Before I Cry
Lady Gaga Lyrics


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I can't believe the things you said
Right now I wish that you would try
Try to stay near me
Try to be near me
Before I cry (before I cry)
'Cause I am gonna need a well
To catch the pain and lift the spell
Like you won't hear me
Can you try to heal me?
Before I cry

Hurry up, hurry up
Before I lose you
Hurry up, hurry up
Before you lose me too
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I change my mind

'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry

Could you please find another way?
I start to think that I'm insane
Trying to stay here
Let me just lay here
Before I cry

Hurry up, hurry up
Before I lose you
Hurry up, hurry up
Before you lose me too
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I change my mind

'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry

I'm 'bout to lose it
Is that so confusing?
Am I just repeating myself?
Say something loving to me before I crumble
Tell me, tell me, tell me

'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry
Before I cry, oh

Have I said what I needed to say?
Have you said what you wanted to say?




Did you say what you wanted to say?
Would you try and stop me before I cry?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Lady Gaga's song "Before I Cry" convey the feelings of someone who is on the verge of crying due to the possibility of their partner leaving them. The lyrics shed light on someone's vulnerability and fear of abandonment. The singer is begging their partner to try to stay with them, to try to love them before they are reduced to tears. The chorus is repetitive and intense, with the singer pleading for their partner not to abandon them. The word 'hurry up' is repeated, indicating the urgency of the situation, and the phrase 'before I lose you' is repeated to emphasize the fear of abandonment.


The second verse shifts the tone of the song slightly, with the singer asking for their partner to find "another way" and for themselves to "lay here" and calm down. The singer is portrayed as anxious and uncertain, begging their partner to be vocal about their love for them. Gaga's emotive delivery, including her voice strains and intonations, amplifies the intensity of the song. The bridge opens up space for the singer to say what is on their mind when they inquire if they have said what is needed or if their partner has expressed what they wish to.


Overall, "Before I Cry" speaks to the anxiety and uncertainty of relationships, highlighting the fear of abandonment and the need for reassurance.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't believe the things you said
Expressing disbelief at the things said by the person which made her sad and anxious


Right now I wish that you would try
Wanting the person to make an effort to understand her pain and stay with her


Try to stay near me
Asking the person to not leave her and stay with her to give her comfort


Try to be near me
Asking the person to show care and concern for her by being near her


Before I cry (before I cry)
Asking the person to act before she starts crying


'Cause I am gonna need a well
She knows that the pain is so much that a well is needed to bear it


To catch the pain and lift the spell
Describing how the well will help her in healing and taking the pain away


Like you won't hear me
Feeling alone and unacknowledged in spite of expressing her pain to the person


Can you try to heal me?
Asking the person to help in her healing process and reduce pain


Before I cry
Asking the person to be there for her and comfort her to stop her from crying


Hurry up, hurry up
Urging the person to move fast and do something before it is too late


Before I lose you
Asking the person to act before she loses them forever


Before you lose me too
Stating the importance of the person's timely action, to maintain their relationship


Before I change my mind
Stating the possibility of her changing her mind and giving up on their relationship


'Cause I'm gonna cry
Expressing how overwhelmed and sad she feels


If you say you don't need me
Expressing how hurtful it will be if the person says they don't need her anymore


I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Stating that even if the person doesn't say the words, their actions may end up breaking her heart


Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Asking the person to not give false promises, as she cannot pretend to be okay anymore


Why don't you hold me?
Asking the person to comfort her and show affection


Tell me you love me
Reassuring herself of the person's love for her


Could you please find another way?
Asking the person to find an alternate solution to their problems instead of leaving her alone


I start to think that I'm insane
Feeling anxious and interpreting the person's behavior as her own fault


Trying to stay here
Making an effort to make things work and stay with the person


Let me just lay here
Asking the person to not judge her for feeling vulnerable and allowing her to be herself


I'm 'bout to lose it
Feeling like she is on the edge and is about to break down


Is that so confusing?
Feeling like she has made herself clear and wondering if the person is confused about her feelings


Am I just repeating myself?
Feeling like she is being repetitive and wondering if she is not making sense


Say something loving to me before I crumble
Asking the person to say something affectionate and reassuring to prevent her from breaking down


Have I said what I needed to say?
Wondering if she has been clear and expressive enough


Have you said what you wanted to say?
Asking the person if they have expressed everything they needed to tell her


Did you say what you wanted to say?
Asking the person if they spoke the truth and had been honest with her


Would you try and stop me before I cry?
Asking the person to make an effort to stop her from crying and be there for her when she needs them the most




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Mark Jr. Nilan, Nick Monson, Paul Blair, Stefani J. Germanotta

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