Friendly Fire
Jawbreaker Lyrics


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Walked beyond the fence, played outside our yard.
You took it hard. Through a one-way door hinged high
on doubt. No ins, no outs.
I like my clothes. Don't want to grow.
I'll wait around 'til you say go.
The lights were off when I got home.
Black room, blue phone. Don't I know your name?
Weren't we almost friends?
Guess that depends. Take some benefit with all your
doubt. If this is principle,
I'm dropping out. You demonize so you don't look so
bad. You wouldn't take what you couldn't have.
My back is warm with your friendly fire.
I know you're trying. Could you please aim it higher?




So alone I wrote, I wrote this will.
I will decline. This fish ain't big. This pond is small. So small of mind.

Overall Meaning

In Jawbreaker's song "Friendly Fire," the singer reflects on a broken friendship and the hurt caused by the other person's actions. The verse "Walked beyond the fence, played outside our yard. You took it hard" describes how the singer ventured out of their comfort zone, possibly growing as a person, and their friend was unable to handle it. The next lines, "Through a one-way door hinged high on doubt. No ins, no outs," suggest that the friend's perspective was limited, and they were unable or unwilling to see the situation from different angles.


The chorus, "You demonize so you don't look so bad. You wouldn't take what you couldn't have. My back is warm with your friendly fire. I know you're trying. Could you please aim it higher?" highlights the singer's frustration with their friend's behavior. The friend is projecting their insecurities onto the singer, painting them as the enemy, and causing emotional pain. The singer recognizes that their friend is not inherently bad, but they are misguided and could benefit from being more introspective.


The final verse, "So alone I wrote, I wrote this will. I will decline. This fish ain't big. This pond is small. So small of mind," reveals the singer's decision to move on from the friendship. They have recognized that the friend is unable to grow with them and that they need to leave the small-mindedness behind. Overall, "Friendly Fire" is a poignant reminder of the importance of supporting our friends' growth and being careful not to project our insecurities onto others.


Line by Line Meaning

Walked beyond the fence, played outside our yard.
We went beyond our comfort zone and tried something new, but you didn't like it.


You took it hard. Through a one-way door hinged high on doubt. No ins, no outs.
You were upset by our actions and closed yourself off to the possibility of understanding. You refused to let anything in or out.


I like my clothes. Don't want to grow. I'll wait around 'til you say go.
I'm comfortable with who I am and don't want to change. I'll respect your feelings and wait until you're ready to move forward.


The lights were off when I got home. Black room, blue phone. Don't I know your name?
I came back to a dark, empty place and realized I don't even know your real identity anymore.


Weren't we almost friends? Guess that depends. Take some benefit with all your doubt.
We had a connection at one point, but it's unclear if we can still consider ourselves friends. You seem to gain something by being skeptical of others.


If this is principle, I'm dropping out. You demonize so you don't look so bad.
If your behavior is based on some kind of belief system, I don't want any part of it. You try to make others look bad to make yourself feel better.


You wouldn't take what you couldn't have.
You are unable to accept anything that you cannot control or obtain.


My back is warm with your friendly fire. I know you're trying. Could you please aim it higher?
Your attempts to reach out and connect are coming off as hurtful criticism. I understand your intentions, but I need you to communicate in a more positive and productive manner.


So alone I wrote, I wrote this will. I will decline.
I felt isolated and wrote down my thoughts and plans. Ultimately, I will choose to remove myself from this negative situation.


This fish ain't big. This pond is small. So small of mind.
This situation is not important in the grand scheme of things. However, your unwillingness to open up and accept new experiences is limiting your mindset.




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