Out Of Control
KITCHEN - Oingo Boingo Lyrics
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When things get rough some think it's easy to jump the ship . . .
You decide
I say--don't throw it away
There's about a million reasons why
Though you've heard them all before
And you're getting very tired
CHORUS
Don't you know
That everyone around you
Has felt the pain you feel today
You're out of control yeah--and you want someone to tell you
When you wake up in the morning it'll only be a dream
You're out of control . . .
There's a cloud-rollin' overhead and it seems to rain on no one else
There's a black sun--casting a black shadow,
And I know you feel so all alone
You're out of control--and you want the world to love you
Or maybe you just want a chance to let them know
That you live and breathe and suffer
And your back is in the corner and you've got nowhere to go
Nothin' for nothin'--everything's right at your fingertips--for a price
Who ever said that life on this planet would ever be paradise
I say--don't throw it away, you've got too many things to say
If you throw your life, if you throw away your life . . .
THe world will never be the same
CHORUS
You're out of control--and you move without direction
And people look right through your soul
You're out of control--and you want someone to tell you
When you wake up in the morning it'll only be a dream
And I wish that I could tell you, it'll only be a dream
"Out Of Control" by Oingo Boingo is a song that delves into feelings of disillusionment, loneliness, and the innate desire for reassurance and understanding. The opening lines suggest a sense of impending doom or reaching a breaking point, where some may be tempted to give up or abandon ship when faced with challenges. However, the singer urges against such actions, emphasizing the importance of holding on and finding reasons to persevere, even amidst fatigue and repetition.
The chorus highlights a universal truth - that everyone, at some point, experiences pain and a sense of being out of control. The feeling of isolation is palpable, as the lyrics describe a cloud hanging over only one individual and a black shadow casting a heavy weight. It speaks to the yearning for connection, for love, and for acknowledgment of one's struggles and existence. The desire for comfort and for someone to reassure that the pain will pass is a central theme throughout the song.
The mention of life's challenges being readily available 'at your fingertips, for a price' suggests a commentary on the transactional nature of our experiences and the constant balancing act of costs and gains. The singer implores against throwing away one's life, emphasizing the multitude of thoughts and words that each person carries within them. There is a profound warning that if one were to discard their life, the world itself would be forever altered, hinting at the impact each individual has on the collective human experience.
The song concludes with a poignant acknowledgment of the singer's aimless wandering and desire for guidance, for recognition beyond superficiality. The longing for a dream-like escape from the harsh realities of life is a prevalent sentiment, yet the singer expresses a wish to offer solace and reassurance that it will all be but a dream. Through its introspective lyrics and emotive delivery, "Out Of Control" captures the raw vulnerability and yearning for connection that is a fundamental aspect of the human experience.
Line by Line Meaning
Everyone says sooner or later you'll reach the end of the line
People often mention that there is a limit to what one can handle or endure
When things get rough some think it's easy to jump the ship
During difficult times, some individuals consider giving up and abandoning their responsibilities
You decide
Ultimately, the choice is yours to make
I say--don't throw it away
I suggest not giving up easily on your current situation
There's about a million reasons why
There are countless justifications to keep going, despite the challenges
Though you've heard them all before
Even if you are familiar with these reasons
And you're getting very tired
Feeling exhausted and drained
Lay your head on my lap and I'll sing you this lullaby
Seek solace in my comforting presence as I offer you reassurance
Don't you know that everyone around you has felt the pain you feel today
Realize that others have experienced the same suffering you are going through now
You're out of control yeah--and you want someone to tell you
Feeling overwhelmed and seeking guidance and support
When you wake up in the morning it'll only be a dream
Hoping that the difficulties faced will be temporary and not a reality
There's a cloud-rollin' overhead and it seems to rain on no one else
It appears that only you are experiencing challenges while others are unaffected
There's a black sun--casting a black shadow,
A sense of darkness and negativity surrounds you
And I know you feel so all alone
Acknowledging the loneliness you are experiencing
You're out of control--and you want the world to love you
Feeling lost and craving acceptance and affection from others
Or maybe you just want a chance to let them know
Perhaps you desire an opportunity to communicate your feelings to others
That you live and breathe and suffer
Expressing the reality of your existence, which includes both joy and pain
And your back is in the corner and you've got nowhere to go
Feeling trapped and without any clear options or solutions
Nothin' for nothin'--everything's right at your fingertips--for a price
Nothing is truly free, and anything accessible to you comes with a cost
Who ever said that life on this planet would ever be paradise
Life is not always easy or perfect on this Earth
You've got too many things to say
You have a lot to express and share with the world
If you throw your life, if you throw away your life . . .
If you give up and let go of your life completely
The world will never be the same
The consequences of such a decision would be far-reaching and impactful
You're out of control--and you move without direction
Feeling lost and aimless in your actions
And people look right through your soul
Others fail to see or understand the depth of your emotions and inner self
And I wish that I could tell you, it'll only be a dream
I hope to reassure you that the challenges you face will eventually pass
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DANNY ELFMAN
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
niraD nagroM
Gary's defense of "never tossing off" and his mom's reaction is hilarious! I still laugh uncontrollably!
John Thomsen
OH GARY! LOL
Molly Giovanna
The water’s been running all day!
leethrelfalllt
"You told me you were combing your hair"!...😂😂
niraD nagroM
@leethrelfalllt "But I was! I was!"
Nate Chillin Show
I love how instead of reassuring the parents that nothing bad is actually going to happen, she goes the other way and pushes their weak spots and greatest fears beyond imagination to the point that it's just hilarious.
Convoluted & Exiled
Haha. Exactly! She's actually charming underneath it all. Gorgeous balance, this woman. Haha
Drahcir XIII
She taught Gary how to stop worrying about his parents' approval. He needed to loosen up.
Johnny Apple Seed
Narracissitic parenting styles destroy children from the ground up......The exaggerated brilliance of this movie is something to behold.
At the end of the day, she proves his Dad is nothing more than a coward underneath it all, and his mother is only worried about her own feelings, as she is used to shaming the boy into submission.
Z3t487
Because she uses like magic, did you even watch the movie?