The Oh So Protective One
Girls Lyrics


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oh, little girl they just don't know
about the weight that you carry in your soul
they just don't know about the fright
about the people and the things you like.
you know you've got nothing to prove
the conversations borderline on rude
and by the time you've had enough
how do you tell the one you love?

he'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
never know about the times that you cried to the music
about your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
and just a look will be the start

oh no oh no it's not your style
why should you have to feel like you're on trial?
"i wonder if he is impressed.
should i have worn the other dress?"
you've never had a doubt about yourself
why should you take it, then, from someone else?
and if by now he doesn't see, maybe it wasn't meant to be

he'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
never know about the times that you cried to the music
he'll never know about the feelings that you've had about him from the start

he'll never know about the times that you cried in the bedroom
about the times that you cried in the classroom




about your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
and just a look could be the start

Overall Meaning

In the song "The Oh So Protective One" by Girls, the singer addresses a young woman who is carrying a heavy burden in her soul that others around her may not fully comprehend. The lyrics suggest that she has experienced deep emotional pain, such as crying in the movies or to music, dealing with broken relationships or difficult relationships with her parents. Despite this, the young woman is strong and confident in herself, yet struggles with the expectations and judgments of others, particularly a romantic partner who may not understand the depths of her pain.


The song explores themes of vulnerability, inner strength, and self-worth. It speaks to the ways in which we often carry our personal struggles silently and the challenge of finding someone who truly understands and accepts us for who we are. The repetition of the phrase "he'll never know" emphasizes the idea of inner loneliness, that despite how close we may be to someone, there will always be aspects of ourselves that remain apart from the outside world.


Line by Line Meaning

oh, little girl they just don't know
The people around you don't understand the emotional weight you carry.


about the weight that you carry in your soul
You are burdened by emotional baggage that others don't comprehend.


they just don't know about the fright
Others are unaware of the fear you experience in your life.


about the people and the things you like.
The things you love and the people you care for are unknown to others.


you know you've got nothing to prove
You are secure in yourself and don't need validation from others.


the conversations borderline on rude
The way others talk to you can be hurtful and disrespectful.


and by the time you've had enough
You reach a boiling point after enduring mistreatment for a long time.


how do you tell the one you love?
It's hard to confide in the person you care about when they don't understand your struggles.


he'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
Your partner won't understand the times you've cried during movies out of sadness or empathy.


never know about the times that you cried to the music
You've been emotionally moved by music in ways that your partner doesn't realize.


about your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
Your partner has never felt the same pain you have regarding family or heartbreak.


and just a look will be the start
Your partner's behavior can easily trigger your emotions due to the weight of your inner struggles.


oh no oh no it's not your style
You don't want to feel like you are being judged for your emotions and struggles.


why should you have to feel like you're on trial?
You don't want to be interrogated or scrutinized for your feelings.


"i wonder if he is impressed.
You feel like your partner judges you unfairly.


should i have worn the other dress?"
You obsess over choices you've made in order to please your partner.


you've never had a doubt about yourself
You're confident in yourself and what you stand for.


why should you take it, then, from someone else?
You don't deserve to be treated poorly by others when you have faith in yourself.


and if by now he doesn't see, maybe it wasn't meant to be
If your partner can't understand or support you in your struggles, the relationship may not be right for you.


he'll never know about the feelings that you've had about him from the start
Your partner is unaware of the deep emotions you've felt for him since the beginning of the relationship.


he'll never know about the times that you cried in the bedroom
Your partner doesn't realize the emotional moments you've experienced in private.


about the times that you cried in the classroom
Your struggles in school and the emotions you've experienced in that setting are unknown to your partner.


and just a look could be the start
A mere glance from your partner can trigger emotional turmoil due to the burden you carry.


about your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
Your partner doesn't understand the pain you've felt due to relationship or family issues.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@non-showbiz_gf

Oh, little girl they just don't know
About the weight that you carry in your soul
They just don't know about the fright
About the people and the things you like
You know you've got nothing to prove
The conversations borderline on rude
And by the time you've had enough
How do you tell the one you love?

He'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
Never know about the times that you cried to the music
About your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
And just a look will be the start

Oh no oh no it's not your style
Why should you have to feel like you're on trial?
"i wonder if he is impressed
Should i have worn the other dress?"
You've never had a doubt about yourself
Why should you take it, then, from someone else?
And if by now he doesn't see, maybe it wasn't meant to be

He'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
Never know about the times that you cried to the music
He'll never know about the feelings that you've had about him from the start
He'll never know about the times that you cried in the bedroom
About the times that you cried in the classroom
About your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
And just a look could be the start



All comments from YouTube:

@karolschematics

That trumpet solo gets me every-single-time. Love it.

@nav84

just discovered this song and band in 2021. what a treat it is

@animeattickwholoves

just when i think there isn't a song to describe my life these beauties decide to help me tear up.

@porfabiana

miss girls, miss 2010

@non-showbiz_gf

Oh, little girl they just don't know
About the weight that you carry in your soul
They just don't know about the fright
About the people and the things you like
You know you've got nothing to prove
The conversations borderline on rude
And by the time you've had enough
How do you tell the one you love?

He'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
Never know about the times that you cried to the music
About your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
And just a look will be the start

Oh no oh no it's not your style
Why should you have to feel like you're on trial?
"i wonder if he is impressed
Should i have worn the other dress?"
You've never had a doubt about yourself
Why should you take it, then, from someone else?
And if by now he doesn't see, maybe it wasn't meant to be

He'll never know about the times that you cried in the movies
Never know about the times that you cried to the music
He'll never know about the feelings that you've had about him from the start
He'll never know about the times that you cried in the bedroom
About the times that you cried in the classroom
About your mother or your father or the way you got your broken heart
And just a look could be the start

@sf5823

Really appreciate you sharing the lyrics, thank you xxx

@deadguy7607

hm this was the last song that a friend heard before she passed away, it feels very different

@fenerbahceqwe3756

obsessed with this.

@zeynepgulsu1899

this song, my gash where gave you been
girls' first album is so great, listen to this song as much as you want, you don't get tired

@laurencatsomfg

I wish this song wasn't so much about me, but it is

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