Calling Me Home
Patty Griffin Lyrics


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Anytime you say it with heart
Anytime you're falling apart
When you're washing the sheets
Any stranger you meet
When there's somebody waving goodbye

You're coming home to me, just remember
You're coming home to me

It's a world full of bar rooms and alleys
Of blue nights and red river valleys
When you feel like a shirt and a tie
Or like dirt
Or a lion and no one can see

You're coming home to me, just remember
You're coming home to me

When you get to that place
That's just under the stars
Hanging over the tree
At a quarter to three
When you get there you'll know
That's as far as you go
When you get there you'll see
You were already free
When you get there you'll la la la la la la

When you're lost and you're found
And you're found and you're lost
When you're dancing with no one around





You're coming home to me, just remember
You're coming home to me

Overall Meaning

In "Coming Home to Me," Patty Griffin expresses her devotion and commitment to a person she loves. Throughout the song, she reminds them that no matter where they go or what they experience in life, they are always coming back home to her. The verse "Anytime you say it with heart, anytime you're falling apart" emphasizes that no matter what kind of emotions they are feeling, good or bad, they can always find solace and support in her love for them. Griffin's use of the metaphor, "It's a world full of bar rooms and alleys, Of blue nights and red river valleys," paints a picture of a chaotic and uncertain world, but also highlights that her love is a constant source of stability in the midst of this unpredictability.


Further on, the lyrics mention a particular place under the stars, where one might arrive at a quarter to three, suggesting that this time symbolizes the darkest moment of one's journey. But the song assures the listener that in that despairing moment, their liberation is found, and they will realize that they were always free. The song culminates with the idea that the person might feel lost, found, lost again, but ultimately, they will always find their way back home to Griffin's love.


Overall, the song's message is one of unwavering and unconditional love, a love that is always present, no matter the circumstance. The song tells the listener that they are never alone and can always anchor themselves in Griffin's love.


Line by Line Meaning

Anytime you say it with heart
Whenever you speak truthfully and from your heart


Anytime you're falling apart
Whenever you feel broken or lost


When you're washing the sheets
During the mundane tasks of daily life


Any stranger you meet
Any person you encounter along your journey


When there's somebody waving goodbye
When you see someone leaving your life


You're coming home to me, just remember
You will always have a place in my heart


It's a world full of bar rooms and alleys
Life is unpredictable and full of challenges


Of blue nights and red river valleys
There are moments of both serenity and turmoil


When you feel like a shirt and a tie
When you feel like conforming to societal norms


Or like dirt
When you feel worthless or insignificant


Or a lion and no one can see
When you feel powerful but misunderstood


When you get to that place
When you reach a point in your journey


That's just under the stars
A moment of clarity and awe


Hanging over the tree
A natural beauty that surrounds us


At a quarter to three
A specific moment in time


When you get there you'll know
You will have an innate understanding


That's as far as you go
You have reached the end of your journey


When you get there you'll see
You will gain a new perspective


You were already free
You were never truly held back by your limitations


When you're lost and you're found
The ebb and flow of life's journey


And you're found and you're lost
The cyclical nature of growth and change


When you're dancing with no one around
When you find joy in solitude




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: PATRICIA J. GRIFFIN

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Comments from YouTube:

@kristinpeterson3579

Thank you for putting this up as its difficult to find. Everytime i hear this song it goes right to my heart for both my daughter and my own mother. Love her voice and this beautiful song.

@robertandkristinhall5006

Can't believe I posted that 5 years ago. Still rings as true as ever. My daughter is now 12. It's been a process of letting go of my baby and accepting the young woman she is becoming. You never understand until you have one of your own.

@michellemallen9496

My absolute favorite song ....thank you ❤️

@r____7548

nice voice

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