03 By Now
Marianas Trench Lyrics


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How've you been?
Can I come in?
Just came to get my things and then I guess I'm leaving
If I could say
What you'd like to hear
I'd whisper in your ear it's only temporary
But I've been taking you for granted
And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean, but
But for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep
Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
What goes around don't come around
You should know me by now

Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than
I should know you as well

Better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, you should know me by now

Our talk is small, I'm seven inches tall
And you should keep the apartment
So here's my keys
Changed all the bills
We're only built to spill and wonder where the heart went
And you've been taking me for granted

And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean, but
But for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep
Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
What goes around don't come around
You should know me by now

Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, I should know you as well

Better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, you should know me by now

I know that I remember you
I think that you remember me too
How can one of us still feel blessed when the other one's lost
I know you've got to feel the change
It just stays worse when it stays the same
How can one of us
Still feel blessed when the other one's so lost

By now

Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
What goes around don't come around
Don't you know me by now?

Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, I should know you as well

Better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than




You should know me
Better than, you should know me by now

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Marianas Trenchā€™s song By Now is a story about a couple who fell apart. The song is about realizing a relationship is over and understanding that the person you once loved is now a stranger. The singer comes to get his things as he is leaving the relationship. He wishes he could say what she wants to hear, but he knows their relationship is only temporary. The singer admits to taking his partner for granted and thought she felt the same way as he did. However, he realizes it's time to come clean and admits that pretending to sleep is not the solution. His partner may not be the one he needs despite being the one he wanted at some point.


The song has a bittersweet and nostalgic tone. Both partners are struggling to move on from each other. The singer remembers their past, and the fact they used to care for each other. However, he now accepts that things have changed between them. The lyrics show that breaking apart from someone you cared for can be tough, and saying goodbye is not always easy. At the same time, sometimes in a relationship, one realizes what they wanted is not what they needed. The song's final message is that sometimes, it is better to let go of a person even though it may be hard.


Line by Line Meaning

How've you been?
Asking about how you've been since we last talked


Can I come in?
Requesting to come inside to get some things


Just came to get my things and then I guess I'm leaving
Only came to take what belongs to me and leave


If I could say What you'd like to hear I'd whisper in your ear it's only temporary
If I could tell you what you want to hear, I would say that this is only temporary


But I've been taking you for granted
Realizing that I have not been appreciating you enough


And I thought you'd feel the same as me
Assuming that you share my feelings


It's time that I come clean, but
Acknowledging that I need to confess something


But for now can we Just both pretend to sleep
Asking to avoid the current situation by pretending to sleep


Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
Realizing that what we want might not be what we actually need


What goes around don't come around
Nothing good will come from bad behavior


You should know me by now
Implying that you should have a good understanding of me by now


Can I keep this part for myself?
Desiring to keep some part of the relationship private


Our talk is small, I'm seven inches tall
Acknowledging that conversation is not meaningful and feeling small in comparison


And you should keep the apartment
Suggesting that the other person should keep the place they share


So here's my keys Changed all the bills
Handing over the keys and taking away responsibility for bills


We're only built to spill and wonder where the heart went
Imagining that relationships are fragile and that we struggle when trying to find love


And you've been taking me for granted
Realizing that you havenā€™t been appreciated enough


I know that I remember you I think that you remember me too
Recalling that both people in the relationship have memories of each other


How can one of us still feel blessed when the other one's lost
Wondering how one person can feel happy when the other person is feeling lost


I know you've got to feel the change It just stays worse when it stays the same
Understanding that things need to change, as it is only getting worse when they stay the same


Don't you know me by now?
Asking if you really know who I am by this point




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How've you been?
Can I come in?
Just came to get my things
And then I guess I'm leaving
If I can say, what you'd like to hear?
I'd whisper in your ear
It's only temporary
But I've been taking you for granted
And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean
But, but for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep
Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
What goes around, don't come around
You should know me by now
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now
Our talk is small
I'm seven inches tall
And you should keep the apartment
So here's my keys
Changed all the bills
We're only built to spill
And wonder where the heart went
And you've been taking me for granted
And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean
But, but for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep.
Sometimes the one you want
Is not the one you need
What goes around, don't come around
You should know me by now
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now.
I know that I remember you
I think that you remember me too
How can one of us still feel blessed
While the other one's lost?
I know you got to feel the change
It just get's worse when it stays the same
How can one of us still feel blessed
When the other one is so lost?
By now!
Oh yeah
Sometimes the one you want
Is not the one you need.
What goes around, don't come around
Don't you know me by now?
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now



All comments from YouTube:

Kristie Noel

Thank you guys so much I love your musicā¤ this is by far one of my favorites but I love them all

Phoebe

i connect to this song too much and it hurts. thank you all for blessing the world with your music and passion

k

Forever one of my favorite albums

Emily Schiazza

I tear up when I hear this song, it is so amazing and meaningful!

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How've you been?
Can I come in?
Just came to get my things
And then I guess I'm leaving
If I can say, what you'd like to hear?
I'd whisper in your ear
It's only temporary
But I've been taking you for granted
And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean
But, but for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep
Sometimes the one you want is not the one you need
What goes around, don't come around
You should know me by now
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now
Our talk is small
I'm seven inches tall
And you should keep the apartment
So here's my keys
Changed all the bills
We're only built to spill
And wonder where the heart went
And you've been taking me for granted
And I thought you'd feel the same as me
It's time that I come clean
But, but for now can we
Just both pretend to sleep.
Sometimes the one you want
Is not the one you need
What goes around, don't come around
You should know me by now
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now.
I know that I remember you
I think that you remember me too
How can one of us still feel blessed
While the other one's lost?
I know you got to feel the change
It just get's worse when it stays the same
How can one of us still feel blessed
When the other one is so lost?
By now!
Oh yeah
Sometimes the one you want
Is not the one you need.
What goes around, don't come around
Don't you know me by now?
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
I should know you as well
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me
Better than, better than, better than
You should know me by now

madelinn probst

I finally found this song again I was absolutely in love with it a couple years ago šŸ„°

Kat M

Sometimes the one you want, is not the one you need

Morgan Ament

My life line

Alex Blanc

I am forever glad this song exists

Beccas asmr

I love this song and it makes me think about my failed love life sigh

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