It Should Have Been You
Gwen Guthrie Lyrics


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It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

When we first got together
We thought our love would stand the test
Waited oh, so long
Couldn't settle for second best
No one else could make me feel the way you do
Broke my heart in two
When you said our love was through

It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

Through pain, tears and heartache
We see our love can't last
It's time for new beginnings
Can't live in the past
With my back to the wind
I face a new horizon
Believe me when I say that it's true
Even though our love is through

It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

It should have been you
I been searchin' such a long time
It could have been you
Wonder will I'll ever find
It should have been you
A man so warm and true
It could have been you
Who loves me like you used to do
It should have been you

It could have been you
It should have been you
It could have been you

It should have been you
It could have been you
It should have been you

'Cause elieve me when I say that it's true
Even though our love is through

It should have been you




It could have been you
It should have been you, it should have you

Overall Meaning

Gwen Guthrie's song "It Should Have Been You" is a heart-wrenching ballad about lost love and regret. The lyrics tell the story of a couple whose love was not strong enough to survive the challenges they faced. The first stanza sets up the premise of the song by stating that the couple believed their love would stand the test of time, but ultimately, they were not meant to be together. The singer laments that no one else can make her feel the way her former partner did, and she is devastated by their breakup.


Throughout the rest of the song, the singer grapples with her emotions and tries to come to terms with the fact that her relationship is over. She acknowledges that she and her former partner went through pain, tears, and heartache, but ultimately, they could not overcome their differences. The singer is left to face a new horizon on her own but cannot help but wonder what might have been if her former partner had been the right person for her.


Line by Line Meaning

It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover


It could have been you
Contemplating the possibility that someone else could have filled the role of a lost lover


It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover


It could have been you
Contemplating the possibility that someone else could have filled the role of a lost lover


When we first got together
Describing the beginning of a romantic relationship


We thought our love would stand the test
Expressing optimism about the durability of the relationship


Waited oh, so long
Indicating that the relationship took a long time to develop


Couldn't settle for second best
Asserting that the relationship was worth waiting for and not settling for less


No one else could make me feel the way you do
Describing the unique and powerful emotions that the lover evokes in the singer


Broke my heart in two
Expressing the pain caused by the end of the relationship


When you said our love was through
Describing the cause of the end of the relationship


Through pain, tears and heartache
Describing the difficult emotions associated with the end of the relationship


We see our love can't last
Acknowledging that the relationship has ended and cannot continue


It's time for new beginnings
Expressing a commitment to moving forward and starting a new chapter


Can't live in the past
Acknowledging that it is not healthy or productive to dwell on past events


With my back to the wind
Metaphorically describing a stance of resiliency and determination in the face of adversity


I face a new horizon
Looking toward the future with optimism and openness to new experiences


Believe me when I say that it's true
Asserting the sincerity of the message about regret and lost love


Even though our love is through
Acknowledging that the love between the singer and the lost lover has ended


It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover


It could have been you
Contemplating the possibility that someone else could have filled the role of a lost lover


It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover


It could have been you
Contemplating the possibility that someone else could have filled the role of a lost lover


I been searchin' such a long time
Describing a long search for a new lover


Wonder will I'll ever find
Expressing uncertainty about whether a new lover will be found


A man so warm and true
Describing the desired qualities in a new lover


Who loves me like you used to do
Seeking a new lover who can evoke the same emotions as the lost lover


It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover


It could have been you
Contemplating the possibility that someone else could have filled the role of a lost lover


It should have been you
Expressing regret that someone else did not fill the role of a lost lover




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Darryl Thompson

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2 tone

I'm 60 years old, German, this song was top class then and still is today.
The cool black music from 1971 - 1983 (for me anyway) will never die.
Quality is quality

FunkyDream91

just like you bro ! bornes 1962AUGUST 2nd !!! this tune makes stil smile anybody now

Dirk HGE

Totally agree! I am 61 now, from DΓΌsseldorf/Germany and still loving this music. As you said, it brings us back to good times and a lot of feel good memories.. πŸ₯³πŸ‘

Dwi ght

From 1970 to 1990 great music

One Anjel

R&B is actually the term meaning cool black music 😊

lizabs68

RIP Gwen Guthrie, you made your mark with great music.

Katro Storm

Yes yes well said

James Lynch

RIP LADY G! ❀

Marie Placide

Woow. What !!? When !? No me & husband danced to this in college no !

Sheldon Mweetwa

Oh yes so true

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