Disarm Me
Him Lyrics


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The promise of heaven pushed us right back to hell
Turned three sevens into three sixes again
And you laughed at my face when I told you how much it hurts
And said

Disarm me with your loneliness just like always before
Deceive me out of my emptiness telling me how you love
You keep on tempting me to go on whatever the cost
To witness the prettiest flower in bloom wither to dust
So I'll break all the rules in this endless game once called "Love" for you

Disarm me with your loneliness just like always before and
Deceive me out of my emptiness telling me how you love
Me with all your heart no more

Disarm me with your loneliness just like always before





Disarm me with your loneliness just like always before
Deceive me out of my emptiness telling me how you love me with all your heart no more

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to HIM's song "Disarm Me" are about a toxic relationship that keeps drawing the singer back in despite the pain it causes. The opening lines describe how the promise of a heavenly future turns into a hellish reality, with the repetition of the number three emphasizing a sense of dread and foreboding. The second verse is directed at the singer's partner, who is manipulating them with false promises of love and affection. The line "you keep on tempting me to go on whatever the cost" reflects the singer's awareness that they are being played, but their addiction to the relationship is stronger than their intellect.


The chorus of the song is where the title comes in: the singer is begging their partner to "disarm me with your loneliness," meaning they want to be soothed by their partner's presence even though they know it will ultimately hurt them. The lines "deceive me out of my emptiness / telling me how you love me with all your heart no more" reveal that the relationship has lost its spark, but the singer is willing to hear anything that will keep them in it for a little while longer. In the final lines, the singer resolves to "break all the rules" of the game of love for their partner, even if it means more pain and heartbreak in the future.


Line by Line Meaning

The promise of heaven pushed us right back to hell
We were hopeful for a better future, but it only led us to a worse situation


Turned three sevens into three sixes again
Our luck has turned for the worse and we are left with less than we hoped for


And you laughed at my face when I told you how much it hurts And said
You mocked my feelings and dismissed my pain, showing a lack of compassion


Disarm me with your loneliness just like always before
You have the power to make me vulnerable and weak, as you have done in the past


Deceive me out of my emptiness telling me how you love
You use false promises and flattery to manipulate my feelings and fill my voids


You keep on tempting me to go on whatever the cost
You entice me to continue down a destructive path, even if it hurts me in the end


To witness the prettiest flower in bloom wither to dust
To see something beautiful and promising turn into something worthless and dead


So I'll break all the rules in this endless game once called "Love" for you
I am willing to sacrifice and go against my better judgement in the name of love for you


Deceive me out of my emptiness telling me how you love me with all your heart no more
You continue to manipulate and lie to me about your love, even though it is fading away




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Ville Hermanni Valo

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