goodbye
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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You didn't destroy me though you tried (though you tried)
I am a flame that doesn't die
Don't mind the bridges I've burned, they kept you by my side (side)
I get this one life and I won't give you mine

Goodbye
Goodbye
How dare you hurt me while holdin' my hand?
That kind of love, I'll never understand
There is a difference between what we want and we need
And I've cried an ocean between you and me

You know I tried (I tried), I tried
Goodbye

Thought you were different, but you held your aim
Right at my heart, I'm a sucker for pain
Our family portraits and designer dreams
Become so worthless when you're not what you seem
You're not what you seem

But you didn't destroy me though you tried (you know you tried)
You'll think about me, but in time, you'll slip my mind (in time, you'll slip my mind)
You're not the first one to cut me, you get no prize
I get this one life

Goodbye (you were always telling me how I made you a better man)
Goodbye (promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (you were always telling me how I made you a better man)
Goodbye (promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (you were always telling me how I made you a better man)
Goodbye (promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (you were always telling me how I made you a better man)
Goodbye (promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)





Goodbye

Overall Meaning

In Kelly Clarkson's song "Goodbye," the lyrics capture the emotions and thoughts of someone who has finally reached the point of letting go of a toxic relationship. The opening lines, "You didn't destroy me though you tried, I am a flame that doesn't die," suggest that despite the attempts to harm and break the individual, they have managed to remain resilient and strong. They refuse to let this person define or control their life. The chorus repeats the word "goodbye" to emphasize the finality and decisiveness of their choice to move on.


The second verse reflects on the painful aspects of the relationship, particularly the confusion caused by the kind of love that hurts while holding hands. The line, "There is a difference between what we want and we need," highlights the realization that sometimes what we desire isn't necessarily what's best for us. The ocean of tears cried between them communicates the deep emotional distance and disconnect that has grown.


The bridge brings attention to the deceptive nature of the person and relationship, mentioning family portraits and designer dreams that have become worthless. It underscores the disappointment and betrayal experienced when someone turns out to be different than they seemed. Despite the pain endured, the person declares that they will not be destroyed and that their life belongs to them alone. The song concludes with several repetitions of "goodbye," reinforcing the finality of the decision to move on and escape the cycle of hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

You didn't destroy me though you tried
Despite your efforts, you were unable to break me


Don't mind the bridges I've burned, they kept you by my side
I don't regret the connections I severed, as they only kept you close to me


I get this one life and I won't give you mine
I treasure this singular existence and won't surrender it to you


How dare you hurt me while holdin' my hand?
I'm appalled by your ability to inflict pain while showing affection


That kind of love, I'll never understand
I'll forever struggle to comprehend a love like yours


There is a difference between what we want and we need
We often confuse our desires with our necessities


And I've cried an ocean between you and me
I've shed countless tears that have created a vast divide between us


Thought you were different, but you held your aim
I believed you were unique, but you aimed your actions to hurt me


Right at my heart, I'm a sucker for pain
You targeted my heart, and unfortunately, I fall easily for pain


Our family portraits and designer dreams
The images of our happy family and our ambitious aspirations


Become so worthless when you're not what you seem
They lose all value when I discover your true nature


But you didn't destroy me though you tried
Despite your attempts, I remain unbroken


You'll think about me, but in time, you'll slip my mind
You'll reminisce about me, but eventually, I'll fade from your thoughts


You're not the first one to cut me, you get no prize
You're not the first person to harm me, you receive no reward for it


Goodbye
Farewell




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Kelly Clarkson, Jason Halbert

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Lee E

[Verse 1]
You didn't destroy me
Though you tried (Though you tried)
I am a flame that doesn't die
Don't mind the bridges I've burned, they kept you by my side (Side)
I get this one life and I won't give you mine

[Refrain]
Goodbye
Goodbye

[Verse 2]
How dare you hurt me while holdin' my hand?
That kind of love, I'll never understand
There is a difference between what we want and we need
And I've cried an ocean between you and me

[Pre-Chorus]
You know I tried (I tried), I tried
Goodbye

[Chorus]
Thought you were different, but you held your aim
Right at my heart, I'm a sucker for pain
Our family portraits and designer drinks
Become so worthless when you're not what you see
You're not what you see

[Verse 3]
But you didn't destroy me though you tried (You know you tried)
You think about me, but in time, you'll slip my mind (In time, you'll slip my mind)
You're not the first one to cut me, you get no prize
I get this one life

[Bridge]
Goodbye (You were always telling me, I thought that you were the better man)
Goodbye (Promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (You were always telling me, I thought that you were the better man)
Goodbye (Promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (You were always telling me, I thought that you were the better man)
Goodbye (Promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (You were always telling me, I thought that you were the better man)
Goodbye (Promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)
Goodbye (You were always telling me, I thought that you were the better man)
Goodbye (Promises mean nothing when you don't know how to listen)

[Outro]
Goodbye



All comments from YouTube:

Jason

This may be some of the best studio vocals she’s ever released. Ever.

Ranelle Tweedy

So good! I agree!

Jerri Heiney

Agreed!!!

Debbie Murr

Agree as well

Nancy Conca

Great music from a great singer 👨‍🎤 ‼️❤🎶🎶🎶🍀💚

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Jimmy Stewart

Once again, I'm stuck sitting here speechless. Kelly always finds a way to one up herself. The vocals on this track are insane! 🙌💅🥰

cathy hall

Thank you for putting my thoughts into words! She is such a phenomenal talent

Kasey Brewer

Her voice is velvet! I love it so much. Beautiful song. She's SO talented!

Mohammed Balghar

وإذا غلا شيءٌ عليَّ تركتُه فيكون أرخصَ ما يكون إذا غَلا
لا أرخص من شيء غلا فتركته، ولا أقلّ شأناً من أحد تكبّر فهجرته. نحن من نعطي الأشياء ثمنها، ونحدّد للناس مقامهم بإعلاء أو استرخاص شأننا.
الذي يهينك بالصدّ والجفا، بإمكانك استرخاصه بالاستغناء عنه.

Tony Rosa

Is there a song you can not sing? YOU ARE AMAZING.

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