Making Love To Yourself
Golden Earring Lyrics


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I could be six feet under
I could be stone dead cold
Hangin' from the highest tree
Would you read my suicide note
I'm hungry for affection
Howlin' at the moon
Can't you get it inside your head
All I want is you
All you're thinking of is making love to yourself
And I wonder if there's any room for somebody else
Come on, don't make me wait too long
Sometimes you know, I hate being on my own
Try to give me one more chance
Because I want to be your man
And when you call me up, I'll be home
Train roll into the station
In the middle of the night
Me and my suitcase waiting
But you're nowhere near in sight
Heartache's such a bummer
Knock-knockin' on my door
Feeling sorry for myself
I just can't take it no more
Why don't you read my thoughts
Before I drown in tears
I'm thinkin' about nothing
Nothin' else but you and me




All you're thinking of is making love to yourself
And I wonder if there's any room for somebody else

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Golden Earring's "Making Love to Yourself" depict a character who is deeply in love with someone who thinks only of herself. The character's desperation for affection is evident in lines like "hungry for affection" and "heartache's such a bummer". The character hints at suicide, stating "I could be six feet under" and wanting someone to read their suicide note.


The repetition of the line "All you're thinking of is making love to yourself" reinforces the idea that the object of the character's affection is very self-centered. The character begs for "one more chance" and wants to be someone's man. The train imagery at the end of the song implies that the character is waiting for someone to show up, but they never do.


The song touches on themes of unrequited love, desperation for affection, and suicidal thoughts. The repeated reference to someone making love to themselves implies that the object of affection is self-centered and not interested in reciprocating the character's feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

I could be six feet under
Even if I were dead and buried, would you still care?


I could be stone dead cold
Even if my heart was frozen, would you still feel something for me?


Hangin' from the highest tree
Even if I had committed suicide and was hanging, would you even consider the reasons why?


Would you read my suicide note
Would you take the time to understand my pain and the reasons why I couldn't continue?


I'm hungry for affection
I am yearning for love and care, something that has been missing in my life for some time now


Howlin' at the moon
I am screaming with despair, but no one seems to hear me


Can't you get it inside your head
Why can't you understand my needs and my feelings?


All I want is you
You are everything to me, and I need you by my side


All you're thinking of is making love to yourself
You are only interested in fulfilling your own desires and needs, and you don't care about mine


And I wonder if there's any room for somebody else
I am questioning whether you care about me and if there is any space in your heart for someone other than yourself


Come on, don't make me wait too long
I don't want to be left waiting and hoping for something that may never come


Sometimes you know, I hate being on my own
I am tired of being alone and want someone to share my life with


Try to give me one more chance
I am begging for another opportunity for us to work things out and be together


Because I want to be your man
I want to be the person you turn to for love, comfort, and support


And when you call me up, I'll be home
I will always be there for you, no matter what happens or what you need


Train roll into the station
The train is symbolic of my journey and my search for love and happiness


In the middle of the night
I am traveling through the darkness, seeking something that I hope to find


Me and my suitcase waiting
I am carrying all my hopes and dreams with me, along with my belongings


But you're nowhere near in sight
You are not with me, and I am alone and lost once again


Heartache's such a bummer
The pain of loneliness and unrequited love is bitterly disappointing and frustrating


Knock-knockin' on my door
Love and happiness are right there, waiting for me, but I am struggling to find the key to unlock my heart and let them in


Feeling sorry for myself
I am wallowing in self-pity and regret for not finding love yet


I just can't take it no more
I am reaching the end of my tether, and I can't bear the thought of being alone any longer


Why don't you read my thoughts
Why can't you understand my needs and desires without me having to spell them out for you?


Before I drown in tears
I am at risk of falling apart, and I am struggling to keep it together as I face the challenging realities of life


I'm thinkin' about nothing
There is nothing in this world that matters to me more than you and our love


Nothin' else but you and me
We are the only two people who matter to me, and I am committed to making our love work




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Written by: HAY, KOOYMANS, ZUIDERWIJK

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