Not Waiting for You
Ilse DeLange Lyrics


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Come with me, catch this ride, if you wanna be
In this place, in this time, that no one can see
Where is it that we go, so make up your mind
Look ahead, your behind, if you wait to see
When your mind's free of doubt
What's left to believe
There's no one that can tell you, so you decide
I've tried, oh I've tried
I was stuck in this hole, with my face to the ground
Love, let me go
And I'm not waiting for you

In your eyes, I can see, what's missing inside
You get high, not on me, just along for the ride
It's not easy to ignore you, and your foolish pride

But I'll try, I'll try
I was stuck in this hole, with my face to the ground
Love, let me go
And I'm not waiting for you

I'll go, 'cause I can't wait and see
You know, this isn't enough for me
No show, nowhere to be found
I'll go
With my face to the ground
Love, let me go
And I'm not waiting for you
Not waiting for you




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Overall Meaning

In Ilse DeLange's song "Not Waiting for You," she invites someone to join her on a ride to an unknown, hidden destination. She encourages them to make up their mind because no one can tell them where to go or what to believe. The lyrics suggest that one needs to let go of doubt and take control of their life, decide what they want to believe in, and move forward. She then reveals that she was once stuck in a hole with her face to the ground, but she managed to break free and will no longer wait for anyone. She tells this person that she sees something missing inside them and that they only use her as a temporary high. She acknowledges that it's hard to ignore their foolish pride but that she will try, and ultimately, she decides to let go of them and move on with her life.


The song's lyrics convey a powerful message of taking charge of one's life and letting go of toxic people, relationships, and situations. This song's theme can resonate with people who have faced similar circumstances in their lives, making it relatable to a vast audience. It also inspires listeners to be brave and make decisions that align with their beliefs and values, even if it means letting go of certain people.


Line by Line Meaning

Come with me, catch this ride, if you wanna be
Join me on this journey, if you're ready for it


In this place, in this time, that no one can see
We'll go to a secret place where nobody else knows about


Where is it that we go, so make up your mind
You have to decide where our journey takes us


Look ahead, your behind, if you wait to see
Don't let your past hold you back from what's ahead


When your mind's free of doubt
If you're not hesitant anymore


What's left to believe
Then there's not much else to consider


There's no one that can tell you, so you decide
Nobody else can make the decision for you


I've tried, oh I've tried
I've made an effort, believe me


I was stuck in this hole, with my face to the ground
I was in a difficult situation, feeling helpless


Love, let me go
I have to move on from this relationship


And I'm not waiting for you
I'm not going to hold out and hope for things to work out with you


In your eyes, I can see, what's missing inside
I see something's lacking in you


You get high, not on me, just along for the ride
You're just looking for something to do, not interested in being with me


It's not easy to ignore you, and your foolish pride
I find it hard to disregard your arrogance


I'll go, 'cause I can't wait and see
I have to leave now, can't stand waiting anymore


You know, this isn't enough for me
I need more out of this relationship


No show, nowhere to be found
You're not here for me


Not waiting for you
I don't want to hold out any longer


Not waiting
It's time for me to stop waiting




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