When I Get Over You
Mike & The Mechanics Lyrics


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When I get over you
I'll be who I want to be
I'll sleep where I want to sleep
And laugh at your memory

When I get over you
I'm not gonna need a friend
I'm not gonna tell the truth
I'll never do that again
You'll never see me cry
You're gonna see something new
You're not gonna watch me die
When I get over you

When I get over you
I won't make the same mistake
I don't wanna hear your voice
I don't wanna see your face
I know it's all in the past
And it's long overdue
I know that I won't look back
When I get over you

Did somebody teach you how to lie
And take what you're feeling from
your eyes
It's a sad disguise
Take it off and say goodbye

You'll never see me cry
You're gonna see something new
You're not gonna watch me die
When I get over you

Did somebody teach you how to lie
And take what you're feeling from
your eyes
It's a sad disguise
Take it off and say goodbye

When I get over you
I'll be who I want to be
I'll sleep where I want to sleep
And laugh at your memory

When I get over you
I'm not gonna need a friend
I'm not gonna tell the truth
I'll never do that again

When I get over this
I won't make the same mistake




I don't wanna hear your voice
I don't wanna see your face

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mike & The Mechanics's song "When I Get Over You" are about someone who has just gotten out of a bad relationship and is ready to move on. The singer is expressing their determination to not let the pain and hurt from the relationship control their life anymore. They will now be who they want to be, sleep where they want to sleep and laugh at the memories of their past relationship. The singer is not going to need a friend and is not going to tell the truth about their feelings anymore. They are willing to take on a new persona and start over.


The singer has come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over and will no longer make the same mistake of trusting their partner again. They do not want to hear or see their partner anymore as they know it's all in the past and they won't look back. The reference to someone teaching their partner how to lie indicates that the pain caused by the partner's betrayal runs deep. However, the singer is ready to move on and when they finally get over their partner, they will never do that again.


Overall, the song encourages listeners who have gone through a bad breakup to learn from their mistakes and move on to greater things in life. It is about taking control of one's life and not letting the past control their future.


Line by Line Meaning

When I get over you
Once I have emotionally overcome our relationship


I'll be who I want to be
I will regain control over my own life and identity


I'll sleep where I want to sleep
I will have the freedom to make decisions for myself without being weighed down by our past relationship


And laugh at your memory
I will no longer be burdened by negative emotions in association with our intertwined history and can even find humor in it


I'm not gonna need a friend
I will be self-sufficient and not dependent on outside influences to validate my existence


I'm not gonna tell the truth
I will no longer need to be truthful about my feelings towards you or emotions evoked by our separation


I'll never do that again
I refuse to let someone have that kind of control over me again


You'll never see me cry
You will no longer have the power to elicit such an emotional response from me


You're gonna see something new
You will witness a strength and independence you never would have thought possible from me


You're not gonna watch me die
You will not be responsible for my downfall or emotional demise anymore


I won't make the same mistake
I have learned from my past mistakes and will not repeat them


I don't wanna hear your voice
I do not want any reminders of the past to hinder my future progress


I don't wanna see your face
I need to completely separate myself from your influence in order to move on


Did somebody teach you how to lie
Did someone else teach you how to conceal your true emotions and intentions


And take what you're feeling from your eyes
Is it common for you to mask your emotions so that others cannot see them


It's a sad disguise
It's deeply concerning and disheartening that you feel the need to pretend and hide behind a facade


Take it off and say goodbye
You need to be honest with yourself and me in order for us to move on and say goodbye to our relationship




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Marian Cox

Paul Young - always at his best - the emotion and vibrancy he brought to his singing was amazing

Claudia Noriker

paul young will always remain the best singer the mechanics ever had. incredible voice and stage presence and a very handsome guy. i miss you!

Kool Kitties

I like Paul Carrack better

George Taylor

Another masterpiece from the brilliant Paul young superb still missed after all these years RIP YOUNGY

Colleen Burns

Paul Young was and always will be a LEGEND! What an amazing song! RIP Youngy. X

Starikov Starikov

Великая вещь, одиночество , творчество, видение мира.

Romulo Tristao

Esta música é umas das minhas preferidas.

MrJoseppie123

Yes, i agree with everyone so far about the Mechanics. I've seen them live loads of times & also Paul Carrack. Really breathtaking performances. RIP Paul Young a true legend

Starikov Starikov

Шедевр, а текст!!!. Минор, надежда, слёзы, Вещь!!!.

Starikov Starikov

Лихо!!!.Красиво,стильно, клас.

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