Dedication To My Ex
Lloyd Lyrics


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Hey y'all
I've come to talk about this girl that had my love, you see
I went away for a while and
She gave my love away, and
I really shouldn't blame her
But now, that pussy is a stranger

Baby (haha)
Something's on my mind, I gotta say it
Yeah, your pussy done changed, it ain't the same, girl
And that's a shame (a crying shame, baby)
Ooh, ain't being funny (mm-mm)
I know another bee's been in that honey (damn)
Ooh, babe, that pussy done changed (pussy done changed)
It's such a shame (pussy done changed)
Girl, and that's a shame (haha)
(Who the hell you been giving my loving to, girl?)

(No, no) Tell me where that pussy gone
(No, no) Yeah, 'cause it don't feel the same no more
I miss that pussy, that pussy
That pussy, that pussy, yeah
No, no
Why you do me like that, baby?
(No, no) why is this happening to me?
(No, no) She told me that it was my pussy
I miss that pussy (my pussy), that pussy (that pussy)
That pussy (good pussy), that pussy (that pussy)
That pussy, haha
(No, no) Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

She (ugh)
She used to be a really special lady (my everything)
I guess she's feeling kinda freaky lately
It's such a shame, 'cause now, the pussy's changed
Mm-mm-mm (that pussy changed, yeah, yeah, yeah)
She used to squeeze me (hoo)
Grip me tight enough so she could please me
But now, now, now, that pussy changed (pussy done changed)
It's such a shame (pussy done changed)
That pussy changed, no, oh

(No, no) Where did your pussy go? (Where it's at, baby?)
(No, no) Mm, 'cause girl, I need to know now
I miss that pussy, that pussy
That pussy, that pussy, now (ha)
(No, no) You see, it was on some old, "one of a kind"-type shit, baby (yeah)
(No, no) I'm about to kill this bitch (oh)
(No, no) She gave away all my shit
I miss that pussy (this pussy), that pussy (new pussy)
That pussy (I miss that), that pussy (ol' pussy)
(Yeah, no, no) Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Dang, darling, do change your oil
I'm your number-one fan-belt, they are not important (ugh)
I don't use a cordless microphone, avoid them
They don't feel real to me-meaning, "real woman"
Others peeled on me (Yeah)
You the primer on the lim'-bean-green box when I couldn't afford a Ford (c'mon)
Clean socks scooting 'cross the floor in your
Grandmama house (ow), hand on your mouth
You yap too much about the penny-ante
This mechanic's so uncanny, X-Men, X-Men
Your ex-boyfriend should thank me that I took you off his hands (haha)
Know I can't bring another beach to the sand
And know I am well aware that you can bring a man to his knees
And get what you need without saying "please," but
Can you bring a man to his feet when defeat is on repeat
And they gon' put this man's Grammys on the street?
What? Why so quiet?
Hate that all of our memories happened in a Hyatt?
You were perfect before you went on a diet
You was way thicker, you think I don't remember
Shit, the magazine got to your head
Now, somebody you don't e'en know got you in bed
Bet your buddy don't e'en know you don't like red
Or was it fuchsia? Fuck it, our future is dead (yeah)

(No, no) I thought a pussycat had nine lives, man (I need to know)
(No, no) Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah (haha)
I miss that pussy, that pussy
That pussy, that pussy
(No, no) That pussy (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
(No, no) I'm about to kill this bitch
(No, no) She gave away all my shit
I miss that pussy (my pussy), that pussy (that pussy)
So if you see her
That pussy (that pussy), that pussy (my pussy)
Let the bitch know I'ma kill her when I see her, yeah, hahaha
(No, no) Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Hahaha, yeah




I miss you, girl
Fuck that bitch, hahaha

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Lloyd's song Dedication To My Ex are about a man who left his girlfriend for a while and while he was gone, she cheated on him with another man. The man is upset that the woman gave away his love and is now a stranger to him. He also comments on the fact that her "pussy done changed" and she is no longer the special lady she used to be. He misses her and wants to know where the love went wrong.


