Did We Really Ever Try
Incognito Lyrics


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Did we really ever try to understand each other?
Or was it just a game that sometimes people play?
Did we really ever see eye to eye, I wonder?
Was it just a game that sometimes people play?
[Sometimes people play]

I wonder if
We ever listened
To a word
That the other had to say

All that we shared
Our inner treasures
Are used against each other as we fall

Chorus

I wonder if
Before we started
We could have known
That the road would end this way

What makes us give
Our hearts so freely
Only to find that we're strangers after all

Chorus

Night and day, night and day, day and night
Night and day, people play, day and night

We fool ourselves
Into believing
Our difference will surely change in time

So we proceed




Blissfully blinded
Throwing caution to the wind along the way

Overall Meaning

The song "Did We Really Ever Try" by Incognito is a reflection on a failed relationship, and asks the question whether the two individuals involved actually made an effort to understand each other, or if it was all just a game that people sometimes play. The lyrics are introspective and melancholic, with the singer wondering if they could have done something differently to prevent the heartbreak. The chorus repeats the sentiment of questioning whether they really tried or if they were just fooling themselves, emphasizing the feeling of regret and self-blame.


The lines "All that we shared, our inner treasures, are used against each other as we fall" suggest that the two individuals were once close and shared deep personal insights, but they later turned on each other, using this knowledge as ammunition in their disagreements. This adds to the sense of sorrow and disillusionment in the song, as the singer feels like they opened up too much, only to be hurt in the end.


The third verse mentions how people "fool ourselves into believing our differences will surely change in time", possibly referencing how the couple may have ignored or dismissed their disagreements and hoped they would resolve themselves. The final lines "throwing caution to the wind along the way" imply that the couple's downfall was partly due to their reckless abandon, and their refusal to recognize warning signs.


Overall, the song is a poignant portrayal of heartbreak and regret, with an emphasis on introspection and questioning one's actions and motives.


Line by Line Meaning

Did we really ever try to understand each other?
I wonder if we genuinely made an effort to comprehend each other's perspectives or if we were simply playing a game.


Or was it just a game that sometimes people play?
Perhaps our interactions were not sincere, and it was just a common practice of some individuals to engage in such behavior.


Did we really ever see eye to eye, I wonder?
I question if there was ever true agreement or common ground between us.


Was it just a game that sometimes people play?
It's possible that our connection was nothing more than an act, played out by some individuals.


[Sometimes people play]
Occasionally, individuals engage in false or superficial relationships, instead of authentic ones.


I wonder if we ever listened to a word that the other had to say
I have a suspicion that we didn't take the time to truly hear what the other person was communicating.


All that we shared, our inner treasures, are used against each other as we fall
Our deepest thoughts and feelings were weaponized, leading to the inevitable collapse of our relationship.


Chorus
Refrain


I wonder if before we started, we could have known that the road would end this way
I question if it was possible to predict that our journey would result in such a disappointing conclusion.


What makes us give our hearts so freely, only to find that we're strangers after all
What causes us to be so vulnerable and trusting, only to ultimately realize that we never really knew each other.


Chorus
Refrain


Night and day, night and day, day and night
Regardless of the time of day, this struggle was constantly present.


Night and day, people play, day and night
Despite the time of day, individuals may still engage in superficial relationships as a form of entertainment.


We fool ourselves into believing our difference will surely change in time
We deceive ourselves into believing that our unique personalities and viewpoints would eventually align and come to an understanding.


So we proceed blissfully blinded, throwing caution to the wind along the way
Despite the warning signs, we continue to move forward with reckless optimism, ignoring the potential dangers along the way.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: EDOUARD JEAN PAUL MAUNICK, MARK EDWARDS

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