Embarrasment
Madness Lyrics


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Received a letter just the other day
Don't seem they wanna know you no more
They've laid it down given you their score
Within the first two lines it bluntly read

You're not to come and see us no more
Keep away from our door
Don't come 'round here no more
What on earth did you do that for?

Our aunt, she don't wanna know she says
"What will the neighbors think, they'll think
We don't, that's what they'll think, we don't"
But I will, 'cause I know they think I don't

Our uncle he don't wanna know he says
"We are a disgrace to the human race", he says
"How can you show your face
When you're a disgrace to the human race?"

No commitment, you're an embarrassment
Yes, an embarrassment, a living endorsement
The intention that you have booked
Was an intention that was overlooked

They say, "Stay away
Don't want you home today
Keep away from our door
Don't come 'round here no more"

Our dad, don't wanna know he says
"This is a serious matter
Too late to reconsider
No one's gonna wanna know ya"

Our mum, she don't wanna know, she says
"I'm feelin' twice as old", she says
"Thought she had a head on her shoulder
'Cause I'm feelin' twice as older
I'm feelin' twice as older"





You're an embarrassment

Overall Meaning

Madness's song Embarrassment is a poignant representation of the social and cultural issues prevalent in Britain in the late 1970s. The lines received a letter just the other day and Don't seem they wanna know you no more introduce the theme of rejection and isolation, communicated through the letter the singer receives from his family members. The lyrics further emphasize the rejection and unwelcome attitude exhibited by the family members when they ask the singer to keep away from their door and not come around there anymore. The sharp contrast between the earlier lines and What on earth did you do that for? highlights the singer's confusion and inability to understand the reason behind his family's behavior.


The song also comments on the societal and cultural norms prevalent at the time. The lines "What will the neighbors think, they'll think
We don't, that's what they'll think, we don't" reflect the obsession with societal opinions and the fear of being ostracized from the community. The judgments and opinions of others dictate the behavior and attitudes of individuals, even at the cost of alienating family members. Moreover, the lines "No commitment, you're an embarrassment
Yes, an embarrassment, a living endorsement" expose the hypocrisy and superficiality of society, which values image and appearance over personal relationships and connections.


Overall, Madness's Embarrassment is a thought-provoking commentary on society's values and the cost of conforming to societal norms. It reflects the personal and emotional repercussions of societal and familial rejection and highlights the need for individuality and self-expression.


Line by Line Meaning

Received a letter just the other day
The singer recently received a letter from someone they know.


Don't seem they wanna know you no more
The person who wrote the letter does not want to associate with the singer anymore.


They've laid it down given you their score
The writer of the letter has made clear their opinion of the singer.


Within the first two lines it bluntly read
The negative message in the letter was immediately apparent in its opening lines.


You're not to come and see us no more
The writer of the letter has barred the singer from visiting them.


Keep away from our door
The singer should not attempt to come to the writer's residence.


Don't come 'round here no more
The writer of the letter does not want the singer to visit them anymore.


What on earth did you do that for?
The writer of the letter is questioning the singer about something they did to provoke such a harsh response.


Our aunt, she don't wanna know she says
The singer's aunt has also cut off the relationship with the singer due to the negative opinion of others.


"What will the neighbors think, they'll think
The aunt is concerned about how she and her family will be viewed by others after the singer's actions.


We don't, that's what they'll think, we don't"
The singer's aunt is worried that people will think she does not share the same negative opinion of the singer as those who wrote the original letter.


But I will, 'cause I know they think I don't
Despite her fears about other's opinions, the aunt still loves and cares for the singer as a family member.


Our uncle he don't wanna know he says
The singer's uncle has also cut off the relationship with the singer due to the negative opinion of others.


"We are a disgrace to the human race", he says
The uncle is extremely ashamed of the singer's actions and sees them as having brought disgrace to their family and humanity as a whole.


"How can you show your face
The uncle cannot bear the idea of the singer coming around and facing their neighbors and other people who know them.


When you're a disgrace to the human race?"
To the uncle, the singer's actions have resulted in such harsh judgment that they are seen as being a disgrace to all of humanity.


No commitment, you're an embarrassment
The singer is deemed an embarrassment as a result of being viewed as unreliable and undependable due to not keeping their word.


Yes, an embarrassment, a living endorsement
The singer's behavior is perceived as being indicative of an overall lack of quality and dependability for others to observe.


The intention that you have booked
The plans made by the singer for some future event or occasion.


Was an intention that was overlooked
The singer had made plans that were not considered important enough by others to remember or acknowledge.


They say, "Stay away
The people who have written the letter and made other negative comments want the singer to stay away from them.


Don't want you home today
The singer is not welcome in the homes of those who have criticized their behavior.


Our dad, don't wanna know he says
The singer's father is also cutting ties with the singer over the negative opinions of others.


"This is a serious matter
The father thinks that the situation is very grave and lasting.


Too late to reconsider
The father believes that it is too late for the singer to change courses and repair damaged relationships.


No one's gonna wanna know ya"
The singer's father believes that the negative opinions of others are so widespread that it has become unlikely that anyone will want to associate with them in the future.


Our mum, she don't wanna know, she says
The singer's mother has also cut off ties with the singer due to the negative opinions of others.


"I'm feelin' twice as old
The singer's mother is extremely disappointed and feels much more aged as a result of the situation.


Thought she had a head on her shoulder
The mother had believed that the singer was wise and responsible enough to make good decisions.


'Cause I'm feelin' twice as older
The singer's mother believes that the negative situation has aged her much more than she should be normally.


You're an embarrassment
The singer is seen as an embarrassment and a disappointment to many people in their life.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MICHAEL BARSON, LEE JAY THOMPSON

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Lyrics
Received a letter just the other day
Don't seem they wanna know you no more
They've laid it down given you their score
Within the first two lines it bluntly read
You're not to come and see us no more
Keep away from our door
Don't come 'round here no more
What on earth did you do that for?
Our aunt, she don't wanna know she says
"What will the neighbors think, they'll think
We don't, that's what they'll think, we don't"
But I will, 'cause I know they think I don't
Our uncle he don't wanna know he says
"We are a disgrace to the human race", he says
"How can you show your face
When you're a disgrace to the human race?"
No commitment, you're an embarrassment
Yes, an embarrassment, a living endorsement
The intention that you have booked
Was an intention that was overlooked
They say, "Stay away
Don't want you home today
Keep away from our door
Don't come 'round here no more"
Our dad, don't wanna know he says
"This is a serious matter
Too late to reconsider
No one's gonna wanna know ya"
Our mum, she don't wanna know, she says
"I'm feelin' twice as old", she says
"Thought she had a head on her shoulder
'Cause I'm feelin' twice as older
I'm feelin' twice as older"
You're an embarrassment



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One of if not the best saxophone players the world has ever heard.

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"Kix" "El Thommo" Lee Thompson 😎🎷👍

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Best sax ever...

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It does

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Sax dude also wrote the tune. Cool song

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