Don't Break Me Down
Incognito Lyrics


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Tears well up and words exchanged
As we try to match each other blow by blow
The days go by but nothing's changed
We simply patch the surface of what lies below

On any given morning
Yesterday's smile may just have been replaced
From somewhere without warning
Rain clouds appear on sunny days

Break into my consciousness.
Break into my silence
But don't break me down
Break into my loneliness.
Do it with some tenderness
Don't break me down

It would hurt for me to know
That I could never change your heart or mine
It's easier to let it go
But that's an option that I'm likely to decline

The truth is understanding
That everything has a time and a place




A chapter could be closing
As an opening door your saving grace

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Incognito Feat. Vanessa Haynes's song Don't Break Me Down seem to be about a couple experiencing difficulties in their relationship. They are trying to work things out by communicating and being honest with each other, but they are also afraid of being hurt or breaking down emotionally. The first verse talks about how they are both trying to fight for their own feelings without really listening to each other. They are not making any progress, just trying to fix things on the surface while ignoring deeper issues. The second verse talks about the fear of not being able to change or save the relationship, but also the fear of letting go. However, the chorus is a plea for tenderness and understanding. The singer wants to be heard and understood, but not broken down in the process. They are looking for a way to create a deeper connection, but not at the expense of their own well-being.


Overall, the lyrics are quite powerful and emotional. They speak to the experience of many people who have struggled in their relationships, trying to communicate and be heard, yet always fearing the worst. The song also has a hopeful message, suggesting that even if things don't work out, there is always a new beginning waiting.


Line by Line Meaning

Tears well up and words exchanged
Emotions rise and we start to argue


As we try to match each other blow by blow
We're competing to see who can hurt each other more


The days go by but nothing's changed
Time passes but we're not making any real progress in our relationship


We simply patch the surface of what lies below
We're only fixing the superficial issues and ignoring the deeper problems


On any given morning
At any moment


Yesterday's smile may just have been replaced
You might not be as happy as you seemed yesterday


From somewhere without warning
Without any prior indication


Rain clouds appear on sunny days
Problems arise unexpectedly


Break into my consciousness.
Enter my mind


Break into my silence
Make me speak up


But don't break me down
But don't hurt me


Break into my loneliness.
Come into my life


Do it with some tenderness
Be gentle with me


Don't break me down
Don't cause me pain


It would hurt for me to know
It would be painful for me to acknowledge


That I could never change your heart or mine
That we cannot change how we truly feel about each other


It's easier to let it go
It seems easier to move on


But that's an option that I'm likely to decline
But I might not be able to choose that path


The truth is understanding
The reality is realizing


That everything has a time and a place
That everything happens for a reason


A chapter could be closing
A phase of our lives may be ending


As an opening door your saving grace
And a new opportunity may be what saves us both




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