But Not for Me
John Coltrane Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

"But Not for Me" is a bluesy, jazz standard by George and Ira Gershwin. The song is a ballad about unrequited love, and in John Coltrane's version, he expresses the sorrow and pain of losing love. The lyrics are written to convey the singer's bitterness and disillusionment with love, and they begin by engaging with the likes of Old Man Sunshine and Beatrice Fairfax (famous for her advice column) and expressing a deep mistrust in the idea of finding love. The singer is certain that fate doesn't supply a mate and that those who are happy in love are living in a world of delusion.


The first verse's lyrics convey a sense of bewilderment at why other people seem to be finding love so easily, while the singer is left behind in their own misery. The singer says there may be a lucky star above them, but it's just not shining for them. The second verse continues this sadness, with the singer admitting that they were a fool to fall in love, but they can't forget the memory of their lover's kiss. The line "Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss, I guess he's not for me" distils the central pain of the song. The singer is hurting deeply and struggling to come to terms with the reality of their situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
Addressing the imaginary old man sunshine, implying that his words hold no value or truth


Never tell me dreams come true
Requesting not to be told that dreams come true, indicating a lack of faith in hope and optimism


Just try it and I'll start a riot
Warning of the singer's tendency to react negatively if challenged or told what to do


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Calling out Beatrice Fairfax, an advice columnist, and forbidding her from trying to give advice


Ever tell me he will care
Rejecting the idea that someone will care for the artist, hinting at past disappointments or heartbreaks


I'm certain it's the final curtain
Believing that the end is near or that the singer's chances of finding love are now gone


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Expressing disdain for overly optimistic or idealistic people who do not reflect the singer's worldview


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
Dismissing the notion that fate will provide the artist with a romantic partner, suggesting a lack of control over one's life


It's all bananas
Summarizing the previous lines as nonsense or crazy talk, indicating the artist's frustrated state of mind


They're writing songs of love but not for me
Observing that love songs exist but do not apply to the artist, highlighting feelings of isolation or loneliness


A lucky star's above but not for me
Acknowledging that there may be luck or fortune in the world, but it does not seem to benefit the singer personally


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Noting that despite a desire for love and affection, the artist has encountered more sadness and disappointment than joy and happiness


Than any Russian play could guarantee
Comparing the singer's experiences unfavorably to those depicted in Russian plays known for their bleakness and tragedy


I was a fool to fall and get that way
Admitting that the singer has made foolish decisions in the past, potentially related to a failed romance


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Expressing sadness or disappointment through a string of exclamations


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
Admitting that despite regrets or bitterness, the artist still remembers fondly an intimate moment with someone


I guess he's not for me
Concluding that the person with whom the artist shared a kiss is not meant to be together, accepting their incompatible paths




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing, Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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@soclarc

With an artist like Coltrane it seems almost pointless to try to rank his best performances. But whenever I hear his inspired rendition of Gershwin's "But Not For Me," I'm tempted to say, This is it! He transcends other versions of this great song--he transforms the song beautifully and carries you along in a sweeping excitement and beauty you won't find elsewhere in music. The song itself is both lovely and jazz-prolific at its mysterious core, and Coltrane takes to the Solo Road and takes us to heights not before scaled. 

Tyner, up to the magic, shines.

@kevinstewart3029

The Gospel of John

@hemanthkamana1886

The solo is incredible but the way he plays on the repeating 1625s hits different. It's so beautiful and swingin

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