Marion Bandy was born and grew up in Meridian, Mississippi, hometown of the country singer Jimmie Rodgers. He later stated: "My grandfather worked on the railroads with Jimmie Rodgers. He was the boss of the railway yard in Meridian and Jimmie Rodgers worked for him. He said that he played his guitar all the time between work."
He was nicknamed Moe by his father when he was a child. The Bandy family moved to San Antonio, Texas when Moe was six. His mother played piano and sang. Bandy was taught to play the guitar by his father who had a country band called the Mission City Playboys, but made little use of the ability until he was in his teens. His father's wish that Moe also play the fiddle never materialized.
He made some appearances with the Mission City Playboys but generally during his high school years he showed little interest in music and a great deal of interest in rodeos. He tried bronco-busting and bull riding and by the time he was 16, both he and his brother Mike were competing in rodeos all over Texas.
In 1962, tired of the bruises and fractured bones, he began to pursue a career in country music. He assembled a band that he called Moe And The Mavericks and found work playing small beer joints, honky-tonks, and clubs over a wide area around San Antonio. When he was young he tried to sound like Hank Williams and George Jones - "I even had my hair cut short like his."
Although work was plentiful, the pay was poor and during the day he worked for his father as a sheet metal worker, a job that lasted for 12 years, during which time he made a few recordings for various small labels. In 1964, he had his first single, "Lonely Girl", on the San Antonio based Satin label, but it made little impression. He did manage to get his band a residency on a local television program called Country Corner and in this capacity, he provided backing for several touring stars.
In 1973, he went solo when record producer Ray Baker, who had listened to his demos, suggested that he come to Nashville, Tennessee. Moe Bandy obtained a loan and recorded a song called "I Just Started Hatin' Cheatin' Songs Today". Initially released on Footprint Records with a limited pressing of 500 copies, it soon came to the attention of the Atlanta-based GRC label. In March 1974, it entered the US country chart, eventually peaking at number 17. Other minor hits followed, including "It Was Always So Easy To Find An Unhappy Woman (Till I Started Looking For Mine)" and "Don't Anyone Make Love At Home Anymore".
In 1975, a song written by his friend Lefty Frizzell and Whitey Shaffer gave him a number 7 country hit, firmly establishing his reputation. "Bandy The Rodeo Clown" was to become not only one of his own favorites but also one of his most popular recordings. (Shaffer was greatly amused by the way Bandy pronounced woman as "woh-min", and began to send him songs with the "woh-min" in them.)
Bandy sang in a simple style that extracted the utmost from his songs of lost love, sadness, and life. Although by no means a Hank Williams sound-alike, his method of putting across his honky-tonk songs showed the distinct influence of Williams. He met with immediate success at Columbia Records with Paul Craft's "Hank Williams, You Wrote My Life" and quickly added further hits, including "Here I Am Drunk Again".
From 1977 through 1979, he was a country chart regular with singles such as "I'm Sorry For You, My Friend" (the song Williams had written for their mutual friend Lefty Frizzell), "Cowboys Ain't Supposed To Cry", "That's What Makes The Jukebox Play", and a duet with Janie Fricke, "It's A Cheating Situation".
In 1979, he achieved his first solo number 1 with "I Cheated Me Right Out of You".
That same year, in 1979, Bandy joined forces with Joe Stampley and recorded a tongue in cheek novelty single: "Just Good Ol' Boys". The song went on to top the country chart and it led to a continuation of their partnership. The duo, commonly known as "Moe and Joe", had more novelty hits between 1979 and 1985, including "Holding The Bag", "Tell Ole I Ain't Here", and "Hey Joe (Hey Moe)". In 1984, they ran into copyright problems with their parody of the then-current Boy George/Culture Club phenomenon: "Where's The Dress" used the guitar-riff introduction from Culture Club's hit "Karma Chameleon".
During the 1980s, Bandy maintained a steady line of solo successes, including "Yesterday Once More", "Rodeo Romeo", "She's Not Really Cheatin' (She's Just Gettin' Even)", and "Till I'm Too Old To Die Young".
Bandy also registered duet successes with Judy Bailey ("Following The Feeling") and Becky Hobbs ("Let's Get Over Them Together"). Over the years, he maintained a touring schedule estimated at 250 to 300 days a year and appeared on numerous network television shows. In later years, he cut back considerably on his schedule. He was never a regular Grand Ole Opry member, but has made guest appearances from time to time.
