The Heart Is Slow To Learn
Kiri Te Kanawa Lyrics


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The heart is slow to learn
The heart is slow to learn
These feelings that I feel
Are foolish but they're real
I'm wise enough to see
This love will never be
And each day's like the last,
When living in the past
I know it's mad and you won't return
But then, as I have said,
The heart is slow to learn
I'll live alone, as I have loved you
Why is love cruel?
I wish I knew!
Say what you will, it doesn't matter
Until I die, there's only you
Until I die, there's only you
The heart is slow to learn,
The heart is slow to learn
You'd think there'd be a way
To shut out yesterday
Perhaps if I just thought
Of all the times we fought
I've tried all that but no
There's just no letting go
I know it's mad and you won't return
But then, as I have said,
The heart is slow to learn
Why is love cruel?
I wish I knew!
Say what you will,
It doesn't matter
Until I die there's only you
Until I die there's only you
Why is love cruel?
I wish I knew!
Say what you will
It doesn't matter
Until I die there's only you




Until I die there's only you.
The Heart Is Slow to Learn

Overall Meaning

The song "The Heart Is Slow to Learn" by Kiri Te Kanawa talks about the difficulty in letting go of a love that was not meant to be. The lyrics convey a sense of disillusionment and heartbreak, as the singer tries to come to terms with the fact that her love will never be returned. She acknowledges that she is wise enough to see that the love she feels will never be reciprocated, but at the same time, she is unable to let go of the past and move on.


The repetition of the line "The heart is slow to learn" emphasizes the idea that it takes time for the heart to accept and let go of a love that was not meant to be. The singer expresses her frustration at the fact that she cannot shut out the memories of the past, no matter how hard she tries. She wishes she could forget about the past and move on, but her heart still holds onto the love it once felt.


The song conveys a strong sense of melancholy and resignation, as the singer accepts that she will likely never be able to move on from the love she once felt. The repetition of the line "Until I die, there's only you" emphasizes the depth and permanence of her love, even though she knows it can never be returned.


Line by Line Meaning

The heart is slow to learn
Despite how many times the heart has been scarred, it still takes a while to process and come to terms with new emotions.


These feelings that I feel
Although the singer recognizes the irrationality of their emotions, they cannot help but feel them strongly.


Are foolish but they're real
The singer acknowledges that their feelings are not logical but cannot deny that the emotions are authentic and present.


I'm wise enough to see
The artist understands the reality of the situation and does not entertain hopes of a relationship with the subject of their affection.


This love will never be
The artist has accepted that the love they have for the subject will not be returned and there is no possibility of a romantic relationship.


And each day's like the last
The singer feels trapped and stuck in the same unmovable state of emotion every day.


When living in the past
The singer cannot seem to break away from previous memories and emotions related to their subject of affection.


I know it's mad and you won't return
The artist has come to terms with the fact that their love is illogical and will not be reciprocated.


But then, as I have said,
The artist is reiterating the fact that the heart is slow to learn and process new situations.


I'll live alone, as I have loved you
The artist has given up hopes of a romantic relationship with their subject of affection and will continue to live alone with only their love for them.


Why is love cruel?
The singer does not understand why the emotion of love can cause so much pain and heartache.


Say what you will, it doesn't matter
The artist is resolute and impervious to outside opinions and analysis.


Until I die, there's only you
The singer's love will never diminish, and they will carry it with them until their eventual passing.


You'd think there'd be a way
The singer is questioning why they cannot seem to find a way to move on from their emotions.


To shut out yesterday
The singer wishes to forget the past and focus on the present but cannot seem to rid themselves of nostalgic memories.


Perhaps if I just thought
The artist is attempting to eliminate emotions through cognitively processing and analyzing their previous experiences with their subject of affection.


Of all the times we fought
The artist is hoping that focusing on negative memories will help eliminate the romantic emotions they feel.


I've tried all that but no
The singer has attempted multiple methods to move past their emotions but none have worked so far.


There's just no letting go
The love the singer feels is too strong, despite their attempts to rid themselves of it.


Until I die there's only you
The artist's love is unwavering and consistent, and will continue until their death.




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Comments from YouTube:

@elaineen1

I saw this program on public television. Great performances by all. Yet when Dame Kiri Te Kanawa came on near the finale it was as if the children had sung and now the master is here.

@orion8835

OMG totally.

@TimInUT

Exactly!

@orion8835

Her vocal spin, throat tilt and tone are just gorgeously produced. The song is very Puccinian. The entire effect is magical and full of yearning.

@frankandmarianhay8020

The best rendition of this song by any artist and Dame Kiri is not an artist, she is a legend, beautiful....

@YortOK

No one since Tebaldi can attack a high note with such passion and maintain the vocal quality.

@arnelnacino6754

Oh, boy. Here we go...

@eddievaldes9773

Pure and what singing is supposed to be

@natasatasic9954

She is one and only.

@rugby8-Philadelphia

​@yortko1
Tebaldi could only sing it if it didn't go above a Bb -- 60/40 she'd be seriously flat if so
😎😎😎

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