I Don't Want A Sometimes Man
Nancy Wilson Lyrics


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Last time I saw you
We kissed goodbye, don't know why
I left you standing with a suitcase
And a ticket to confusion in your hand

You said that something inside
Made you crazy, made you run blind
Although I really love you
I'm gonna leave your love behind

And I don't want a sometimes man
(Sometimes man) who haunts my bed at night
My head by daylight
I don't want a sometimes man (Sometimes man)
Who leaves me hungry and wanting
(That's not the way) That's not
The way love should feel
That's not the way love should feel

Call me from three thousand miles
You say you missed my pretty smile
I'm in your heart, I'm on your mind
Still, some answers you must find

Darling, it's gotten too clear
That your heart is not for me to share
'Cause if you really love me
I know that you'd be here

And I don't want a sometimes man
(Sometimes man) who haunts my bed at night
My head by daylight
I don't want a sometimes man (Sometimes man)
Who leaves me hungry and wanting
(That's not the way) That's not
The way love should feel
That's not the way love should feel

That's not the way love should feel
(That's not the way)
That's not the way love should feel
(That's not the way, love)
That's not the way love should feel
(That's not the way) oh, woah
That's not the way love should feel
(That's not the way)
That's not the way love should feel




(That's not the way, love)
That's not the way love should feel

Overall Meaning

In Nancy Wilson's song "I Don't Want A Sometimes Man," the singer reflects on a failed relationship with a man who was inconsistent and unreliable. The lyrics convey her frustration and disappointment with the situation. It starts with the memory of their last meeting, where they said goodbye but left things unresolved. She mentions leaving him with a suitcase and a ticket to confusion, symbolizing the uncertainty and instability of their relationship.


The next verse reveals that the man's erratic behavior, which she refers to as "something inside," made him act irrational and unpredictable. Despite her love for him, she decides to let go of the relationship because she desires consistency and commitment. She expresses her dissatisfaction with a partner who only shows up sometimes, both emotionally and physically. She wants someone who will be there for her consistently, satisfying her emotional and physical needs.


The chorus emphasizes her desire for a reliable and present partner. She doesn't want someone who "haunts her bed at night" with sporadic appearances or who leaves her hungry and wanting for love and attention. The repetition of the phrase "that's not the way love should feel" reinforces her belief that love should be more stable and fulfilling.


Overall, the lyrics of "I Don't Want A Sometimes Man" present a clear message about the singer's need for consistency, reliability, and commitment in a romantic relationship. It highlights the importance of emotional and physical availability in a partnership.


Line by Line Meaning

Last time I saw you
The previous time we met


We kissed goodbye, don't know why
We bid farewell with uncertainty and confusion


I left you standing with a suitcase
I departed from you while you held a suitcase


And a ticket to confusion in your hand
And you held a ticket that led to a state of perplexity


You said that something inside
You mentioned a feeling within


Made you crazy, made you run blind
That drove you to insanity and blinded you


Although I really love you
Despite my genuine affection for you


I'm gonna leave your love behind
I am going to abandon your love


And I don't want a sometimes man
And I refuse to accept a man who is inconsistent


(Sometimes man) who haunts my bed at night
(A man who occasionally appears and disturbs my sleep)


My head by daylight
And occupies my thoughts during the day


I don't want a sometimes man (Sometimes man)
I do not desire a man who is only present sporadically


Who leaves me hungry and wanting
Who leaves me yearning and unsatisfied


(That's not the way) That's not
(This is not the way) This is not


The way love should feel
The way love ought to be experienced


Call me from three thousand miles
Contact me from a great distance of three thousand miles


You say you missed my pretty smile
You claim to have longed for my beautiful smile


I'm in your heart, I'm on your mind
I am present in your heart and constantly on your thoughts


Still, some answers you must find
However, you still seek certain answers


Darling, it's gotten too clear
My dear, it has become too evident


That your heart is not for me to share
That your heart is not meant to be shared with me


'Cause if you really love me
Because if you truly love me


I know that you'd be here
I am aware that you would be by my side


That's not the way love should feel
This is not the appropriate sensation love should evoke


(That's not the way) That's not the way
(This is not the way) This is not the way


That's not the way love should feel
That is an improper perception of love


That's not the way love should feel
That feeling does not align with the essence of love


(That's not the way)
(This is not the way)


That's not the way love should feel
That is not the genuine experience of love


(That's not the way, love)
(That is not the proper way, love)


That's not the way love should feel
That is not the authentic sensation of love


That's not the way love should feel
That sentiment does not accord with the nature of love




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Written by: RACHEL PERRY

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