If You Don't Wanna Love Me
James Morrison Lyrics


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When you lower me down
So deep that I
I can't get out
And when you're lost, lost and alone
Yes you'd think it was a liars place
You'd come back for more
If you don't want me to leave
Then don't push me away
Rather blow out the lights you can watch it all fade
But I'm going nowhere

I'm gonna stay
When you just wanna fight
When you're closing you're eyes
'Cause you don't wanna love me
I'm gonna stay
You can't push me too far




There's no space in my heart
When I don't wanna love you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of James Morrison's "If You Don't Wanna Love Me" portrays a message of staying committed and loyal to one's love, despite physical or emotional difficulties. The opening line of the song, "When you lower me down so deep that I can't get out," creates an intense image of being trapped or helpless in a situation. Morrison is suggesting that he is committed to his love, but sometimes, the situation may seem overwhelming and challenging.


The second verse of the song continues the theme of loyalty and staying true to one's love. The line "When you're lost, lost and alone, yes you'd think it was a liars place, you'd come back for more" illustrates the idea that even when things may seem darkest in a relationship, the love between the two partners can still shine through. Despite the challenges, the love that the two share will always overcome any obstacle.


The chorus of the song, "If you don't want me to leave, then don't push me away, rather blow out the lights you can watch it all fade, but I'm going nowhere, I'm gonna stay," is a plea to the other partner not to push away their love but to rather embrace it wholeheartedly. Morrison is asking his love not to run away from him but rather to work together to resolve any disagreement or difficult situation. The entire song conveys an inner struggle between the need to stay and the fear of being rejected by one's love.


Line by Line Meaning

When you lower me down
When you bring me down to a low point


So deep that I
So deep that I can't see a way out


I can't get out
I feel trapped and unable to escape


And when you're lost, lost and alone
And when you feel lost and alone


Yes you'd think it was a liars place
It may seem like a place for dishonesty


You'd come back for more
Despite that, you would return


If you don't want me to leave
If you want me to stay


Then don't push me away
Don't distance yourself from me


Rather blow out the lights you can watch it all fade
Instead, let's create an ambiance and enjoy the moment


But I'm going nowhere
But I'm not leaving you


I'm gonna stay
I'm committed to staying with you


When you just wanna fight
When you're ready to argue


When you're closing you're eyes
When you're trying to shut me out


'Cause you don't wanna love me
Because you're afraid of getting hurt


I'm gonna stay
I'm still committed to staying with you


You can't push me too far
You can't make me give up on you easily


There's no space in my heart
There's no room for anyone else in my heart


When I don't wanna love you
When I'm struggling with my own feelings for you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MARTIN BRAMMER, JAMES MORRISON CATCHPOLE, STEPHEN PAUL ROBSON

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