Better Man
Pearl Jam(???) Lyrics


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Waitin', watchin' the clock, it's four o'clock, it's got to stop
Tell him, take no more, she practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man
She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Oh

Talkin' to herself, there's no one else who needs to know
She tells herself, oh
Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew it, now she swears he's gone

She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man
She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
She lies and says she still loves him, can't find a better man
She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Yeah

She loved him, yeah, she don't want to leave this way
She feeds him, yeah, that's why she'll be back again

Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man




Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man

Overall Meaning

"Better Man" by Pearl Jam is a song about an abusive relationship that the singer is struggling to leave. The song starts with her waiting for her abuser to come home, as she is going to confront him and tell him that she is leaving him. The singer pretends to be asleep as the man enters the room and looks over her, feeling helpless and trapped.


In the second verse, the singer is talking to herself and reminiscing about a time when she was a strong woman, waiting for someone to come along and bring happiness to her life. She realizes that she was tricked into thinking that her abuser was that person, but now she knows that he is only bringing her pain.


The chorus of the song repeats the line "Can't find a better man" multiple times, showing the singer's struggle to find a way out of the abusive relationship. She feels trapped and unable to escape, but she still loves him and continues to feed him, knowing that he will come back. The song ends with the chorus repeating one last time, emphasizing the singer's feeling of being trapped in the relationship.


Overall, "Better Man" is a powerful song about the complexities of abusive relationships and the struggle to leave them. It shows the mental and emotional toll that these relationships can take on people, as well as the difficulty in finding a way out.


Line by Line Meaning

Waitin', watchin' the clock, it's four o'clock, it's got to stop
She is tired of waiting for him to come home, and the clock ticking only makes it worse for her.


Tell him, take no more, she practices her speech
She has decided to confront her partner and has been rehearsing what she wants to say to him.


As he opens the door, she rolls over Pretends to sleep as he looks her over
She pretends to be asleep to avoid a conversation with him and to hide the emotions that she is feeling right now.


She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man Can't find a better man Can't find a better man Oh
She knows that he is not the best partner for her, but she keeps telling herself that she loves him because she cannot find anyone better. She is holding on to the false hope that he will change and become the man she truly wants.


Talkin' to herself, there's no one else who needs to know She tells herself, oh Memories back when she was bold and strong And waiting for the world to come along Swears she knew it, now she swears he's gone
She talks to herself to remind herself of the strong and independent person she used to be, but she feels like she has lost herself in this relationship. She knows he has changed and is no longer the man she fell in love with. She is realizing that he is not the right partner for her and has finally come to terms with it.


She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man She lies and says she still loves him, can't find a better man She dreams in colour, she dreams in red, can't find a better man Can't find a better man Can't find a better man Yeah
Despite knowing that he is not right for her, she still lies to herself and says that she loves him because she can't find anyone better. She continues to dream of a better life with a man who truly loves her and looks for her happiness instead of his own.


She loved him, yeah, she don't want to leave this way She feeds him, yeah, that's why she'll be back again Can't find a better man Can't find a better man Can't find a better man Can't find a better man
She loves him, but not in the right way. She does not want to leave him and the life they have built together. However, deep down, she knows that she cannot continue like this. She feels responsible for him because she has been taking care of him, but this only reinforces her feeling that she cannot find a better man. She is stuck in a cycle of doubt, frustration, and love.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: PAUL SIMON BROWN, NIARA ARAIN SCARLETT, PAUL REGAN GALLARD, MATT WARD

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@JohnSmith-xt2dm

Waiting, watching the clock
It's four o'clock, It's got to stop
Tell him, take no more
She practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

She lies and says she's in love with him,
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color,
She dreams in red,
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Oh..

Talking to herself
There's no one else who needs to know
She tells herself

Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew it,
Now she swears he's gone

She lies and says she's in love with him,
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color,
She dreams in red,
Can't find a better man

She lies and says she still loves him,
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color,
She dreams in red,
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man

She loved him, yeah
She don't want to leave this way
She needs him, yeah
That's why she'll be back again

Can't find a better man (can't find a better man)
Can't find a better man (can't find a better man)
Can't find a better man (can't find a better man)
Can't find a better... man...



@pistolpetehurley

Waitin', watchin' the clock, it's four o'clock, it's got to stop
Tell him, take no more, she practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Oh

Talkin' to herself, there's no one else who needs to know; she tells herself
Oh
Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew it, now she swears he's gone

She lies and says she's in love with him, can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
She lies and says she still loves him, can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red, can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Yeah

She loved him, yeah... she don't want to leave this way
She feeds him, yeah... that's why she'll be back again
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better... man



@anitar2928

Waitin', watchin' the clock
It's four o'clock
It's got to stop
Tell him
"Take no more"
She practices her speech as he opens the door
She rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over

[Hook]
She lies and says she's in love with him
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Oh

[Verse 2]
Talking to herself
"There's no one else who needs to know"
She tells herself
Memories back when she was bold and strong
And waiting for the world to come along
Swears she knew him, now she swears he's gone
[Hook]
She lies and says she's in love with him
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can't find a better man
She lies and says she still loves him
Can't find a better man
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man
Can't find a better man

[Bridge]
She loved him, yeah
She don't want to leave this way
She feeds him, yeah
That's why she'll be back again

[Hook]
Can't find a better man (Can't find a better man)
Can't find a better man (Can't find a better man)
Can't find a better man (Can't find a better man)
Can't find a better man



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