And So It Goes
Marianas Trench Lyrics


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In every heart there is a room
A sanctuary safe and strong
To heal the wounds from lover's past
Until a new one comes along

I spoke to you in cautious tones
You answered me with no pretense
And still I feel I said too much
My silence is my self defense

And this is why my eyes are closed
It's just as well for all I've seen
And so it goes and so it goes
And you're the only one who knows

So I would choose to be with you
As if the choice were mine to make
But you can make decisions too
And you can have this heart to break





And so it goes and so it goes
And you're the only one who knows

Overall Meaning

"And So It Goes" by Marianas Trench captures the vulnerability and caution that comes with opening up to someone after past heartbreak. The lyrics describe a heart as a sanctuary, a safe place to heal from the wounds caused by previous lovers. However, once a new love interest appears, it becomes challenging to trust and fully express oneself. The singer in the song acknowledges this hesitancy, choosing to speak in cautious tones, fearing that they may reveal too much. They use their silence as a form of defense, guarding their heart.


The chorus, "And so it goes and so it goes, and you're the only one who knows," highlights the loneliness and isolation that can occur when someone keeps their feelings bottled up. Despite the fear and hesitation, the singer desires to be with this person, even though they acknowledge that the final decision is not solely theirs to make. They are aware that the other person has the power to break their heart, but still, they choose to be vulnerable and take the risk.


Overall, "And So It Goes" portrays the complexity of opening up after heartbreak, the fear of revealing too much, and the uncertainty that comes with falling in love again.


Line by Line Meaning

In every heart there is a room
Within the depths of every person's heart is a private space


A sanctuary safe and strong
A place of refuge that is secure and resilient


To heal the wounds from lover's past
Where one can mend the emotional scars caused by previous romantic relationships


Until a new one comes along
Until a fresh love interest enters one's life


I spoke to you in cautious tones
I conversed with you cautiously and carefully


You answered me with no pretense
Your response was genuine and sincere, without any façade


And still I feel I said too much
Nevertheless, I have a lingering sensation that I revealed more than I should have


My silence is my self defense
Choosing silence becomes my means of protecting myself emotionally


And this is why my eyes are closed
That is precisely why I keep my eyes shut


It's just as well for all I've seen
It is for the best considering all that I have witnessed


And so it goes and so it goes
This is the nature of life, as it constantly progresses


And you're the only one who knows
You are the sole person who possesses this understanding


So I would choose to be with you
I would willingly select to be by your side


As if the choice were mine to make
As though I hold the power to make that decision


But you can make decisions too
However, you also possess the ability to make choices


And you can have this heart to break
And it is within your capability to shatter this heart of mine


And so it goes and so it goes
Thus it continues, such is the cycle of life


And you're the only one who knows
And once again, you are the sole person who possesses this understanding




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