try his vocals on some of existing demo tracks that Hill had sent to Allan from Nashville, Tennessee. Meanwhile, Hill became head of A&R at BNA Entertainment on October 29 of that same year and immediately wanted to sign Allan to BNA, but the then current roster conditions and other circumstances related to the planned restructuring of RCA/BNA Nashville stood in the way.
In the meantime, Allan took a job selling cars. He left a demo tape in the glove box of a car purchased by a wealthy couple. When the couple discovered that he was the singer, they wrote him a check for $12,000. This independent funding allowed Allan to go to Nashville to record some of the songs that were on that early demo tape with Hill as producer. On September 11, 1995, they worked at Javelina Studios for a couple of days on the four songs that Hill immediately showed to labels. Allan's recordings brought serious responses from several labels including Mercury, RCA, and Decca. A meeting was then held at a Nashville hotel among Hill, Allan, and friend of Allan's, who was a program director for a radio station in California, to arrange two showcases in Los Angeles, California, to put Allan on stage at two of the radio station's regular nights at a local club. Byron arranged for staffers at the Nashville office of Decca Records to attend the first showcase held on November 1, 1995. Decca immediately wanted to sign Allan, and knowing that Byron was lining up other labels to see Gary, Decca asked them to cancel the second showcase. A rep from RCA was already booked to see the second showcase the following week, but the "bird-in-hand" deal offer was too tempting for both Hill and Allan, so they committed to the Decca offer.
His first deal, with Decca Records Nashville, produced the 1996 album Used Heart for Sale. The album was named "Best of the Month" by Stereo Review. It advanced to the top 20 of the charts, and produced a Top 10 country hit with the track Her Man (previously recorded by Waylon Jennings). Other tracks from the album, however, proved less successful.
His second album, It Would Be You, was released in 1998. Although Allan had been writing songs since he was a teenager, he does not hesitate to bump his work from his albums in favor of those written by other songwriters he respects. For his second album, Allan replaced one of his songs with No Judgement Day, written by Allen Shamblin. Although the song was a hidden acoustic track, radio stations began giving it heavy airplay. The song tells the story of a shopkeeper in Texas, whose children killed him in search of money. The title track of the album became Allan's second top 10 hit of the year, remaining in the top 10 after 21 weeks of radio play, "way beyond the tenure of most disposable radio hits." At the beginning of 1999, Decca Records folded, and when Allan moved to the parent label, MCA Nashville, It Would Be You was left in limbo.
In 1999, Allan released Smoke Rings in the Dark, an album he recorded while in the midst of a divorce from his second wife, Versace model Danette Day, after only seven months of marriage. Unlike his first two albums, Smoke Rings in the Dark made fuller use of background singers and stringed instruments, "resulting in a lusher, fuller sound." The new album avoided the "devil-may-care brashness" of the first two, instead presenting a tone balanced between youthful optimism and "the knowledge that some of life's experiences exact a high toll." Smoke Rings in the Dark was certified platinum, and it included two successful singles.
In 2001 the album Alright Guy was released. It contained the singles The One, Man of Me, and Man to Man, the latter of which became his first Billboard No. 1 hit. The same year, Allan married for the third time, to Angela, a flight attendant he met on an airplane.
Despite his previous success and eight years in the music business, Allan was nominated for the Country Music Association's Horizon Award, typically given to newcomers, in 2003. The same year he released his fifth album, See If I Care. Allan had to fight to keep the title, which he felt epitomized his attitude towards the music business, that he would continue to make the music that he wanted to make regardless of whether the record label chose to back him or people chose to buy the album. See If I Care included his second and third Number One singles, Tough Little Boys and Nothing On but the Radio. Songs About Rain was a top 15 hit.
In 2003, Allan and his wife, Angela Herzberg, moved to Tennessee from California. On October 25, 2004, Angela Herzberg committed suicide after suffering from depression and migraines. Allan initially put his career on hold, but soon turned to music to deal with the loss of his wife. This resulted in 2005's "heart-wrenchingly personal album," Tough All Over. He included several songs which he wrote or cowrote, including Puttin' Memories Away and I Just Got Back from Hell, which dealt directly with his grief. Several years later, Gary discussed his wife's suicide on The Oprah Winfrey Show.
Tough All Over sold over 99,000 copies in its first week, debuting at No. 3 on the Billboard 200 and No. 1 on the magazine's Top Country Albums chart. It was subsequently certified gold by the RIAA as of December 20, 2006, and contained the top 10 singles Best I Ever Had (written by Vertical Horizon's Matt Scannell) and Life Ain't Always Beautiful, co-written by country singer Cyndi Thomson (under the name Cyndi Goodman).
Allan's first Greatest Hits collection was released on March 6, 2007. A Number One album on the Billboard Top Country Albums charts, the album reprised the greatest hits from his first six albums, as well as two new songs. One of these, titled A Feelin' Like That, was co-written by David Lee Murphy and Ira Dean (the latter a former member of Trick Pony); the single peaked at #12 on the country singles charts.
