I Don't Mind If You Forget Me
Morrissey Lyrics


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I don't mind
I don't mind if you forget me
Having learned my lesson
I never left an impression on anyone

So now you send me your hardened 'regards'
When once you'd send me 'love'
Sincerely I must tell you
Your mild 'best wishes'
They make me suspicious

I don't mind
I don't mind if you forget me
Having learned my lesson
I never left an impression on anyone
The pressure to change, to move on
Was strange
And very strong
So this is why I tell you
I really do understand
Bye bye

I don't mind if you forget me
No no no no no no no

You can only be strong for so long
It may not eat you but it will beat you
So this is why I tell you
I really don't understand
This time

Rejection is one thing
But rejection from a fool
Is cruel
Rejection is one thing
But rejection from a fool
Is cruel




And I don't mind if you forget me
I don't mind if you forget me

Overall Meaning

Morrissey's song "If You Don't Mind" has been interpreted to be about someone dealing with rejection, showing a mature attitude about it and not letting it phase him or her too much. The lyrics, with the repetition of "I don't mind if you forget me" reinforce this attitude. The song is introspective in that the singer is reflecting on past relationships that ultimately didn't work out.


The lines "The pressure to change, to move on / Was strange / And very strong," could be interpreted to mean that after a breakup, there might be social pressure to quickly move on and forget about the failed relationship. This pressure may come from friends and family, who want the singer to move on from a past relationship but who fail to understand the complexity of this experience.


The line "Rejection is one thing / But rejection from a fool / Is cruel" is notable for its turn of phrase, equating being rejected by someone who is a fool to be an extra layer of cruelty on top of an already painful experience of rejection.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't mind
I am not bothered


I don't mind if you forget me
It does not matter if you forget about me


Having learned my lesson
After experiencing some setbacks


I never left an impression on anyone
I have never made a significant impact on anyone


So now you send me your hardened 'regards'
Your greeting is now cold and insincere


When once you'd send me 'love'
Previously, your greeting was warm and caring


Sincerely I must tell you
I am being honest with you


Your mild 'best wishes'
Your greeting lacks enthusiasm


They make me suspicious
I am doubtful about your sincerity


The pressure to change, to move on
There is a strong expectation for me to change and progress


Was strange
It was a peculiar feeling


And very strong
It was intense


So this is why I tell you
This is the reason for me to say


I really do understand
I empathize with your situation


Bye bye
Goodbye


You can only be strong for so long
One can only endure hardship for a limited period


It may not eat you but it will beat you
The ordeal may not consume you, but it will defeat you


This is why I tell you
I am explaining to you


I really don't understand this time
I do not comprehend the current situation


Rejection is one thing
Being turned down is tolerable


But rejection from a fool
Being rejected by someone foolish and shallow


Is cruel
Is harsh and hurtful


And I don't mind if you forget me
It does not matter if you forget me


I don't mind if you forget me
It does not matter if you forget me




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: STEPHEN BRIAN STREET, STEVEN MORRISSEY, STEVEN PATRICK MORRISSEY

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