Insensitive
Jann Arden Lyrics


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How do you cool your lips after a summer's kiss?
How do you rid the sweat after the body bliss?
How do you turn your eyes from the romantic glare?
How do you block the sound
Of a voice you'd know anywhere?

Oh, I really should have known
By the time you drove me home
By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes
By the chill in your embrace
The expression on your face, told me
Maybe, you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive, insensitive, ooh, insensitive

How do you numb your skin after the warmest touch?
How do you slow your blood after the body rush?
How do you free your soul after you've found a friend?
How do you teach your heart
It's a crime to fall in love again?

Oh, you probably won't remember me
It's probably ancient history
I'm one of the chosen few
Who went ahead and fell for you
I'm out of vogue, I'm out of touch
I fell too fast I feel too much
I thought that you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive

Oh, I really should have known
By the time you drove me home
By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes
By the chill in your embrace
The expression on your face that told me
Maybe, you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive (how to be)




Insensitive (how to be)
Insensitive (how to be)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jann Arden's song "Insensitive" explores the difficulties of moving on and protecting oneself from emotional pain after love has ended. The opening lines of the song, "How do you cool your lips after a summer's kiss? How do you rid the sweat after the body bliss?" creates a vivid image of a passionate and intense relationship. However, the subsequent lines reveal a sense of longing and sadness as the singer struggles to forget the memories of the past.


The next set of lyrics express the need to detach from the emotional connection with a former love. The lines, "How do you turn your eyes from the romantic glare? How do you block the sound of a voice you'd know anywhere?" illustrate the difficulty of moving on and letting go of someone whose presence lingers even after the relationship ends.


The chorus of the song highlights the singer's desire to learn how to become insensitive to love and emotional vulnerability. The lines, "Oh, I really should have known by the time you drove me home, by the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes, by the chill in your embrace, the expression on your face, told me maybe you might have some advice to give on how to be insensitive," convey a sense of resignation and acceptance that being sensitive to love will only lead to heartache and pain.


Overall, "Insensitive" is a poignant and honest portrayal of the struggle to move on from a past relationship and to protect oneself from future emotional pain.


Line by Line Meaning

How do you cool your lips after a summer's kiss?
How do you forget the passion of a summer romance?


How do you rid the sweat after the body bliss?
How do you move on from the physical intimacy?


How do you turn your eyes from the romantic glare?
How do you stop seeing the love you once had?


How do you block the sound Of a voice you'd know anywhere?
How do you forget the voice of someone you once loved?


Oh, I really should have known By the time you drove me home By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes By the chill in your embrace The expression on your face, told me
I should have realized you were being distant by the way you said goodbye and held me, indicating that you were insensitive


Maybe, you might have some advice to give On how to be insensitive, insensitive, ooh, insensitive
Perhaps you can teach me how to shut off my emotions like you have


How do you numb your skin after the warmest touch?
How do you forget the feeling of someone's warmth on your skin?


How do you slow your blood after the body rush?
How do you calm down after experiencing physical passion?


How do you free your soul after you've found a friend?
How do you move on from a friendship that could have been more?


How do you teach your heart It's a crime to fall in love again?
How do you convince yourself not to fall in love again?


Oh, you probably won't remember me It's probably ancient history I'm one of the chosen few Who went ahead and fell for you I'm out of vogue, I'm out of touch I fell too fast I feel too much
You likely forgot about me; I was foolish for falling hard for you and now feel out of touch with your emotions


I thought that you might have some advice to give On how to be insensitive
I believed that you could offer guidance on how to be unfeeling like you are


Oh, I really should have known By the time you drove me home By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes By the chill in your embrace The expression on your face that told me
I should have been aware you were closing yourself off by the way you said goodbye and held me, indicating that you were insensitive


Maybe, you might have some advice to give On how to be insensitive (how to be) Insensitive (how to be) Insensitive (how to be)
Perhaps you can teach me how to be cold-hearted like you (repeated for emphasis)




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Anne Loree

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