Bandy summed up his music when he said, "I really think my songs are about life. There's cheating, drinking and divorcing going on everywhere and that's what hardcore country music is all about." He added: "If I'd done all the things I sing about, I'd be dead."
Critics reviewing some of his later recordings wrote that it was strange that at a time when more artists were actually recording his type of music, some of his recordings were spoiled by string and/or choir arrangements, and advised that an immediate return to his roots was necessary. Bandy opened his popular Americana Theatre in Branson, Missouri in 1991 and performs frequently there.
Moe, along with his brother, Mike Bandy, a six time NFR bull riding qualifier, were inducted into the Texas Rodeo Cowboy Hall of Fame in 2007.
Are We Making Love or Just Making Friends
Moe Bandy Lyrics
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We're no closer than we were at the start
I can find my way to your body
But I can't find my way to your heart
Are we making love or just making friends
Are we holding each other or just holding hands
Is this the beginning or is this how it ends
It's not easy when I'm laying beside you
Never knowing if you really care
Do you love me or do you just need me
Are we growing or going nowhere
Are we making love
Are we making love or just making friends
The lyrics to Moe Bandy's "Are We Making Love or Just Making Friends" tell the story of a relationship that is not progressing the way the singer had hoped it would. Despite being physically intimate, the couple is not emotionally connected, and the singer is struggling to determine whether they are truly in love or just friends. The chorus poses a series of questions that highlight this confusion, asking if they are making love or just maintaining a platonic relationship. The singer wonders if they are truly holding each other or just holding hands, if the relationship is just beginning or if it's already coming to an end.
The lyrics reveal a sense of frustration and uncertainty, as the singer tries to make sense of the relationship and understand his partner's feelings. It is clear that he is invested in the relationship and wants it to be more than just a friendship, but he is struggling to gauge his partner's level of commitment. These lyrics explore a common theme in romantic relationships, where physical intimacy does not necessarily equate to emotional connection.
Overall, the lyrics to "Are We Making Love or Just Making Friends" paint a somber picture of a relationship that is struggling to move forward. The singer's uncertainly and confusion are palpable, making the song a relatable exploration of the complexities of modern relationships.
Line by Line Meaning
It's not working the way that I planned it
Things are not going according to my plan.
We're no closer than we were at the start
Our relationship has not progressed much since the beginning.
I can find my way to your body
I know how to physically please you.
But I can't find my way to your heart
I cannot seem to emotionally connect with you.
Are we making love or just making friends
I am not sure if we are intimate partners or just friends.
Are we holding each other or just holding hands
I am unsure if our physical intimacy is genuine or if we are just going through the motions.
Is this the beginning or is this how it ends
I am unsure if our relationship is just starting or if we are already nearing its end.
Are we making love to just making friends
I am uncertain if our physical intimacy is born out of love or just a platonic friendship.
It's not easy when I'm laying beside you
Being with you is not always easy for me.
Never knowing if you really care
I am constantly unsure if you have genuine feelings for me.
Do you love me or do you just need me
I am confused whether your affection for me is based on love or necessity.
Are we growing or going nowhere
I am unsure if we are advancing in our relationship or simply stagnant.
Are we making love
I am questioning if our physical intimacy is genuine or not.
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Ida Fillmore
Makes us consider all about our adventures we have endured in our life time. Thanks Bicana , love it!!
Ruth Boykin
Great song! Here to share.Thanks for having it Bianca!
FranKoh Germany
what should i say...
great song and wonderful pictures.
country music is the truth about all our lifes.
thank you, bianca. đŸ˜™
CountryBoy Williams
GOOD ONE FROM MOE...GREAT COUNTRY
Darren Collom
This song was written by my dad Steve Collom.
2packs4sure
Never heard this one from Moe,,,, I like it.
Recorded ~ November 1977 Columbia Recording Studio B, 34 Music Sq. East, Nashville, TN - Moe Bandy (Moe Bandy [vcl], Dave Kirby [gt], Ray Edenton [gt], Reggie Young [gt], Tommy Allsup [gt], Bunky Keels [gt], Leo Jackson [gt], Weldon Myrick [steel], Bob Moore [bass], Kenny Malone [drums], Johnny Gimble [fiddle], Hargus Robbins [piano]. Producer: Ray Baker)
Darren Collom
This song was written by my dad Steve Collom.