Love Is a Verb
John Mayer Lyrics


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Love is a verb
It ain't a thing
It's not something you own
It's not something you scream

When you show me love
I don't need your words
Yeah love ain't a thing
Love is a verb
Love ain't a thing
Love is a verb

Love ain't a crutch
It ain't an excuse
No you can't get through love
On just a pile of I-O-Us

Love ain't a drug
Despite what you've heard
Yeah love ain't a thing
Love is a verb
Love ain't a thing
Love is a verb

So you gotta show, show, show me
Show, show, show me
Show, show, show me
That love is a verb

You gotta show, show, show me
Show, show, show me
Show, show, show me
That love is a verb





Love ain't a thing
Love is a verb

Overall Meaning

In John Mayer's song "Love Is a Verb," the singer explains that love is not a thing or an object that one possesses, but rather an action, a verb that is shown through actions, not just words. He suggests that words are not enough to express love, and that one needs to demonstrate it through physical gestures such as affection, care, and kindness. The song emphasizes that love is not a crutch to rely on, nor an excuse for past wrongdoings that can be remedied by an insincere "I'm sorry" or a gift. It's something that one must earn through consistent, genuine effort and dedication.


Mayer believes that love is not a drug, either. Despite what some might have heard, love does not provide a temporary high that fades away over time. Instead, it is an ongoing process that requires patience, sacrifice, and forgiveness. Both parties involved must work together to create a healthy and loving relationship that lasts. Through this song, Mayer encourages listeners to take proactive steps in demonstrating their love, showing their partners that it's not just a thing that they have, but an action that they are committed to taking.


Line by Line Meaning

Love is a verb
Love is an action that requires effort and intentionality, rather than just a passive thing that you possess or receive.


It ain't a thing
Love is not a tangible or material object that can be acquired or traded for.


It's not something you own
Love cannot be possessed or controlled, as it is a mutual feeling that comes from within.


It's not something you scream
Love is not expressed in loud or dramatic ways, as it is a subtle and genuine feeling that is shown through actions, not just words.


When you show me love
When you demonstrate your affection and care for me, without the need for grand gestures or words, that's when I truly feel loved.


I don't need your words
Words alone cannot convey the depth and sincerity of love, as actions speak louder than words.


Love ain't a crutch
Love is not a means to an end, nor is it a way to fill a void or dependency in your life.


It ain't an excuse
Love shouldn't be used as a way to justify bad behavior or as a way to avoid taking responsibility for one's actions.


No you can't get through love
You can't experience love in a meaningful way by just exchanging material items, as love requires a deeper connection and commitment.


On just a pile of I-O-Us
Love cannot be measured or repaid with just money or promises, as it requires genuine effort and sincerity to maintain.


Love ain't a drug
Love is not an addiction or a crutch for emotional stability, as it should be a healthy and fulfilling aspect of one's life.


Despite what you've heard
Love is often portrayed as a temporary or fleeting feeling, but in reality, it has the potential to last a lifetime when nurtured and valued.


So you gotta show, show, show me
To truly express your love, you need to actively demonstrate it through consistent actions that show your commitment and devotion.


That love is a verb
Love is not just a feeling, it is something that requires action, effort, and dedication in order to be meaningful and fulfilling.




Lyrics © REACH MUSIC PUBLISHING
Written by: JOHN MAYER

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