Scars
Natalie Imbruglia Lyrics


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Is this part, is this part,
Of the process, of the process?
Can I find another way 'round,
Other way round, round the pain?
Cuz you've left me here in the middle of it
Said I'll work it out, I promise
I don't know how we got here in the first place.
I climbed the walls,
You hit the bars.
I am from Venus,
You are from Mars.
You got your brand new friends.
And I got a broken heart.
Doesnt matter who we are

Everyone has their scars.
Everyone has their scars.

There's a place, there's a place,
That I'm heading, that I'm heading.
Need to know, are you coming,
Are you coming, telling me?
Cuz you're heading in the wrong direction
Just as I need your protection.
Maybe I should let you find your own way.

I climbed the walls,
You hit the bars.
I am from Venus,
You are from Mars.
You got your brand new friends




And I got a broken heart.
Doesn't matter who we are

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Natalie Imbruglia's song Scars are about the aftermath of a failed relationship. The first verse talks about trying to find a way to heal from the pain caused by the breakup. The singer is questioning if this feeling is just a part of the healing process and if there exists another way to get over the pain. She reflects on how she was left in the middle of the pain, creating a void of uncertainty about moving forward. But the other person said they promised to work things out, so the singer is attempting to lean on that assurance.


The chorus touches on how the two parties handle the heartbreak differently - the singer climbed the walls while the other person hit the bars. Their personalities and approaches to the pain also differ. The singer identifies as being from Venus, a planet associated with love, while the other person is from Mars which is commonly associated with war or conflict. They've moved on with new friends, but the scars from the breakup remain, and this pain is something that everyone goes through.


The second verse continues the theme of uncertainty and confusion. The singer is unsure if the other person is going in the wrong direction and if they will continue to provide protection, comfort or support during this difficult time. The singer also suggests it may be best to let the other person find their own way, indicating they need time and space to heal.


Line by Line Meaning

Is this part, is this part,
Questioning if the tough and painful experiences are just a normal and expected part of moving forward.


Of the process, of the process?
Questioning if these difficult moments are just a required part of life's journey.


Can I find another way 'round,
Wondering if there is a less hurtful, less painful path to take.


Other way round, round the pain?
Asking if there is any way to avoid or lessen the emotional anguish of difficult experiences.


Cuz you've left me here in the middle of it
Expressing feelings of abandonment and being left alone to deal with something hard.


Said I'll work it out, I promise
Recalling empty promises from someone who has left and feeling doubtful of their sincerity.


I don't know how we got here in the first place.
Musing on the mystery of how things went so wrong, feeling lost and unable to understand.


I climbed the walls,
Visualizing the feeling of being trapped and needing a way out.


You hit the bars.
Visualizing someone else being a prisoner as well, but doing nothing to free themselves.


I am from Venus,
Highlighting differences and incompatibilities between two people.


You are from Mars.
Further emphasizing how the two people in the relationship are incompatible and have different worldviews.


You got your brand new friends.
Feeling replaced and forgotten by someone who has moved on and made new friends.


And I got a broken heart.
Expressing the emotional pain and sadness of feeling abandoned and hurt by someone you cared for.


Doesnt matter who we are
Implying that difficult breakups and experiences are universal and happen to everyone, regardless of their status or identity.


Everyone has their scars.
Reinforcing the idea that everyone goes through painful experiences that leave emotional scars.


There's a place, there's a place,
Thinking about a metaphorical place to go that might help cope with painful experiences.


That I'm heading, that I'm heading.
Feeling determined to move on from the past and find a way forward.


Need to know, are you coming,
Wondering if someone else will join on the journey towards healing and recovery.


Are you coming, telling me?
Requesting communication and openness from someone who may be distant or unresponsive.


Cuz you're heading in the wrong direction
Feeling hurt and disappointed by someone who is going in a direction that is not aligned with moving forward and healing.


Just as I need your protection.
Expressing vulnerability and a need for support from someone who may not be able or willing to provide it.


Maybe I should let you find your own way.
Considering the possibility that it might be better to heal alone and let someone else come to their own conclusions about what they need to do.




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