The current members of the band are Rob Thomas (vocals, piano), Paul Doucette (drums, now guitar), Kyle Cook (lead guitar, vocals) and Brian Yale (bass). Adam Gaynor (rhythm guitar), who has left the band, performed on their first three albums, as well. Rob Thomas is the principal songwriter and lead singer.
Thomas, Yale and Doucette performed in the band Tabitha's Secret out of Orlando, Florida before splitting apart to form Matchbox Twenty with Cook and Gaynor.
Matchbox Twenty released their first album, Yourself or Someone Like You in 1996. While their first single, "Long Day", was a rock radio-only smash, the album soon spun off several Top 40 hit singles throughout 1997 and 1998, including "Push", "3 A.M.", "Real World" and "Back 2 Good". The album eventually went on to sell over 12 million copies in the U.S. alone, earning diamond status. The band toured relentlessly for several years, performing the songs from their one and only album, along with some beloved cover songs such as Cyndi Lauper's "Time After Time" and The Beatles' "Don't Let Me Down". Their fan base grew from concert to concert because of their electrifying live performances and the longevity of their hit singles on radio. The same year, Matchbox Twenty recorded a live version of their Top-40 hit "3 A.M." for release on the charity album Live in the X Lounge, benefiting cerebral palsy research.
Before recording their second album, Rob Thomas collaborated with Itaal Shur on a song entitled "Smooth" for Carlos Santana's comeback album, Supernatural. The song had a pop-tinged Latin beat and showcased Thomas' lyrical talents. Thomas was supposed to act solely as songwriter on "Smooth", but Carlos Santana had him sing on it as well after hearing the song's demo recording. "Smooth", was the album's lead single and became a gigantic hit in 1999; Thomas earned three Grammys for writing and performing on "Smooth", including Record of the Year and Song of the Year.
In 2000, Matchbox 20 renamed themselves Matchbox Twenty and released their second album, Mad Season. The album featured lush instrumental arrangements and spun off several hit singles, including "Bent" (Number One on Hot 100) and "If You're Gone". The video for "Bent", poked fun of singer Thomas' heightened profile from "Smooth" by showing the other band members assaulting him mercilessly. The evocatively arranged ballad "If You're Gone" became a big hit, especially on adult contemporary formats. The band's next two singles, "Mad Season" and "Last Beautiful Girl" were not particularly successful. Fans also note hearing "Black & White People" receive radio play, despite not being released as a single.
For their third album, More Than You Think You Are, the band returned to a harder rock sound. Thomas shared the songwriting efforts with the other band members on several songs. The album spun off hit singles "Disease", "Unwell", and "Bright Lights".
In May 2004, the band released a live concert DVD, Show: A Night in the Life of Matchbox Twenty, filmed in Atlanta and featuring 20 songs, including all of their hit singles.
In February 2005, rhythm guitarist Gaynor officially left the group, which had been on hiatus to allow other members to pursue side projects. Rob Thomas went on to release a solo album entitled ...Something To Be which became the U.S. Billboard 200 #1 album the first week of its release. The album featured four hit singles: "Lonely No More", "This is How a Heart Breaks", "Ever the Same" and "Streetcorner Symphony".
In January 2007, Rob Thomas released a single entitled "Little Wonders" which he wrote for the Disney movie Meet the Robinsons.
Their "Exile On Mainstream" album was released on October 2, 2007 as a two disc set. The first disc featured 6 new songs, including the hit "How Far We've Come", which could be heard on the accompanying website, along with the music video. The second disc contained 11 of their greatest hits, such as "Push", "Bent" and "Unwell".
The She’s So Mean Songfacts reports that Matchbox Twenty's fourth studio album North is the first record of new material that the band has released for ten years, although they did record seven new songs for their 2007 compilation album Exile On Mainstream. The album was released on September 4, 2012.
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Argue
Matchbox Twenty Lyrics
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He says anything to keep her by him
She takes, what she gets, and she never did flinch
So over, and over, anyone
With any mind would think that's all she gets
If you want you can get to know me well
We get along so we shouldn't argue
All these feelings, cloud up my reasoning
They cloud up my reasoning
I know, but I still
Believe in ignorance as my best defense
So go on, wreck me
Funny how I carry on, and not be taken over
Will not roll over on anyone,
'Cause anyone would stand up on my side
If you want you can get to know me well
We get along so we shouldn't argue
And I don't know, said I don't know no
All these feelings, cloud up my reasoning
Yeah they cloud up my reasoning
You know it's funny how sometimes
It don't work out like you want to
No you never get nothing at all
Then she tells you that it's over
Boy don't you hate it when it's over
I guess something just got lost, and it deeply saddens me
So over, and over anyone, yeah anyone
If you want you can get to know me well
We get along so we shouldn't argue
And I don't know, said I don't know no
All these feelings, cloud up my reasoning
We get along so we shouldn't argue
We get along so we shouldn't argue
We shouldn't argue, yeah
The song "Argue" by Matchbox Twenty features lyrics that explore the dynamics in a troubled relationship. The first verse describes a situation where the female partner seems to be settling for less than she deserves, while putting up with her partner's manipulative behavior. The chorus suggests that both partners would benefit from getting to know each other better, and avoiding conflicts that could lead to a breakup. The second verse highlights the male partner's tendency to use ignorance as a defense mechanism, even though it may not be the best approach to resolving relationship issues.
The lyrics in "Argue" convey a sense of frustration and sadness, as the singers lament the loss of a once-happy relationship. The repetition of the phrase "so over, and over" underscores the cyclical nature of their conflicts, and the fact that they keep repeating the same mistakes. Despite this, there is a glimmer of hope in the chorus, which suggests that they could still save their relationship if they work on understanding each other better.
Overall, "Argue" is a poignant and relatable depiction of the challenges and complexities of romantic relationships, and highlights the importance of communication, empathy, and understanding in building strong and healthy partnerships.
Line by Line Meaning
She don't, but she will
He knows that she isn't the type to give in, but he's confident that she'll eventually come around to his way of thinking.
He says anything to keep her by him
He'll say whatever it takes to make her stay with him, even if it's not true.
She takes, what she gets, and she never did flinch
She accepts whatever he gives her without question and doesn't show any hesitation or reluctance.
So over, and over, anyoneWith any mind would think that's all she gets
Anyone who's paying attention would see that she's constantly repeating the same pattern of accepting less than she deserves.
If you want you can get to know me wellWe get along so we shouldn't argueAnd I don't know, said I don't know, noAll these feelings, cloud up my reasoningThey cloud up my reasoning
He wants her to get to know him better, as they seem to have a good connection and shouldn't argue. However, he admits that his feelings are preventing him from thinking clearly and logically.
I know, but I stillBelieve in ignorance as my best defenseSo go on, wreck meFunny how I carry on, and not be taken overWill not roll over on anyone,'Cause anyone would stand up on my side
He knows that he's choosing to be naive as a way of protecting himself, even though it could lead to him getting hurt. He's surprised that he's able to keep going despite the challenges he's faced, and he won't betray anyone because he knows they're on his side.
You know it's funny how sometimesIt don't work out like you want toNo you never get nothing at allThen she tells you that it's overBoy don't you hate it when it's overI guess something just got lost, and it deeply saddens meSo over, and over anyone, yeah anyone
It's ironic that things don't always turn out the way you want them to, even when you try your best. It's frustrating to end up with nothing at all and have the other person leave you. He's not sure what caused their relationship to fall apart, but it's happened before and it's a recurring theme.
We get along so we shouldn't argueWe shouldn't argue, yeah
He's emphasizing that they have a good relationship and should try to avoid disputes.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ROB THOMAS
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