A Friend In The World
Matthew West Lyrics


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She always said the world was overrated
And she couldn't take the drama it created
And it's a wonder that she didn't wind up jaded
From all the times she's been let down

Well, mom and dad split up when she was four years old
And left the world as she knew it spinning out of control
And she grew up feeling a hole in her soul
'Cause they were never around

She said, why is everybody always leaving'
I just want someone to believe in
And someone who believes in me

When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, you got one now

Well, I grew up in the glass house of a preacher
Where every move I ever made was a feature
And when you don't always do what they teach you
You see they always point you out

Yeah, but it's just like Toby Mac used to say
Some people gotta learn the hard way
And when I couldn't outrun all the things I'd done
I picked up the phone and my dad said

Son, when you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, you got one now

This is where the story gets crazy
And this is the part that's so amazing
You see, the girl I sang about in the first verse
Became my wife

And there's one last thing I'd like to mention
We owe it all to the Author of redemption
Because He reached her life and He reached my life
And he's reaching out now take a look around

When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, you got one now

When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, you got one now

A friend in the world
A friend in the world, Love is reaching down




When you can't find a friend in the world
A friend in the world, you got one now

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Matthew West's "A Friend In The World" tell the story of two people who have struggled to find meaningful connections with others. In the first verse, we are introduced to a woman who has been let down by the world and the people in it. Her parents' split when she was young left her feeling like there was a hole in her soul that couldn't be filled. She longs for someone to believe in her and to be there for her when times get tough.


The second verse shifts focus to the singer himself, who grew up in a family of preachers. He felt like he was always being watched and judged by others, and when he found himself struggling with his own mistakes and shortcomings, he turned to his father for support. The chorus brings the two stories together, offering the hope that even when it feels like you have no one to turn to, love is always there to reach down and lift you up.


Overall, the song is about the power of love and friendship to help us through the toughest times. It reminds us that no matter how alone we may feel, there is always someone out there willing to offer a helping hand.


Line by Line Meaning

She always said the world was overrated
She believed that the world was not as great as people made it out to be, and it did not live up to her expectations


And she couldn't take the drama it created
She was unable to handle the difficulties and conflicts that arose in life


And it's a wonder that she didn't wind up jaded
It is surprising that she did not become bitter due to the disappointment and disillusionment she faced


From all the times she's been let down
She felt disappointed and betrayed after being hurt many times by others


Well, mom and dad split up when she was four years old
Her parents separated when she was a child


And left the world as she knew it spinning out of control
Her life became chaotic and unpredictable after her parents' separation


And she grew up feeling a hole in her soul
She grew up with a deep sense of emptiness within her


'Cause they were never around
Her parents were not present in her life


She said, why is everybody always leaving'
She wondered why people kept leaving her life


I just want someone to believe in
She needed someone who would support and have faith in her


And someone who believes in me
She desired someone who would have trust and confidence in her


When you can't find a friend in the world
During times when she had no one to turn to for support


A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
Love is always available to provide aid and comfort during difficult times


Well, I grew up in the glass house of a preacher
He grew up in a household where his father was a pastor and was held to a high standard


Where every move I ever made was a feature
His actions were constantly being evaluated and judged


And when you don't always do what they teach you
When he did not always follow the teachings of the church


You see they always point you out
He was exposed and criticized for his actions


Yeah, but it's just like Toby Mac used to say
As Toby Mac once said


Some people gotta learn the hard way
Some individuals only learn from life's harsh experiences


And when I couldn't outrun all the things I'd done
When he was unable to escape the consequences of his past mistakes


I picked up the phone and my dad said
He called his father for support and guidance


This is where the story gets crazy
The story becomes incredible from this point forward


And this is the part that's so amazing
The upcoming event is remarkable


You see, the girl I sang about in the first verse
The woman mentioned earlier in the song


Became my wife
She eventually became his spouse


And there's one last thing I'd like to mention
There is one final point I would like to make


We owe it all to the Author of redemption
They attribute their success and happiness to God's saving and restorative power


Because He reached her life and He reached my life
God positively impacted their lives and brought them together


And he's reaching out now take a look around
God is present in their lives and is offering help and support


A friend in the world
A reliable and trustworthy companion during life's struggles


A friend in the world, Love is reaching down
Love is always available to provide aid and comfort during difficult times


When you can't find a friend in the world
During times when you have no one to turn to for support


A friend in the world, you got one now
There is now someone who can provide help and support during difficult times




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: CINDY MIZELLE, MATTHEW WEST, MATTHEW JOSEPH WEST

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