Baby Mama Drama
Grand Puba Lyrics

If ya have a kid with a chick then I hope that chu' love her
If you have a child with a woman, it is important to genuinely love and care for her.

There's no stress like Baby Mother
Having a child with someone can lead to a lot of stress and complications.

Some of these girls use a baby to get back at a brother
Some women manipulate the situation by using the child as a way to seek revenge against the father.

Cause it ain't the same as it was
The relationship dynamic changes drastically after having a child.

Some cats bounce, leave the chick to play the daddy and mother
Some fathers abandon their responsibilities, leaving the mother to take on both parental roles.

It's all about the kid and not her
The focus should be on raising the child together, not on the mother's personal desires.

If you and her don't work out then you still gotta handle your's nigga
Even if the relationship with the mother doesn't work out, the father must still fulfill his responsibilities.

So handle your business nigga
Take care of your responsibilities as a father.

She got chu' for everything
The woman relies on the man for financial and material support.

The crib and the whip and the bling, ka-ching
She expects the man to provide a home, a car, and expensive belongings.

Now if ya ain't feelin' shorty like that
If you don't truly love the woman.

Then you better put it on, put it on, put it on, put it on
You should use protection during sexual intercourse to avoid unwanted pregnancies.

And shorty if ya feelin' the same back
If the woman feels the same way about the man.

Then you better tell dude put it on, put it on, put it on, put it on
She should also make sure the man uses protection.

There be a whole lot of seeds made from Hennessey and trees
Many children are conceived through unprotected sex while under the influence of alcohol and drugs.

Once you raw dog hit it
Engaging in unprotected sex.

The ya ass done committed
By having unprotected sex, you have committed yourself to the consequences.

Cause ya dick is thinkin'
Making impulsive decisions based on sexual desires.

Too many trees, too much drinkin'
Engaging in excessive drug and alcohol use.

A one time resentment got you a lifetime commitment
One moment of resentment led to a lifelong responsibility of being a parent.

You hate her now
Feeling animosity towards the mother.

You tell her get rid of that shit
You demand that she aborts the pregnancy.

But she had three abortions already so she's keepin' it
She has already had multiple abortions in the past, so she decides to keep the baby this time.

Now ya got drama with ya soon to be baby mama
Now you are facing conflicts and problems with the mother of your future child.

Nine months of pregnancy
The duration of pregnancy.

No hair no seed
Without hair, there can be no paternity test to determine if you are the father.

It takes two to play
Both the man and the woman are responsible for creating a child.

Connect that seed with that ay
Establish a connection between the father and the child.

So ya better strap it on if ya goin' all the way
If you are going to have sex, make sure you use protection.

Best night of ya life could be the worst of ya days
Having the best sexual experience of your life can lead to the worst consequences and responsibilities.

She'll have you unjust rappers talkin' bout chu' got to pay
The mother will make you, even an unjust rapper, talk about the financial support you have to provide.

Now it's mommie's baby, daddy's maybe
Now the child is primarily associated with the mother, and the father's role becomes uncertain.

If it go like it supposed to then the shit go great
If things go according to plan, the situation will turn out well.

You know what's up, if in doubt, do without
If you are unsure, it's better to abstain from sexual activities.

Or get that funny feelin' when ya ass is pullin' out
The fear of potentially impregnating someone may cause anxiety.

Like, what I just did
Questioning the decision to engage in unprotected sex.

I hope I ain't make no kids
Hoping that there are no unplanned pregnancies.

Every week you callin' (Yo you get cho' period?)
Constantly checking with the woman if she has her period as a way to determine if she is pregnant or not.

Some cats handle they biz some leave mothers stuck
Some men fulfill their responsibilities as fathers, while others abandon the mothers and create challenges for them.

Seed growin' up not knowin' who they daddy is
The child grows up without knowing the identity of their father.

Misguided, undivided, tryin' hard to find it
The child is confused and searching for their father, who is absent from their life.

Only seein' life one-sided
The child only has a one-sided perspective of their family situation.

Come on do you
Do what is best for yourself.

But if you got a seed make sure you do em' to
If you have a child, make sure you fulfill your responsibilities towards them.

The same fuckin' way that chu' would do you
Treat the child with the same level of care and respect that you would want for yourself.

That's what's up, some more hood drama
This situation leads to additional drama and conflicts within the community.

And the baby daddy frontin' and it just be baby mama
The father neglects his responsibilities, leaving the mother to handle everything.

A little bit of something
Even a small contribution is better than nothing.

Is better than a whole lot of nothin'
It's better to provide something rather than completely neglecting your responsibilities.

Cause nothin' from nothin' leave ya nothin'
If you don't contribute anything, you will receive nothing in return.

So tell me why oh why
Questioning the reasons and motives behind certain actions.

Why did I hit that straight up
Why did I engage in sexual activity without taking precautions.

I hate them chicks who threatin' niggas with that court shit
Expressing dislike towards women who use threats of going to court to manipulate men.

That support shit, knowin' a nigga bought shit
Claiming financial support from the man, even if he has provided material possessions.

You don't want her so she really on some sore sport shit
Since you don't desire her romantically, she seeks revenge by causing emotional pain.

It ain't about that seed no more, it's all about what she can get
The focus has shifted from the child to the woman's desire to gain material benefits.

But that's that bullshit but that's how some of em' do
Although it may be unfair, some women behave in this manner.

There's only gonna be more drama if ya find somebody new
If you enter a new relationship, there will likely be even more conflicts and complications.

Now she hatin' you, ya ass is really due
Now she holds animosity towards you, and you will face the consequences of your actions.

If this new chick that chu' got is lookin' better than she do
If your new partner appears more attractive than the mother, tensions will rise.

Cats be flippin' too, soon as she find somebody new
Men also become upset and jealous when the mother finds a new partner.

They be loungin' in the crib, you be like who the fuck is you
The new partner will be comfortably present in the home, causing the man to feel out of place.