Get a Grip
Gramatik Lyrics


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I ain't the one who's gonna take you home so get your ass in the cab alone
Don't waste your time and don't you dare waste mine
'Cause there will be plenty more where you came from. I won't lie, yeah
I thought you were fly, but then you kept on getting up in my face
You should know it ain't like that, so don't you even try that
Move on over out of this place

You've got to get a grip girl, I am not your man
If you can't see this girl, how could you understand?
You've got to get a grip girl, I am not your man
If you can't see this girl, how could you understand?

Girl I know that it's the way that I move
That's got you thinking I could do it for you
You've got to take your place in line
Or find a different guy cause every woman's trying to hit this too

I won't apologize for telling you how I feel inside
And if it's too much for you, then do everything that I ask you to girl
Turn around and walk away. Accept that I ain't making your day
Damn girl get off of your knees
I'd love to see you go but I ain't watching you leave

You've got to get a grip girl, I am not your man
If you can't see this girl, how could you understand?




You've got to get a grip girl, I am not your man
If you can't see this girl, how could you understand?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Gramatik's song Get A Grip Feat. Gibbz deal with rejection and setting boundaries. The singer, who is assumed to be a man, tells a woman that he is not interested in taking her home and advises her to get a cab alone. He doesn't want to waste his time nor hers, although he initially thought she was attractive. The woman keeps getting up in his face, prompting him to explain that it is not like that, and she should move on from the situation.


The singer sings that the woman needs to get a grip and understand that he is not her man, even though she is drawn to his moves. He tells her to accept that he won't make her day, and she needs to take her place in line or find someone else. Additionally, he won't apologize for telling her how he feels and asks her to turn around and walk away. He adds that he does not watch her leave, and he wants her to get off her knees. The song's underlying message is about setting reasonable expectations and respecting boundaries in relationships, romantic or otherwise.


Line by Line Meaning

I ain't the one who's gonna take you home so get your ass in the cab alone
I'm not interested in going home with you, so it's time to leave and go home alone.


Don't waste your time and don't you dare waste mine
Stop wasting our time with this pointless conversation.


'Cause there will be plenty more where you came from. I won't lie, yeah
There are plenty of other people out there, and I'm not interested in you.


I thought you were fly, but then you kept on getting up in my face
I was initially attracted to you, but your behavior and attitude turned me off.


You should know it ain't like that, so don't you even try that
I'm not interested in you romantically, so don't try to pursue anything further.


Move on over out of this place
It's time for you to leave and find someone else.


Girl I know that it's the way that I move
I'm aware that my actions may have given you the wrong impression.


That's got you thinking I could do it for you
You may have thought I was interested in you, but that's not the case.


You've got to take your place in line
You're not the only one trying to pursue me, so you need to wait your turn.


Or find a different guy cause every woman's trying to hit this too
If you can't handle the competition, you may want to look for someone else.


I won't apologize for telling you how I feel inside
I'm not sorry for being upfront with you about my lack of interest.


And if it's too much for you, then do everything that I ask you to girl
If you can't handle my honesty, just follow my lead and leave me alone.


Turn around and walk away. Accept that I ain't making your day
It's time for you to accept that I'm not going to be the one to make you happy.


Damn girl get off of your knees
Stop begging and trying to change my mind.


I'd love to see you go but I ain't watching you leave
I'm not interested in you, so you can leave without further notice.


You've got to get a grip girl, I am not your man
It's time for you to realize that I'm not interested in being in a relationship with you.


If you can't see this girl, how could you understand?
If you are unable to accept the truth, you won't be able to understand why I'm not interested in you.




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Comments from YouTube:

@d00diitskylie

Saw this front row at Summer Camp, Gibbz is fucking great! the guy has a set of pipes for sure 

@kelkundu64

Gramatik is great! and the age of reason is his greatest album!

@jonojnz

This is my jam!!! LOVE THIS!! it actually needs a million views! SO GOOD!

@FAVS74

Def sounds like you.. meaning the wacky poppy music at the start

@jonojnz

haha i like the way you clarified what sounds like me, nice bex =)

@FAVS74

Coz I just know you so well don't i haha. Hope you're good x

@RichardPriceElliott

I can not say why people can not get their funk on with this.  I am grinding as I type. 

@alexpapkok

i'm sort of bobbing or bouncing :D

@chillerruffy1382

@@alexpapkok wibblin and wobblin 🎶

@WangleLine

this slaps, a lot

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