What Do You See In Her?
Nancy Wilson Lyrics


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What do you see in her?
She has two arms to hold you
Tight and so do I
Two lips to kiss you, day and night
And so do I what do you see in her
That you didn't see in me?

Why did you say goodbye?
Is she so wonderful that she
Could make us part?
And does she whisper tender words
That touch your heart?
What do you see in her
That you didn't see in me?

Every time I see you together
I smile, I say hello
I can't help just wondering whether
You see inside the tears I hide

What do you see in her?
How did she get in to
Your arms where I belong?
What is she doing right that
I was doing wrong? What do you see in her
That you didn't see in me?





What do you see in her
That you didn't see in me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Nancy Wilson's song "What Do You See In Her?" center around a narrator who is questioning why their former lover chose someone else over them. The singer compares themselves to the new partner, highlighting their shared qualities such as two arms to hold and two lips to kiss. The central question posed throughout the song is what the new partner possesses that the singer lacked. The lyrics convey feelings of confusion, longing, and a sense of betrayal as the singer tries to understand the reasons behind the breakup and the appeal of the new partner.


The singer reflects on the wonderful moments they shared with their former lover and wonders if the new partner possesses some mysterious quality that led to their separation. They question whether the new partner whispers tender words that touch their lover's heart in a way the singer couldn't. The chorus repeatedly asks the question, "What do you see in her that you didn't see in me?" It conveys a sense of yearning for answers and a desire to understand why they were replaced.


The lyrics also reveal the singer's struggle in seeing their former lover with someone else. They express a bittersweet emotion, smiling and saying hello when they see their ex with their new partner, but also hiding the tears and wondering if their ex can sense the hidden pain. The lyrics convey a mix of emotions, from curiosity to heartbreak, as the singer grapples with the reality of the situation.


Overall, "What Do You See In Her?" captures the feelings of rejection and longing that arise when someone we love chooses someone else. It explores themes of self-worth and trying to understand why we may not have been enough for someone.


Line by Line Meaning

What do you see in her?
Why are you attracted to her?


She has two arms to hold you
She can physically embrace you and provide support


Tight and so do I
I can also hold you tightly and provide comfort


Two lips to kiss you, day and night
She can give you affectionate kisses whenever you want


And so do I what do you see in her
But I can also kiss you passionately, so why choose her?


That you didn't see in me?
What qualities or aspects does she have that I lack?


Why did you say goodbye?
Why did you choose to end our relationship?


Is she so wonderful that she
Is she incredibly amazing that she


Could make us part?
Could be the reason for our separation?


And does she whisper tender words
Does she speak sweet and affectionate words


That touch your heart?
That deeply resonate with your emotions?


Every time I see you together
Whenever I witness you two being together


I smile, I say hello
I pretend to be happy and greet you


I can't help just wondering whether
I can't stop myself from pondering whether


You see inside the tears I hide
You notice the sorrow and pain I conceal


How did she get in to
How did she manage to enter


Your arms where I belong?
The place where I should be and feel loved?


What is she doing right that
What actions or qualities does she possess


I was doing wrong? What do you see in her
That I failed to exhibit? Why do you prefer her over me?


That you didn't see in me?
What distinctive traits does she possess that I lack?


What do you see in her
Why are you attracted to her?


That you didn't see in me?
What qualities or aspects does she have that I lack?




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