When You Find Me
Joshua Radin Lyrics


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Something is said, it sits in my head
It's been there too long, it's killing me slow
It's rolling around, it's pushing me down
It's keeping the good part of me closed

Can't you see that when I find you, I'll find me

Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always
Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always

My only weakness, is knowing your secrets
And holding them close, and hold them tight
I know the way to silently make you
Smile with my eyes, when you're trying to fight

Can't you see that when I find you, I'll find me

Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always

Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always

Cause when I find you, I'll find me

Can't you see that when I find you I'll find me

Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always
Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always
Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always

When I find you...
When I find you...





...I'll find me

Overall Meaning

"When You Find Me" by Joshua Radin is a touching and melancholic song that speaks about two individuals, one of whom has been holding on to something for too long. The narrative in the song is that of a person who feels restrained due to a secret that they've been holding onto for some time. Something is said, and it's been in their head for too long, and it's gradually tearing them apart. The person is fighting against this hidden secret as it's denying them the chance to be the best version of themselves. Joshua Radin sings about this secret that's leaving him vulnerable, preventing him from being who he wants to be.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the need for someone to be there for him, someone who will see past his vulnerability and into his essence, "Can't you see that when I find you, I'll find me." This line speaks volumes on how he feels: he's seeking redemption, a chance to work through the secret with someone who can see him for who he is.


The second verse of the song centers around the idea that his only weakness is knowing secrets about someone else. He feels alive when he's needed; he feels important knowing things that others don't. He knows how to make people smile when they're feeling down, and this makes him feel powerful. However, he's held back by his own vulnerability, and the only way he can get through it is by finding someone he can trust, someone who will be there for him.


In summary, "When You Find Me" is a song about vulnerability, the fear of being judged and condemned for something that you can't control. It's the plea of a person who wants to find someone to trust, to allow them to be vulnerable, to be open and honest. Most of all, it's a song begging for someone to be there to help put the pieces back together.


Line by Line Meaning

Something is said, it sits in my head
A nagging thought or feeling has taken root within me


It's been there too long, it's killing me slow
The weight of this thought or feeling has become unbearable over time and is slowly wearing me down


It's rolling around, it's pushing me down
This burden is affecting me in every aspect of my life, weighing on my mind, body, and spirit


It's keeping the good part of me closed
This negative force is preventing me from being my best self, inhibiting me from reaching my full potential


Can't you see that when I find you, I'll find me
I believe that by finding and connecting with you, I will also find and reconnect with myself


Oh I need you to know today I'll wait for you always
I want you to understand that I am committed to waiting for you, no matter how long it takes


My only weakness, is knowing your secrets
My one vulnerability is the knowledge of your innermost thoughts and feelings


And holding them close, and hold them tight
I cherish your secrets and will keep them protected, always


I know the way to silently make you
I understand you on such a deep level that I can anticipate your needs and desires without you having to voice them


Smile with my eyes, when you're trying to fight
I have the ability to bring joy to your life, even during difficult times when you feel like giving up


When I find you...
The thought of finding you is what gives me the strength to persevere


...I'll find me
In discovering you, I will also rediscover myself




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Comments from YouTube:

@maruxiii6891

I've been feeling this song for a while and needed a listen. I'm not sure when it left spotify, but I'm glad it's still here to listen to

@Slingblade87

This has to be one of the most tender, beautiful love songs out there. Would that there were a lot more songs with this delicacy instead of all the lyrics about sex, drugs and money.

@MrStrandgsx

+Slingblade87 but then if all songs were like this perhaps this wouldnt seem as stunningly beautiful and a contrast and that would be such a shame

@shleebeez

I wish I knew of more

@supermusixgurl

i have honestly been listening to this song for a solid 4 hours. I just moved away from home for school, so i dont have alot to do right now, so I just sit here, and cry while listening to this song, its just so beautiful.

@jadnolan

This song gives me meaning and hope to love somebody one day. I too have Asperger syndrome, I have been through some eye opening experiences in life that taught me some harsh lessons when it comes to love, and many other things too. Watching Adam gave me hope that someone might love someone who is as awkward as me, someone who might not be able to lead the fairytale life NTs might, but someone who would genuinely want to help the other half become their truest self. Its not always easy, people are put off easily, all you need to do is return the love and you will find the loyalest and genuinely honest person you could ever wish for.

@jadnolan

I have found someone but I fear that I have failed to open her eyes to see who is stood in front of them. Maybe one day I can break through to her, I think she needs me just as much as I need her, but how do you build a bridge 🌉 all on your own?

@TheViggoSkaarup

You're such a fraud, dude.

@domenicaparodi4526

I love a man and he has the asperger syndrome. To me he' s the most sweet man in the world. He makes me happy everyday :').

@inalandofmyth

This song makes me cry, discovered it through the film Adam. Favourite movie, favourite song.

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