You & A Promise
Howie Day Lyrics


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She was nervous she was late
She left it up to fate
Standing at a phone, oh
And she knows what she wants
And she came here to take it
How perfect it could be
You and me
And she met him at the door
"I don't want you anymore"
"Remember what you said?"

You and a promise
You and a promise
You...

Turned and he didn't wait
He walked right through the gate
So glad to be alone, mmmm
And he knows who to call
"I'll always be there for you,
call me anytime"
"I don't mean to offend,
the voice on the other end
is a stranger to me"

You and a promise
You and a promise
You...

And they say to themselves
And they say to themselves
How could I ever let this happen

You and a promise
You and a promise




Take me back
Or let this happen

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Howie Day’s You & A Promise tell a bittersweet story about a woman who arrives at a designated location to meet a man with whom she has an unconsummated romantic connection. The woman is nervous and late, but she leaves everything to fate as she stands at a phone, waiting for the man. She knows what she wants and is determined to take it. As the man arrives, she greets him at the door and tells him that she doesn't want him anymore, reminding him of his previous words. Though the man walks right through the gate, the lyrics later reveal that he had said that he would always be there for her, and she could call him anytime.


The pain and regrets of missed opportunities in the past resurface as the characters lament over how they let the situation develop. They end up saying to themselves, "How could I ever let this happen?" As the chorus of the song repeats the words, "You and a promise," it is evident that both characters do not find comfort in their empty promises. The lyrics tell a tale of two individuals caught in a moment of indecision, which creates consequences that they may later regret.


Overall, the lyrics of You & A Promise beautifully encapsulate the feelings of longing, regret, and missed opportunities that many people have or experience at some point in their lives, making it an incredibly relatable song.


Line by Line Meaning

She was nervous she was late
She was feeling anxious and worried because she was running behind schedule.


She left it up to fate
She allowed destiny to decide the outcome of the situation.


Standing at a phone, oh
She was waiting by the telephone apparatus.


And she knows what she wants
She understands what she desires.


And she came here to take it
She arrived with the intent of obtaining what she wanted.


How perfect it could be
The situation had the potential to be flawless.


You and me
The two of us together.


And she met him at the door
She encountered him when he arrived.


"I don't want you anymore"
She expressed that she no longer desired to be with him.


"Remember what you said?"
She reminded him of a previous conversation or promise he made.


You and a promise You and a promise You...
The person is being reminded of a promise they made.


Turned and he didn't wait
He immediately departed without any hesitation or delay.


He walked right through the gate
He left through the entranceway.


So glad to be alone, mmmm
He was content and pleased to be by himself.


And he knows who to call
He is aware of which individual to contact.


"I'll always be there for you, call me anytime"
He promised to be available for assistance whenever needed.


"I don't mean to offend, the voice on the other end is a stranger to me"
He apologized and explained that he did not recognize the person answering the phone.


And they say to themselves And they say to themselves How could I ever let this happen
The individuals ponder and ask themselves how they allowed the situation to occur.


Take me back Or let this happen
The person is presenting two feasible options: return to a previous state or let things unfold as they may.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: HOWIE DAY, JAY CLIFFORD

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