The lyrics in this song are a reflection of gender stereotypes and contribute to the stigmatization of women who have multiple sexual partners. The song's lyrics reinforce the idea that men must control and possess women's bodies, including their genitals. The song also perpetuates toxic masculinity by glorifying aggression towards women who do not comply with men's expectations.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey y'all
Starting the song by addressing the audience


I came to talk about this girl that had my love it seems
Introducing the subject of the song - his ex-girlfriend who he used to love


I went away for a while
He left for some time


She gave my love away
His ex-girlfriend was unfaithful and had sex with someone else


I really shouldn't blame her
He acknowledges that he shouldn't put all the blame on her


But now that pussy is a stranger
He feels disconnected from her after she cheated


Baby, somethings on my mind I gotta say it
He's opening up about how he truly feels


Yeah, your pussy done changed
He feels that she has changed emotionally and physically


It ain't the same girl and that's a shame
He's disappointed with how his ex-girlfriend has changed


(A crying shame baby)
Expressing how sad it is that she's not the same person he loved


Ooh, ain't being funny
He's not joking around


I know another bee's been in that honey
He's sure that his ex-girlfriend cheated on him


Ooh, baby, that pussy done changed
Reiterating how much she has changed


It's such a shame girl
He's saddened by how she has changed


And that's a shame
Reiterating how much it upsets him


(Who the hell you giving my loving to girl?)
Asking who his ex-girlfriend slept with


Ooh no
Expressing denial and disbelief


Tell me where that pussy gone
Asking what happened to his ex-girlfriend's personality and body


Cause it don't feel the same
He doesn't feel connected to her anymore


(I miss that pussy, that pussy, that pussy, that pussy)
Expressing how much he misses the connection they used to have


(Why you do me like that baby)
Asking why she cheated on him


She told me that it was not missin'
She denies having changed


(I miss that pussy, that pussy, that pussy, that pussy)
Reiterating how much he misses her physically and emotionally


Yeah yeah yeah yeah
Ending this section of the song with an acknowledgement of his emotions


She, she used to be a really special lady
Remembering how great she used to be


I guess she's feeling kinda freaky lately
He thinks she's changed into someone he doesn't recognize


It's such a shame 'cause now the pussy's changed
Reiterating how disappointed he is with how she's changed


(That pussy changed yea)
Expressing how much her physical appearance has changed


She used to squeeze me
Remembering how she used to hold him


Grip me tight enough so she can please me
How she used to hold him tight for intimacy


But now-now, that pussy changed
Reiterating how much he misses the old her


(pussy done changed)
She's not the same person anymore, including physically


It's such a shame, that pussy changed
How much he's disappointed with how much she's changed


Ooh no
Expressing denial and disbelief


Where did ya pussy go?
Asking where her good qualities went


Cause girl, I need to know
He really wants to know the truth


(I miss that pussy, that pussy, that pussy, that pussy)
Reiterating how much he misses their connection


You see it was on some one ol' one of a kind type shit baby
Remembering how great their relationship was


I'ma about to kill this bitch
Expressing how angry he is


She gave away all my shit
He's mad that she cheated and left him with nothing


(I miss that pussy, that pussy, that pussy, that pussy)
Reiterating how much he misses her


Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Continuing to express his emotions


Damn, doll, do change ya oil
He's making fun of her and insulting her


I'm your number fan belt they are not important
He was important to her, but now she's moved on


I don't use a cordless, a microphone ?
He's insulting her, saying she's not important anymore


They don't feel real to me
He doesn't connect with anyone else except her


Meaning real woman
He's looking for someone like her


Others pelt on me
Everyone else is less important


You prima on the line big green box when I couldn't afford a ford
He's reminiscing about the past


Clean socks scootin' across the floor in your grandmama house
Still reminiscing and feeling nostalgic


Hand on your mouth
He wants her to stop talking


You yap too much about the penny, mechanic so uncanny
He's mocking her and saying she talks too much


X-men, x-men, your ex boyfriend should thank me that I took you off his hands
Saying how he's done her ex-boyfriend a favor by taking her


No I can't bring another beach to the sand
He can't move on


And know I am well aware that you can bring a man to his knees
She can seduce people easily


And get what you need without saying please
She's manipulative


But can you bring a man to his feet when defeat is on repeat
He's asking whether she can lift someone up when they're down


And they put this man's Grammy's on the street?
He's feeling down and defeated, metaphorically


What? why so quiet?
He's asking her why she's not talking


Hate that all of our memories happened in a Hyatt
He's reminiscing about the past and how it was a nicer time


You were perfect before you went on a diet
Insulting her and saying how she's changed


You was way thicker, you think I don't remember
Remembering how she used to look and how she's changed now


Shit, the magazine got to your head
He's blaming magazines and the media for influencing her


Now somebody you don't even know got you in bed
She's moved on to someone else


Bet your buddy don't even know you don't like red
He's saying that he knows her better than anyone else


Or was it fuchsia, fuck it, our future is dead.
He's expressing how little he cares anymore


I thought a pussy cat had nine lives man
He's saying how he thought their relationship would last forever


I miss ya girl
Final acknowledgement that he misses her


(fuck that bitch!)
Angry outburst directed towards his ex-girlfriend




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andre Benjamin, D. Smith, Dwayne Carter, Jamal Jones

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