3 A.M.
Matchbox Twenty Lyrics


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She said, "It's cold outside," and she hands me my raincoat
She's always worried about things like that
Well, she said, "It's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault"

And she only sleeps when it's raining
And she screams, and her voice is straining

She says, "Baby, it's 3 AM, I must be lonely"
And she says, "Baby, well, I can't help
But be scared of it all sometimes
And the rain's gonna wash away, I believe it"

Well, she's got a little bit of something, God, it's better than nothing
And in her color portrait world, she believes that she's got it all
She swears the moon don't hang quite as high as it used to

And she only sleeps when it's raining
And she screams (screams) and her voice is straining

She says, "Baby, well, it's 3 AM, I must be lonely"
Well, heaven she says, "Baby, yeah, well, I can't help
But be scared of it all sometimes
And the rain's gonna wash away, I believe this"

Well, she believes that life isn't made up of all that you're used to
And the clock on the wall has been stuck at 3 for days and days
She thinks that happiness is a mat that sits on her doorway
But outside, it's stopped raining

She says, "Baby, well, it's 3 AM, I must be lonely"
Heaven, she says, "Baby, yeah, well, I can't help
But be scared of it all sometimes
And the rain's gonna wash away, I believe this"
Well, it's 3 AM, I must be lonely (I must be lonely)

Well, heaven, she says, "Baby, well, I can't help
But be scared of it all sometimes"

Overall Meaning

The song "3 AM" by Matchbox Twenty is a song about a woman who is struggling with loneliness and fear. The singer is close to this woman and is concerned for her wellbeing. She is always worried about the weather and the end of the world. She only sleeps when it's raining, and her voice is straining when she speaks. The singer is scared of her vulnerability and believes that the rain will wash away the pain.


The woman in the song believes that she has everything she needs in her "color portrait world." She thinks that happiness is a mat that sits on her doorway, but the clock on the wall has been stuck at three for days. It seems like she is stuck in her own world and can't escape it, even though she wants to. The singer wants to help her get out of her situation, but he doesn't know how.


The song has a melancholic tone that captures the sadness and fear of the woman in the song. It is a powerful portrayal of the struggle with loneliness and depression that many people face. The song's ultimate message is that hope is always present, even in the darkest moments of life.


Line by Line Meaning

She say it's cold outside and she hands me my raincoat
She expresses concern for my health by giving me my raincoat when she realizes that it's cold outside.


She's always worried about things like that
She tends to have a worried disposition and is concerned about many things in life.


She says it's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault
She predicts that everything will come to an end and is quick to blame me for it.


And she only sleeps when it's raining
She has trouble relaxing and falling asleep unless it's raining outside.


And she screams and her voice is straining
She becomes very emotional, screaming and straining her voice when expressing her feelings.


She says baby
She uses this term of endearment to address the singer in the song.


It's 3 am I must be lonely
She feels lonely in the middle of the night, as indicated by the time.


Well I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes
She admits to feeling fearful about life and all its uncertainties at times.


Says the rain's gonna wash away I believe it
She believes that the rain will wash away her problems and her worries along with it.


She's got a little bit of something, God it's better than nothing
Despite not having much, she celebrates having something, no matter how small, as a blessing compared to having nothing at all.


And in her color portrait world she believes that she's got it all
In her idealized view of the world, everything seems perfect and she feels she has everything under control.


She swears the moon don't hang quite as high as it used to
She believes that something has changed and nothing is the same as it once was, even the moon doesn't seem in the right place.


She believes that life is made up of all that you're used to
To her, life is defined by routine and what someone is accustomed to and comfortable with.


And the clock on the wall has been stuck at three for days, and days
The singer's clock has been stagnant at three o'clock for an extended period, indicating a sense of stuckness and not moving forward.


She thinks that happiness is a mat that sits on her doorway
She believes that happiness is something that can be found within her home and immediate environment.


But outside it's stopped raining
The rain has stopped and the outside world has gone back to usual, but she still clings to the idea that rain brings peace and happiness.




Lyrics © TECKLAH MUSIC, TABITHA'S SECRET MUSIC INC., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Robert Thomas, Brian Yale, John Goff, John Joseph Stanley

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Comments from YouTube:

@tahsinarahman168

The fact that he wrote this song about his mom who was going through cancer when he was young and had to care for her... he lived a really tough life but created some beautiful music ❤️

@allergictostupidpeople7893

I don't this song LOUDLY I ❤IT ALWAYS HAVE

@DeLeonMintz-pm6qp

Yeah I heard him tell his story about that. And he also mentioned as mom beat the cancer! Great share to you😊

@Magnus2131

I've been fighting cancer getting chemo and radiation on my neck, had to eat through a tube cause my throat and tongue got so tore up. The pain seemed unbearable for awhile. One night I could not sleep as usual, turned on my youtube and this song came up exactly 3:00.

@sheilarose2403

Such a beautiful song 😢

@pelledavill2093

not even close..
but i guess thats what people want the song to be
about so..

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@mikewoodson6930

He wrote this song about his Mother. He was 12, she had cancer. He was taking care of her. Written as an adult reflecting on days past. Beautiful!

@enterprise1701f

Mike Woodson wow...didn’t know that. Thx for sharing that nugget of information 😊

@conniedunn6288

He is
Is beautiful

@conniedunn6288

Id love to hang out with him

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