If She Were You
John Prine Lyrics


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Well, everytime I try to love another
I never know exactly what to do
I'd like to tell her just how much I want her
And I could find the way if she were you

Her eyes may shine for me and not another,
Her lonely arms reach out to hold me too,
She wants to take your place and be my lover
And I could make her mine if she were you

I never knew how much I cared about you
Till your memory made me a lovesick fool

When she speaks to me I hear you sweet voice calling
When I close my eyes your face comes into view
I remember how it hurt when I was falling
And I could fall again if she were you

I never knew how much I cared about you
Till your memory made me a lovesick fool
She wants to take your place and be my lover




And I could make her mine if she were you
Yes, I could make her mine if she was you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of John Prine's song "If She Were You" express the feeling of a person who is struggling to move on from a romantic relationship. The singer, who has tried to love other people after his breakup, realizes that no one can compare to his former lover. He says that he would be able to find the right way to love again if the person he was trying to love was his former lover.


The second stanza reveals that the singer's former lover still loves him and is trying to replace the singer's new lover. The singer expresses his desire to be with his former lover but acknowledges that it cannot happen. He feels that he is a lovesick fool for not realizing how much he cared about his former lover before it was too late.


In the final stanza, the singer realizes that his former lover's memory haunts him and every time he tries to move on, he cannot help but compare them to her. The lyrics suggest that the singer is still in love with his former lover but cannot be with her again.


Overall, John Prine's song "If She Were You" is a poignant portrayal of the pain of unrequited love and struggling to move on from past relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, everytime I try to love another
Even though I try to love another, I always fail


I never know exactly what to do
I am unsure about how to express my feelings to my new love interest


I'd like to tell her just how much I want her
I want to express my feelings to my new love interest


And I could find the way if she were you
I know how to express my feelings if my ex-lover was in the new love interest's place


Her eyes may shine for me and not another,
The new love interest could be interested in me only


Her lonely arms reach out to hold me too,
The new love interest wants to show her affection towards me


She wants to take your place and be my lover
The new love interest is willing to replace my ex-lover


And I could make her mine if she were you
I know how to make her mine only if she was my ex-lover


When she speaks to me I hear your sweet voice calling,
The new love interest's voice reminds me of my ex-lover's voice


When I close my eyes your face comes into view
I can't forget my ex-lover


I remember how it hurt when I was falling
I remember the painful breakup with my ex-lover


And I could fall again if she were you
I could fall in love again only if my ex-lover was in the new love interest's place


Yes, I could make her mine if she was you
I am confident that I can make the new love interest mine if she was my ex-lover




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: JOHN PRINE, STEVE GOODMAN

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@howardspencer7022

Damn I miss this guy

@jacquismith3277

Beautiful. Thanks JP ❤❤

@robertwilliams5151

Thank you for all the beautiful music, Brother! RIP.

@gilesfamily2653

What a voice

@rogerbacorn2848

Oh Boy is right!!

@mikemcnamara6119

His music will last for generations

@JeffinBville

This is one of those albums you bought back in the day and played the heck out of and then moved on to others as John released them while this one would eventually sit on the record shelf gathering dust. But then someone comes along and posts a few cuts and you go, "damn, is this still great today or what?" forcing you to hit the P section of your collection and put needle to vinyl all over again and again and again.

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