But Not For Me
Joe Wilder Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Joe Wilder's "But Not For Me" reflects the heartache and disappointment of unrequited love. The opening lines of the song set the tone for its melancholic theme, as the singer dismisses the notion of dreams coming true and warns against false hope. He declares that he would "start a riot" if anyone suggested that the person he loves might come to care for him. The reference to 'Beatrice Fairfax' refers to an advice columnist, and the singer seems to be saying that even such a figure of trust could not convince him that his love will ever be reciprocated. The final lines of the first verse suggest a sense of finality, as the singer admits that he does not believe in the idea of fate providing a "mate."


The chorus of the song further emphasizes the futility of the singer's love. He notes that while love songs may be written, they are not written for him. There may be a "lucky star" shining above, but it is not for him. He has found nothing but "clouds of gray" in his search for love, even more than any Russian play could offer. Although he may hold on to the memory of a kiss, he ultimately acknowledges that the person he loves is not meant to be. The repetition of the lines "I was a fool to fall and get that way" suggest a sense of remorse, as if the singer blames himself for allowing his emotions to get the best of him. The song ends on a wistful note, as the singer concedes to his fate and acknowledges that the one he loves is "not for me."


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
I'm addressing the bright and positive aspects of life.


Never tell me dreams come true
Don't try to convince me that my hopes and aspirations will be fulfilled.


Just try it and I'll start a riot
I'll protest and fight against this idea.


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
I won't accept any advice from someone who claims to know everything about love.


Ever tell me he will care
I don't believe that any man will truly love me.


I'm certain it's the final curtain
I'm convinced that my love life is over.


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
I don't want to hear from anyone who is overly optimistic about love.


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
I don't believe in destiny or the idea that there is one perfect person for everyone.


It's all bananas
It's all ridiculous and meaningless.


They're writing songs of love but not for me
Love songs don't speak to my personal experience and struggles.


A lucky star's above but not for me
Others may have found happiness, but it's not meant for me.


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Despite searching for love, I've only encountered disappointment and sadness.


Than any Russian play could guarantee
Even the most tragic or pessimistic works of art cannot match my romantic misfortune.


I was a fool to fall and get that way
I regret allowing myself to become vulnerable and emotionally invested in someone.


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
I'm expressing my sorrow and disappointment about my situation.


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I still fondly recall moments of intimacy and affection with my past lover.


I guess he's not for me
I've come to terms with the fact that this person is not the right one for me.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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@mistermister6686

Joe Wilder × Wilder 'N' Wilder
Tracks:
A1 Cherokee 00:00
A2 Prelude To A Kiss 10:44
A3 My Heart Stood Still 15:49
B1 Six Bit Blues 20:21
B2 Mad About The Boy 28:51
B3 Darn That Dream 33:23

Credits:
Trumpet – Joe Wilder
Piano – Hank Jones
Drums – Kenny Clarke
Bass – Wendell Marshall

Recorded January 19, 1956.



All comments from YouTube:

@mistermister6686

Joe Wilder × Wilder 'N' Wilder
Tracks:
A1 Cherokee 00:00
A2 Prelude To A Kiss 10:44
A3 My Heart Stood Still 15:49
B1 Six Bit Blues 20:21
B2 Mad About The Boy 28:51
B3 Darn That Dream 33:23

Credits:
Trumpet – Joe Wilder
Piano – Hank Jones
Drums – Kenny Clarke
Bass – Wendell Marshall

Recorded January 19, 1956.

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Love this Record ! Thanks for sharing !❤❤❤

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@bojanboskovic6744

Frankly, all moving parts stading still. Relaxation!

@jazzhonk21

This is a great one; thanks.

@bradking1536

Thank you for sharing, like your channel🎉, hope you are well God loves you deeply shalom 🤗🐼♥️✝️💐 Philippians 4:8

@ronaldunkel2681

Joe in his element with a superb rhythm section lead by master-pianist Hank Jones. Nice easy swinging session folks. G’day & Cheers!

@LongwingSeagull

This seems to be one of Mr. Wilder`s few releases as leader during the 50`s (only three to be exact). Worked as sideman quite a bit and outside of the jazz world as well.

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Very good ~~~~ ☆☆☆

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