All Alone
Ilse DeLange Lyrics


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I can't give
When you give nothing in return
I can't live
When all my freedom's burned
Above me
In front of me no room for you
Beside me
Is all that I can do

Don't hold me
Don't tie me down
Don't change me
Leave what you've found
All alone

So quiet
Your insecurities are clear
You hide it
There's so much that you fear
Run naked
There's beauty in an open soul
Just break it
Your desire to control

Don't hold me
Don't tie me down
Don't change me
Leave what you've found
You won't break me
I won't turn around
You can't take me
And leave what you found
All alone

All alone
Don't try your ideals at me
All alone baby I'm not something that you can own
All alone I won't live in your world for me
All alone Look at me I'm better of
All alone on the run from reality
All alone the light's on but baby I won't be home
All alone your attitude is all pride to me




All alone keep it up and you're gonna be
All alone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "All Alone" by Ilse DeLange highlights the feeling of being caged and suffocated in a relationship. The singer is unable to give herself entirely, as she feels she does not receive the same level of commitment from her partner. The first two lines, "I can't give, when you give nothing in return," illustrate the singer's frustration with the lack of reciprocity in her relationship. She is exhausted and cannot continue to function in a relationship that leaves her feeling unappreciated and restricted. The phrase "all my freedom's burned" conveys a sense of despair—it seems that the more she gives in the relationship, the less freedom she has.


In the second verse, the singer criticizes her partner's overbearing nature. She notes that "Your insecurities are clear" and "There's so much that you fear." These lines reveal that the partner tries to compensate for their insecurities by exercising control over the singer, which only exacerbates their problems. The singer then urges her partner to break down their defenses and embrace vulnerability. She states, "Run naked. There's beauty in an open soul. Just break it. Your desire to control." These lines reflect her sentiment that true intimacy arises when partners trust each other enough to let down their guard.


The song's lyrics highlight the importance of mutual respect, trust, and independence in a relationship. The last line, "All Alone," interjects the singer's feeling of isolation and solitude. The singer ends the song with the repeated phrase, "All alone," which emphasizes the idea that sometimes being lonely is better than being in a relationship that stifles individuality.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't give
I cannot keep giving all of myself


When you give nothing in return
When you don't reciprocate my giving


I can't live
I cannot survive in this relationship


When all my freedom's burned
When I lose all of my independence and self-determination


Above me
Over my head


In front of me no room for you
I don't want you in my life anymore


Beside me
Next to me


Is all that I can do
The only option left for me is to be alone


Don't hold me
Do not try to hold me back


Don't tie me down
Do not try to restrain or limit me


Don't change me
Do not try to alter my character or personality


Leave what you've found
Accept me for who I am


All alone
I am going to be on my own


So quiet
Your personality is calm and reserved


Your insecurities are clear
You are evidently lacking in self-confidence and self-assurance


You hide it
You are trying to conceal your insecurities from me


There's so much that you fear
You are afraid of a lot of things


Run naked
Be yourself, expose your true nature


There's beauty in an open soul
There is something special in a person who is not afraid to show their true self


Just break it
Don't be afraid to show your vulnerability


Your desire to control
Your need to have power and authority over me


You won't break me
I won't let you destroy my spirit


I won't turn around
I won't come back to you


You can't take me
You cannot force me to stay with you


And leave what you found
Leave me as I am


Don't try your ideals at me
Do not impose your beliefs on me


All alone baby I'm not something that you can own
I am not your possession


I won't live in your world for me
I am not going to live according to your expectations


Look at me I'm better off
Being alone is better than being with you


On the run from reality
I am fleeing from my actual situation with you


The light's on but baby I won't be home
I may physically be present, but emotionally I won't be there with you


Your attitude is all pride to me
Your behavior seems to be driven by your arrogance


Keep it up and you're gonna be
If you keep behaving like this, you are going to end up alone


All alone
You will be on your own




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: BRUCE GAITSCH, ILSE DE LANGE

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@Softale

Not bad...the band rocks. 

@edsko1973

Never enough from ilse!!! more more more please