Dear Marie
John Mayer Lyrics


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Dear Marie, tell me what it was I used to be
Dear Marie, tell me what it was I used to be
And if you're further up the road can you show me what I still can't see

Remember me, I'm the boy you used to love when we were fifteen
Remember me, I'm the boy you used to love when we were fifteen
Now I wonder what you think when you see me on the magazine
From time to time, I go looking for your photograph online
From time to time, I go looking for your photograph online
Some county judge in Ohio is all I ever find

Dear Marie, tell me do you still believe in me
Dear Marie, tell me do you still believe in me
Yeah I've got my dream but you've got family




Yeah I've got my dream but you've got family
Yeah I've got my dream but I guess it got away from me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of John Mayer's "Dear Marie" tell the story of a man who is trying to reconnect with a woman from his past. Throughout the song, he asks her to remember what he used to be and wonders what she thinks of him now that he's in the spotlight. He also worries that his dream of fame and success may have caused him to lose sight of what's truly important in life, namely love and connection with others.


The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, as the singer asks Marie if she still believes in him. He has achieved his dream of being a famous musician, but he's not sure if that's enough to make him happy. Meanwhile, Marie has started a family, which highlights the different paths their lives have taken.


The song's theme of nostalgia and longing for the past is underscored by the fact that the singer keeps looking for Marie's photograph online. He's clearly stuck in the past and struggling to come to terms with how much he's changed since he and Marie were teenagers.


Overall, "Dear Marie" is a bittersweet reflection on the passing of time and the choices we make in life. It's a reminder that success and fame don't necessarily bring happiness, and that our relationships with others are what truly matter.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear Marie, tell me what it was I used to be
Addressing his old flame, the songwriter is asking her to remind him of what he used to be in the past.


And if you're further up the road can you show me what I still can't see
Requesting her guidance, he asks if she can help him see what he has missed and still can't perceive.


Remember me, I'm the boy you used to love when we were fifteen
He is indirectly asking if his former flame can recall him as the boy she was fond of when they were teenagers.


Now I wonder what you think when you see me on the magazine
He's curious about what she thinks when she sees him featured in popular magazines or media content.


From time to time, I go looking for your photograph online
He confesses to searching for her picture on the internet whenever he feels nostalgic, missing her presence and reminiscing about their past.


Some county judge in Ohio is all I ever find
He’s saying that all he has been able to uncover online is information about a Judge with a similar name to hers who lives in Ohio.


Dear Marie, tell me do you still believe in me
He wants to know if she still has faith in him as a person and has confidence in his ability to achieve success.


Yeah I've got my dream but you've got family
He recognizes that while he's still chasing after his aspirations and pursuing his goals, she has prioritized her family life and has different priorities now.


Yeah I've got my dream but I guess it got away from me
He admits that though he had a dream of being successful, it appears to have slipped away from him, leaving him feeling unfulfilled.




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Written by: John Clayton Mayer

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@shintuanthanh4091

Dear Marie, tell me what it was I used to be
Dear Marie, tell me what it was I used to be
And if you're further up the road can you show me what I still can't see.

Remember me, I'm the boy you used to love when we were fifteen
Remember me, I'm the boy you used to love when we were fifteen
Now I wonder what you think when you see me on the magazine.

From time to time, I go looking for your photograph online
From time to time, I go looking for your photograph online
Some county judge in Ohio is all I ever find.

Dear Marie, tell me do you still believe in me
Dear Marie, tell me do you still believe in me
Yeah I've got my dream but you've got family
Yeah I've got my dream but you've got family
Yeah I've got my dream but I guess it got away from me



All comments from YouTube:

@silverstaralchemist

Did some digging and discovered the infamous Marie's birth name may be Marie Hoover. Graduated Fairfield High the same year as John and shares a name with a county judge in Ohio. Unfortunately, a yearbook of John and Marie's graduating year isn't available online so I guess we'll never really know what she looks like. In the midst of my digging I did find a photo of John's brother, Carl Mayer, in the Fairfield High 1991 yearbook! So I got close, but no cigar.

@ruthylalruatdiki

Really???

@BrewerUMich91

Whatever year he was born add 17 years to it. Thats the year he graduated

@TheRightGuy777

@Cesar Jimenez her first name starts with an A, has one L

@NAJMFAN

She went to a different school than him

@user-grpa1

I think she was one year ahead of him and went to a different school.

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@MrWTFNJ

His music reflects the soul of someone who's lived life and has plenty of first hand experience guiding the song writing.

@kangjungho1820

Agreed.

@mariannegarcia2373

We shared our naivety and innocence with people when we were young, and it's inevitable for us to eventually lead different lives. But sometimes we think about those memories and wonder about things.

@187onaPigeon

Such a genius track. Makes me sad and happy at the same time.

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