My girlfriend´s boyfriend
Her Space Holiday Lyrics


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I'm picking up the phone and putting down this pen
To let you know I'm writing you again
But it's not the same the names have all changed
And my best friend and ex girlfriend aren't to blame
I did this myself it's a sick cry for help
But it doesn't mean the situation's clean
Additional stress that will come from the press
The mess I made putting my life on parade
Now the writers can say "we were right all along
You can't make someone love you with your songs"

And you don't know me
But you owe me
A little time to find some piece of mind
And when you hold me
I'm not so lonely
It will be difficult to leave this life behind

My sister always said that hardships come in two's
A funeral and break up afternoon
There is really no good time for anyone to leave
In a couple weeks I'll get my chance to grieve
And hopefully by then my mind will be all clear
And I can cry for the reasons that I'm there
Not for the all things that are happening at home
The church was filled but I was still alone
But this is not a ploy to gain some sympathy
I made this bed and now it's time to sleep

And you don't know me
But you owe me
A little time to find some piece of mind
And when you hold me
I'm not so lonely
It will be difficult to leave this life behind

Its such a shame that the blame has somehow shifted to you
We're both aware through the years that I've been messed up too




And I shouldn't talk I should stop I'm digging deeper holes
It just feels strange that I sing songs for another girl

Overall Meaning

In the song My girlfriend's boyfriend by Her Space Holiday, the lyrics reveal a story of heartbreak, guilt, and trying to make amends. The singer is writing a letter to someone, likely an ex-girlfriend or a former best friend, to express his feelings and apologize for his actions. The opening lines of the song indicate that he is no longer using a pen but is now picking up the phone, showing that he is taking a more direct approach. He then goes on to explain that he is responsible for his own situation and that he cannot blame others for his mistakes. The singer is aware that he has put his life on display for everyone to see, especially for the writers who scrutinize and analyze his songs. He feels misunderstood and that the writers' criticisms are validated.


The songwriter then shifts the focus to his personal struggles. He shares that he is dealing with two major events that occurred around the same time, a funeral, and a breakup. These events have made it difficult to cope, and he hopes to gain some clarity in the coming weeks. He hopes that his mind will be clear enough to grieve without the added stress of the recent public attention. He acknowledges that he has made some poor choices that have led him to this point but wants to move on from his past mistakes. He asks for a little time and understanding, realizing that he cannot force someone to love him through his music.


Overall, the song is deeply personal and reveals a fragile emotional state of the songwriter. It showcases the vulnerability of being in the public eye and the added pressure that comes with it. However, it also highlights the importance of taking responsibility for one's actions and facing the consequences head-on.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm picking up the phone and putting down this pen
I'm ending my letter writing and will call you instead


To let you know I'm writing you again
To inform you that I'm reaching out to you once again


But it's not the same the names have all changed
The situation has altered, and the people involved are different


And my best friend and ex girlfriend aren't to blame
I can't blame my friend and ex-lover for my actions


I did this myself it's a sick cry for help
I'm responsible for my actions, but they are a plea for help


But it doesn't mean the situation's clean
Just because I know it's my doing, doesn't mean the situation is without fault


Additional stress that will come from the press
There will be more pressure placed on me due to publicity


The mess I made putting my life on parade
The problems I created by making my personal life public


Now the writers can say 'we were right all along
The journalists will claim that they knew all along I was headed for this situation


You can't make someone love you with your songs'
No matter how much I sing, it won't make someone love me if they don't want to


And you don't know me
You are not familiar with who I am


But you owe me
You are obligated to give me


A little time to find some piece of mind
Some alone time to clear my head


And when you hold me
When we are together


I'm not so lonely
I don't feel as alone


It will be difficult to leave this life behind
It will be challenging to move on from this situation


My sister always said that hardships come in two's
My sibling often claimed that troubles come in pairs


A funeral and break up afternoon
Today I experienced a funeral and a breakup


There is really no good time for anyone to leave
It's never a good time for someone to exit your life


In a couple weeks I'll get my chance to grieve
I will have an opportunity to mourn in a couple of weeks' time


And hopefully by then my mind will be all clear
Hopefully, my thoughts will be unclouded by then


And I can cry for the reasons that I'm there
I can weep genuinely for the right reasons


Not for the all things that are happening at home
But not for all the chaos going on in my personal life


The church was filled but I was still alone
Although the church was packed, I still felt isolated


But this is not a ploy to gain some sympathy
I'm not trying to elicit sympathy from you


I made this bed and now it's time to sleep
I created this situation, and now it's time for me to face the consequences


Its such a shame that the blame has somehow shifted to you
It's unfortunate that the fault has somehow transferred to you


We're both aware through the years that I've been messed up too
We both know that I've had my share of problems over the years


And I shouldn't talk I should stop I'm digging deeper holes
I need to stop talking because I'm only making things worse


It just feels strange that I sing songs for another girl
It's odd that I'm writing and singing songs about someone else when I'm in a relationship with you




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