And So It Goes
Luísa Sobral Lyrics


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In every heart there is a room
A sanctuary safe and strong
To heal the wounds from lovers past
Until a new one comes along

I spoke to you in cautious tones
You answered me with no pretense
And still feel I said too much
My silence is my self defense

And every time I've held a rose
It seems I only felt the thorns
And so it goes, and so it goes
And so will you soon I suppose

But if my silence made you leave
Then that would be my worst mistake
So I will share this room with you
And you can have this heart to break

And this is why my eyes are closed
It's just as well for all I've seen
And so it goes, and so it goes
And you're the only one who knows

So I would choose to be with you
That's if the choice were mine to make




But you can make decisions too
And you can have this heart to break

Overall Meaning

Luísa Sobral's song "And So It Goes" explores the vulnerability and cautiousness that arises from past heartbreak and the fear of repeating the same painful experiences in a new relationship. The lyrics depict a room within each person's heart, representing a safe space where wounds from previous lovers are healed. However, with the arrival of a new love interest, there is a sense of hesitation and wariness.


The singer converses with the new love interest, speaking with caution and vulnerability. They feel they may have revealed too much of themselves, and therefore, their silence becomes a defense mechanism to protect themselves from potential hurt. The reference to holding a rose symbolizes the bittersweet nature of love. Each time they have experienced love, they have also felt the pain and disappointment inevitably accompanying it. The phrase "so it goes" emphasizes the cyclical nature of love, how it repeats itself in both joy and heartbreak. The lyrics suggest that the new love interest may also soon know the rollercoaster of emotions that love brings.


Although the singer fears that their silence may drive the new love interest away, they ultimately decide to open up. They are willing to share the room in their heart, knowing that there is a risk of heartbreak. They acknowledge that they have experienced both the beauty and ugliness of love, which is why their eyes are closed to shield themselves from further pain. The last lines highlight their desire to be with the new love interest, but they also respect the latter's ability to make decisions and potentially break their heart.


Overall, "And So It Goes" captures the delicate balance between the fear of repeating past mistakes and the willingness to take a chance on love, knowing it may lead to heartbreak once again.


Line by Line Meaning

In every heart there is a room
Every person has a private and protected space within themselves


A sanctuary safe and strong
A place of refuge and strength


To heal the wounds from lovers past
To mend the emotional scars caused by past relationships


Until a new one comes along
Until a new love enters their life


I spoke to you in cautious tones
I spoke to you carefully and with reservation


You answered me with no pretense
You responded honestly and without artifice


And still feel I said too much
Despite that, I feel like I revealed more than I intended


My silence is my self-defense
I use silence as a way to protect myself


And every time I've held a rose
Each time I've experienced love or affection


It seems I only felt the thorns
I have often encountered pain and hurt instead of joy


And so it goes, and so it goes
That's just the way it is, and that's how it continues


And so will you soon I suppose
And you will follow a similar path, I assume


But if my silence made you leave
If my lack of communication caused you to depart


Then that would be my worst mistake
That would be the most regrettable error I could make


So I will share this room with you
I am willing to open up and share my inner self with you


And you can have this heart to break
You have the potential to hurt or damage my heart


And this is why my eyes are closed
This is why I prefer to keep my eyes shut


It's just as well for all I've seen
It's better this way considering what I have witnessed


And you're the only one who knows
You are the sole person who truly understands


So I would choose to be with you
I would willingly opt to be in a relationship with you


That's if the choice were mine to make
If I had the power to decide and if circumstances allowed


But you can make decisions too
However, you also possess the ability to make choices


And you can have this heart to break
And you too can potentially cause pain and heartbreak




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Billy Joel

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