Allan's album titled Living Hard, was released on October 23, 2007. Serving as its lead-off single was the song Watching Airplanes, which spent more than thirty weeks on the country charts, where it reached a peak of #2 and went #1 on the Mediabase Chart. The song's music video was filmed during live concerts, including one at the Red Rocks Amphitheatre in Morrison, Colorado. Second single Learning How to Bend – co-written by Allan – quickly became another hit song, peaking at #13. The video was filmed during a live performance at the House of Blues in Atlantic City, New Jersey. Following this song is third single She's So California, which Allan co-wrote with Jaime Hanna (of Hanna-McEuen) and Jon Randall, and it peaked at #24, becoming his first single to miss the top 20 since Lovin' You Against My Will in 2000.
Today was released on June 12, 2009, serving as the lead-off single to Allan's studio album, Get Off on the Pain, which was released on March 9, 2010. Title track, Get Off on the Pain, was the album's second single. It debuted at #42 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart, the highest-debuting single of his career. Kiss Me When I'm Down the album's third single released to radio in 2010. It debuted at #52 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart.
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No Regrets
Gary Allan Lyrics
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It's been a long road and a million tears
I'm movin' slow but I'm movin' on
The sweetest memories still remain
The laughter we had and the love that we made
Every night I go to bed alone
With no regrets
Lived so much time in so little time
I'm so glad when she was here
She was mine
From the day we met
To the night she left
I loved her, no regrets
Well time and fate can be controlled
You play the hand that you're dealt
And the dice that you rolled
And who might of questioned God anyway
Well these days when I look back
I know I'm blessed to be loved like that
I still miss her everyday
With no regrets
A piece of mind
Lived so much time in so little time
I'm so glad when she was here she was mine
From the day we met
To the night she left
I loved her, no regrets
From the day we met
To the night she left
I loved her, no regrets
No regrets
I loved her
With no regrets
Gary Allan's No Regrets is a heartbreaking song that talks about the aftermath of losing someone you love. The lyrics depict the singer's emotions after losing a loved one three years ago. It's a long, painful process that has resulted in a million tears shed. Despite the loss, the singer is still holding onto sweet memories of the laughter and love they shared. He's slowly moving on, but it's still hard every night to go to bed alone.
The song's theme also touches on the importance of cherishing the time we have with those we love because time and fate can't be controlled. The singer is grateful for the time he spent with his love, and he feels blessed to have been loved like that. The song is a tribute to the bittersweet nature of love, where the heartbreak is inevitable, but the memories and love remain forever.
Line by Line Meaning
She's been gone about three years
It has been three years since she left
It's been a long road and a million tears
It has been a difficult journey filled with tears
I'm movin' slow but I'm movin' on
I am making progress, but it is slow
The sweetest memories still remain
I still cherish the memories we made together
The laughter we had and the love that we made
The moments we spent laughing and loving each other are still vivid in my memory
Every night I go to bed alone
I sleep alone every night since she left
With no regrets
I don't regret loving her
A piece of mind
I have peace of mind
Lived so much time in so little time
We shared a lot of experiences in a short period
I'm so glad when she was here
I am grateful for the time we spent together
She was mine
She belonged to me
Well time and fate can be controlled
We cannot control time and fate
You play the hand that you're dealt
We have to deal with the situations we are faced with
And the dice that you rolled
We have to accept the outcome of our choices
And who might of questioned God anyway
Some things are beyond human understanding
Well these days when I look back
Nowadays, when I reflect on the past
I know I'm blessed to be loved like that
I feel lucky to have been loved by her
I still miss her everyday
I still think of her every day
From the day we met
Since the day we first saw each other
To the night she left
Until the evening she departed
I loved her, no regrets
I loved her without any reservations or misgivings
No regrets
I don't have any regrets
I loved her
I had a deep affection for her
With no regrets
I don't regret loving her
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., ME GUSTA MUSIC
Written by: Gary Allan, Jamie Hanna, Jon Randall
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Barb Copeland
Gary is the Real Deal, A unique voice that draws you in with so much emotion, every Song is Euphonious He just chills me everytime he sings ? Beautiful Man ! 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
John Davidson
This man tears his heart out and shows it to his audience every performance.
Terilinn A
When Gary Allan sings-he makes you feel like he’s singing just to you. He makes it about you & him. Love love this song🎶🎵🎼🎶🎵🎼
Dana Ayers
Sooo very true, his songs r real !!!!
Susan McDaniel
Love his songs so real. To the heart
Susan McDaniel
Gary Allan thank you but I don't go to concerts ,
Crystal D Harris
All his music seems to fit a lot of people's situation they're in.But it also GIVES US INSPIRATION!!!❤GARY Allan❤
Daniel Maxwell
He is singing to Angela
Shirley Ryan
It is really tough when you lose to an angel 👼🏼 or if we have to step back from a relationship that no longer made us feel whole. Love this song as well 💜💜🙏🏻
Shirley Ryan
Gary Allan Loving you against my will, is my fav, and no I have not been to your concert as I live in Canada, Wishing you all the best 💜💜