He Was a Friend of Mine {As Used in the Film Brokeback Mountain}
Gustavo Santaolalla Lyrics


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He was a friend of mine
Every time I think of him
I just can't keep from cryin'
'Cause he was a friend of mine

He died on the road
He died on the road
He just kept on moving
Never reaped what he could sow
And he was a friend of mine

I stole away and cried
I stole away and cried
'Cause I never had too much money
And I never been quite satisfied
And he was a friend of mine

He never done no wrong
He never done no wrong
A thousand miles from home
And he never harmed no one
And he was a friend of mine

He was a friend of mine
He was a friend of mine
Every time I hear his name Lord




I just can't keep from cryin'
'Cause he was a friend of mine

Overall Meaning

The song "He Was a Friend of Mine" by Gustavo Santaolalla, as used in the film "Brokeback Mountain," is a poignant and sorrowful tribute to a lost friendship. The lyrics convey a deep sense of grief and emotional turmoil felt by the singer when remembering their friend. The repetition of the line "He was a friend of mine" emphasizes the significance and impact the friend had on the singer's life.


The first verse reveals the singer's ongoing struggle with their emotions, as they cry each time the friend's memory resurfaces. Their grief is overwhelming, indicating a deep bond and love for this person. The second verse speaks of the friend's tragic demise on the road, never having achieved the fruits of his labor. This suggests a life cut short and unfulfilled potential. Despite these circumstances, the singer still regards the friend with high regard and emphasizes their innocence and lack of wrongdoings.


The third verse delves into the singer's personal struggles, acknowledging their own financial limitations and perpetual dissatisfaction. This juxtaposition highlights the deep contrast between the singer's own life and the simplicity and innocence of their deceased friend's existence. The final repetition of the chorus brings the song full circle, expressing the enduring pain and sorrow felt by the singer whenever their friend's name is mentioned.


Overall, "He Was a Friend of Mine" is a heartfelt exploration of friendship, loss, and the enduring impact of those who touch our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

He was a friend of mine
He was someone I cared about deeply and had a close bond with


Every time I think of him
Whenever I recall his memory


I just can't keep from cryin'
I cannot control my tears, as the pain of his loss is overwhelming


'Cause he was a friend of mine
Because he held significant importance and meaning in my life


He died on the road
He met his unfortunate end while traveling


He just kept on moving
He never stayed in one place for too long, always seeking new experiences


Never reaped what he could sow
He never fully enjoyed the benefits or rewards of his efforts


And he was a friend of mine
Despite his nomadic nature and lack of material success, he still held a special place in my heart


I stole away and cried
I secretly found a moment to shed tears of grief


'Cause I never had too much money
Because I never possessed great wealth or abundance


And I never been quite satisfied
And I have never truly felt content or fulfilled


He never done no wrong
He never committed any misconduct or harm


A thousand miles from home
Far away from his place of origin


And he never harmed no one
And he never caused harm or pain to anyone


He was a friend of mine
He was a dear companion to me


Every time I hear his name Lord
Every time his name is mentioned, dear Lord


I just can't keep from cryin'
I cannot prevent the tears from flowing, as the sorrow remains intense


'Cause he was a friend of mine
Because his friendship held substantial emotional significance in my life




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Written by: D. HOLMBERG

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